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As the saying goes, when the forest is big, there are birds.
Although the words are not good, they are summed up to the point that this world, absurd people, strange things, endless.
Just like the protagonist of today's story.
Zhang Shu, a 46-year-old divorced woman, sees that her belly is getting bigger and bigger, and she is about to have a child.
But who the child is, how to ask, she does not say.
The only thing that is certain is that the child is definitely not ex-husband Yang Chuanxin — they have been divorced for more than three years and have not been in contact for nearly a year.
Why divorce?
(Zhang Shu)
It turned out that when his son was 15 years old, he did not want to go to school because he was unwell, but Zhang Shu insisted on sending him to school.
The son ran away from home in a fit of rage, but accidentally fell off the bridge, resulting in a fourth-degree disability and unable to take care of himself.
In the face of the misfortune of his own son, Zhang Shu not only did not look for reasons from himself, but also did not show pain and guilt.
On the contrary, the first thing she thought of was to have a second child with her husband and raise a "trumpet".
In the future, it is good to send your own pension to the end.
At that time, Yang Chuanxin firmly disagreed:
"Having another one, the son will feel that we have abandoned him, which is not conducive to his physical recovery."
Besides, they are not rich, and the couple is older and not suitable for reproduction.
However, Zhang Shu's attitude was very resolute, one quarrel and two quarrels, the family was not peaceful, and the two people actually divorced for this reason.
Now, Zhang Shu finally conceived her second child as she wished.
But she quit her job, she has no money, her life is a problem, and where does she have the ability to manage her children.
Sometimes, the more incompetent a person is, the more he does not know the height of the sky.
I don't know who gave her the courage, but before giving birth, she actually found her ex-husband and asked him to take care of her and the upcoming child.
The ex-husband is really a wronged boss, and he can't hide from raising children for his ex-wife after divorce.
The kind Yang Chuanxin still has some feelings for his ex-wife who has lived together for many years.
Therefore, he has been paying for and taking good care of Zhang Shu during pregnancy.
But who the hell is the child?
Why did Zhang Shu find an ex-husband?
No matter how kind Yang Chuanxin is, he must have a spectrum in his heart.
Even if you are wronged, it must be clear.
The child lands, but there is no father
Women who are pregnant will experience physical and psychological discomfort.
The young woman is still suffering, not to mention Zhang Shu, who is already 46 years old.
Zhang Shu, who was unwell, could not work and suddenly lost his financial resources.
She also had no savings, which led to the inability to pay the rent and the money to go to the maternity check-up.
As her belly grew larger, she became more and more inconvenienced in life, and she even had trouble wearing a shoe.
(Zhang Shu's ex-husband Yang Chuanxin was interviewed)
If this continues, if there is an emergency, what should she do alone?
I really didn't expect it to be so difficult.
Remembering the pregnancy reaction at that time, Zhang Shu said with a sad face.
Nearly half a hundred years old, do not know how easy it is to have children?
But Zhang Shu had to do this forcefully, and this experience, she finally softened.
After pondering the people around him one by one, Zhang Shu's mind was only left with her ex-husband.
No one but him was willing and no one could help him.
When she was 7 months pregnant, Zhang Shu directly moved back to her ex-husband's house.
Yang Chuanxin watched his ex-wife come back with a big belly, and his heart was a series of question marks.
But at this point, there are still past feelings, and he can't always drive a pregnant woman with a big belly out of the house.
I couldn't drive her away, after all, she was the mother of my child.
Yang Chuanxin sighed.
In the face of his mother's actions, the son's heart has always been hateful - he knows why his mother wants to have a second child.
Since she came home with a big belly, her son has not taken the initiative to call her mom.
Yang Chuanxin recalled.
Although he knew that he was ridiculous, he had nowhere to go now, and Zhang Shu had to live with a thick skin.
To this end, Yang Chuanxin also went to Zhang Shu's parents to see if they could take care of their daughters.
But the attitude of Zhang Shu's parents also made Yang Chuanxin helpless:
What can we do, don't look for us, we have long since severed ties with her.
Zhang Shu's brother also said bluntly:
At first, we had already told Zhang Shu that children could not be born.
The good words are exhausted, she still has to give birth, and now we have no way.
Since it was her own choice, she had to take on the responsibility herself.
To what extent can a person "do" it, all relatives can scorn it.
(Zhang Shu's father)
In fact, if the mother's family could be relied upon, Zhang Shu would have gone back a long time ago.
She had already carefully screened the roads she could take and the people she could find.
The problem is that she should have taken responsibility, but she passed it on to her innocent and kind ex-husband.
After living home, Zhang Shu's food, clothing, living, and pregnancy examinations were all served by Yang Chuanxin, and he contributed money.
During the day, when he had to go to work, he got up early to make lunch for his ex-wife and son;
If his ex-wife wants a maternity check-up, he will take leave to accompany him;
The ex-wife needed to give the fetus more nutrition, so he went to the vegetable market to buy some fish and meat and make it for his ex-wife to eat...
But these meticulous cares are not what they should be.
It was only because of Yang Chuanxin's only remaining affection for Zhang Shu, as well as his kind heart.
It is reasonable to say that a person who has a normal plan for life will definitely make the next arrangements in this relatively comfortable day.
But Zhang Shu did not.
She had no plans to go to the child's biological father or what to do after the child was born.
She just accepted everything her ex-husband had done.
She was not in a hurry, but she was anxious to upset Yang Chuanxin.
At this time, for the mother and son who had nothing to do with him, he had advanced tens of thousands of yuan in maternity examination fees and living expenses.
Until the child was born on the ground, Yang Chuanxin, who was guarding the door of the delivery room, still did not know anything about the child's biological father and Zhang Shu's future plans.
He held the new life of 8 pounds and 3 pairs in his hand, crying was not, nor was laughing.
(Yang Chuanxin holding a newborn child)
Having taken care of mother and son for so long, you can't always raise them yourself in the future, right?
Therefore, he forced Zhang Shu to say the child's biological father.
I can't raise you for the rest of my life, and I take care of you only temporarily.
Don't think of me as a lifesaver, use me here as a haven.
In the end, how much hidden feelings there was, so that Zhang Shu refused to open his mouth and say who the child's biological father was, Yang Chuanxin was puzzled.
However, the real reason is that Zhang Shu himself does not know who the child's biological father really is.
Seeing that Yang Chuanxin's attitude was so resolute, Zhang Shu finally relied on his own feelings and said a man.
Substitute driver Tan Jihua.
The mystery of the biological father was finally revealed
In fact, in the three years of separation from her ex-husband, Zhang Shu had ambiguous relations with many men.
She confessed that it was not until the child was born and saw the child's appearance that she guessed the child's biological father.
And whether Tan Jihua is the child's biological father, she is not sure.
Zhang Shu recalled that when working in the pharmacy, Tan Jihua launched a warm pursuit of himself.
She was originally not cold to Tan Jihua, but under the fierce attack of the other party, a dew love affair occurred in the middle of the push and half.
But the next day, Zhang Shu blackened Tan Jihua.
I didn't know him well and didn't want to develop further.
At the same time, she is also entangled with a man surnamed Lin.
After some time, Zhang Shu found out that she was pregnant.
Originally thinking about having a second child, she was very happy and felt that this was a gift from Heaven.
She didn't think much about it, didn't think about going to the father of the child, and didn't think about how to take care of the child in the future.
I wanted to have a second child.
Zhang Shu said.
Selfish people, only think about themselves.
(Zhang Shu at her ex-husband's house)
It's just that she overestimated herself.
When she found out that everything was starting to get difficult, he went to find Tan Jihua.
When he heard Zhang Shu say that he might be pregnant with his own child, Tan Jihua was both shocked and ridiculous.
How could it be that we got pregnant once, once?
Zhang Shu said at the time that he just wanted to borrow some money to have a child and did not want him to be responsible.
However, in order not to affect her family, and to avoid disputes and troubles, Tan Jihua not only did not give her money, but also simply resigned and changed her phone number.
Zhang Shu was unable to contact him afterwards.
After the child was born, there was no household registration, and it fell into the ex-husband's house;
With no place to live, he went back to his ex-husband's house for confinement.
Zhang Shu eats the confinement meal made by her ex-husband every day and accepts the care of her ex-husband.
Yang Chuanxin's salary of 3,000 yuan per month was almost spent on the child and Zhang Shu:
Milk powder, diapers, clothes, tissues...
Each item is not a small number for Yang Chuanxin.
Originally, I wanted to take a year off and take my son to Shanghai to play, but now the annual leave is gone, and the money is gone.
And you can't leave her alone.
Yang Chuanxin was helpless.
After the confinement, Yang Chuanxin gave Zhang Shu 5,000 yuan and let the mother and son return to the rental house.
You know, this is Yang Chuanxin's salary for nearly two months, which has been counted as benevolent and righteous.
I thought that the matter was over, yang Chuanxin could resume normal life with his son.
As a result, after a while, Zhang Shu moved back home again on the grounds that the rental house had no air conditioning and was too hot.
The child is really pitiful, the day is so hot, it is unbearable.
Yang Chuanxin said while holding the child in his hand to feed.
(Yang Chuanxin feeds the child)
And Zhang Shu, who accepted so much help from her ex-husband, never said a word of thanks from beginning to end.
When Yang Chuanxin accused her of being irresponsible, she only responded with evasion.
Compared to being alive, how about being blamed.
Zhang Shu was so cheeky that he lived for another two months.
During this time, they finally found Tan Jihua through the TV program.
When such a thing happened, Tan Jihua's wife wanted to divorce him, and his son ignored him.
He said of himself as "what a wrongdoer!" ”
Absolutely could not be mine!
Tan Jihua's words are convincing.
In order to prove his innocence, Tan Jihua agreed to go for a paternity test.
During the identification process, he never said a word.
For Zhang Shu and the child, it was even more of an indifferent expression.
While waiting for the results, Zhang Shu has always said that the child's chin is very similar to Tan Jihua.
"What's the use of like that?" Tan Jihua was furious.
But when the results came out, he was lost.
According to the results of the paternity test:
The child's biological father is Tan Jihua!
Seeing this result, he was like a deflated leather ball, suddenly slumped on the ground, unable to speak for half a day.
(Tan Jihua's reaction after hearing the results)
This is good, the wife is determined to divorce herself, and the son will no longer recognize himself.
The responsibility of taking care of the mother and son fell on him.
This child is a disaster.
I have a heart that wants to die.
I can't blame her for this, or I am a slut, if I do my duty, this matter will not be my turn.
Tan Jihua was extremely frustrated.
Having a home and a room, and still staining the flowers and weeds outside, this is called self-inflicted sins and not living.
It was a happy event to have a child in middle age, but the birth of this child made everyone around the scene very sad.
Is it the child's fault?
Of course not.
Children are innocent, and the fault is wrong with these irresponsible parents.
I thought that if I found my biological father, Zhang Shu and the child would have a home.
Unexpectedly, within a few days, Tan Jihua disappeared again.
At this time, there is a problem with the child's health.
Poor child, turned out to be a burden
While the biological father is gone, there is a problem with the child's body.
The person who was busy was Yang Chuanxin.
He accompanied Zhang Shu and the child to the hospital, and the doctor's examination result was that the child's development was lagging behind and needed to be hospitalized for observation and rehabilitation.
But treatment costs money, and who pays for it?
Zhang Shuke had no money.
This time, Tan Jihua must be found.
They simply called the police, contacted lawyers, and turned to television reporters for help.
Tan Jihua was finally found, and under the coordination of the lawyer, Tan Jihua made a compromise.
There is evil in human nature, and only the law can control such evil.
(Tan Jihua and Zhang Shu)
Tan Jihua learned that if he continued to play disappearing, it was illegal, and simply sat down to actively solve the problem.
In the studio of the TV station, Zhang Shu, Tan Jihua, lawyers, and reporters discussed the matter together.
Tan Jihua's monthly salary is about 5,000 yuan, and there is a foreign debt of 50,000 yuan.
For Zhang Shu's mother and son, he said that he could pay 1,000 yuan per month for child support.
But make it clear that you don't want custody of your children.
When Zhang Shu heard this amount, he directly shouted: "How is 1000 enough?" ”
But for Tan Jihua, one thousand a month has fulfilled his legal responsibilities.
Subsequently, Zhang Shu said something that surprised everyone:
Then I don't care, I can't afford this child.
I can't afford to eat, and I'm going to send him to a welfare home.
Scatter your own home, toss other people's homes apart, and go to great lengths to give birth to a second child.
In the end, he said such irresponsible things.
For this woman, is life really like a child's play?
The reporter couldn't look at it anymore, and his emotions became excited:
When you were born, how could you not have imagined that you could not afford to raise this child?
What's the use of saying that now?
Since this child has been born, you parents must be responsible for the end!
In this passage, Tan Jihua turned his back and was speechless, but Zhang Shu did not care at all and continued to pour bitter water.
In the end, the negotiation between the two failed, and Zhang Shu decided to sue Tan Jihua.
For children under the age of 2, custody is mostly awarded to the mother.
In the end, Zhang Shu still got the custody of the child and accepted a maintenance fee of 1,000 yuan per month.
In the face of this result, Zhang Shu can only and must accept.
Whatever the method, she will raise this child.
Tan Jihua took on his due responsibilities, and Yang Chuanxin did more than enough.
Zhang Shu, who is obstinate in doing things and does not consider the consequences, must eventually learn to bear his own choices alone.
(At the beginning, Zhang Shu himself signed a consent form for caesarean section surgery)
Today, how Zhang Shu and the child are, we don't know.
I just hope that she can take on the responsibility of being a mother and treat her children well.
Weigh it up before making a choice
Pythagoras once said, "Think before you do it, so as not to do stupid things." Because sloppy actions and speech are despicable characteristics. ”
Because of his childishness and stubbornness, Zhang Shu stirred up his family to pieces.
He also harmed his own young son, who was born without a father, like a leather ball that no one wanted, and was kicked around.
A good new life, but do not feel the love of parents that should have been.
Because of his sloppiness, Tan Jihua ignored his wife and children, and only thought about a momentary pleasure, which led to the end of his middle-aged wife and separation.
Both of them have been morally condemned by society and their families.
If you do something you shouldn't do, you will be punished as you deserve.
In this world, how many people can be like Yang Chuanxin, with both a sense of responsibility and kindness.
For the disabled son, do not abandon, close care, no complaints;
For the ex-wife, if you can help, you can help, and take care of everything;
For a child who has nothing to do with himself, he is even more meticulously cared for.
He even said to Zhang Shu:
You don't have to pay back the money I give you, as long as you're worthy of your own children.
(For Zhang Shu's mother and son, Yang Chuanxin after they were busy)
Being a person, a responsibility, a responsibility, if there is no such thing, you can not support a good life.
Life is alive, and when making choices, please weigh them up again and again.
Don't know regret until things are set and the wood is a boat.
In this way, it will only harm others and harm oneself.
Just like Zhang Shu in the story, because he gave birth to a second child, he did so many absurd things, killed two children, and also harmed his ex-husband.
If you were her ex-husband Yang Chuanxin, would you help her like this?
Author: Zhu Xiaolu & Yihui'er
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