Living soberly is the brightest look in life.
In the blink of an eye, the Spring Festival is coming.
This year, we have worked hard and fought hard; this year, we have laughter and tears.
After a whole year of hard work, thank yourself so much.
Salute yourself, your every effort not to be seen will be doubled in the future.
01
About yourself
This year, I understood: born to live, life is not easy.
People live once, don't always think about who to live for, who can live for you?
Take good care of yourself and stop being tired! Because there is only one of you in this world.
This year, I learned: no matter how kind you are, you are told a lot.
It is difficult for people to do, and it is even more difficult for good people in the mouths of others to do, so they know how to live with their hearts.
If others want to calculate, it is up to him to worry about it.
Only by ignoring right and wrong can we be relaxed and happy, not afraid of words, and only then can we be at ease.
This year, I understood: life is boiling water, whether hot or cold, as long as there is a suitable temperature.
Life is the taste, no matter whether it is sweet and sour, bitter or spicy, as long as there is a suitable taste.
Everyone lives their own life, has nothing to do with others, and their own happiness is more important than anything else!
This year, I understood: feelings, can not be perfunctory; people's hearts, can not play; fate, can not be squandered.
Only by treating love with affection can we have true feelings; only when we love each other equally can we have a real heart.
This year, I understood: over time, I may not be emotional, but I will be able to see people's hearts.
Whether people are close to each other or not, in addition to blood relations, also depends on whether they are communicative. Treat your friends sincerely, and you will definitely harvest precious friendships.
This year, I understood: life is impermanent!
The older you get, the fewer the days. Watching some familiar people around me leave, let me know how to cherish the present and live every day with my heart.
This year, I understood: sometimes there must be a fate, and there is no time to demand it in fate!
Don't envy others, often think about what you have, only to find that you are also living well!
This year, I understood: people, in fact, do not need too many things, as long as they are healthy and live, sincere love, it is also a kind of wealth.
If you can't think about it, you don't want it, if you can't get it, you don't want it, it's hard for yourself, why bother! Life is not perfect, simple is good; life is not perfect, happy is good!
This year, I understood: the greatest success in a person's life is the success of marriage; the greatest happiness is the happiness of the family.
The most important understanding is the understanding between husband and wife; the most important concern that cannot be ignored is the concern between husband and wife. A hundred years of repair to cross the same boat, a thousand years to repair a sleep together.
Only husband and wife are the ones who accompany each other throughout their lives. We must cherish each other's marital feelings and work together until we are old.
This year, I understood: family, with love, is the harbor; no love, is the cage.
Money, when it is spent, is valuable; when it is saved, it is number.
Life, with the heart, is life; without the heart, is to live.
Time, cherished, is gold; wasted, is flowing water.
Earning clean money, living a stable day, and sleeping soundly are the greatest blessings in a person's life!
02
About health
Life, without health, there is nothing!
The real society is a society where interests are paramount.
So, we are constantly busy for money.
From day to night, from young to old, from black to white, as long as you still have a little strength, you will never stop.
So panda eyes, wrinkles, white hair, and disease came to us early.
Life is originally bitter and short, and your approach makes life even more bitter.
We keep staying up late to earn money, but is it allowed by health?
We are constantly busy for the sake of vanity, but does the body allow it?
We always feel that only by staying up late can we appear to be busy.
We always feel that only by being busy can we get everything.
However, please remember that there are some things that you can't exchange for staying up late and busy.
Nowadays, people always fall into the eyes of money and feel that with money, there is everything. But in fact, with money, you lose everything.
With money, there may be a lot of friends and relatives, but there is no sincerity; with money, you may be able to buy a lot of what you want, but there is no sense of expectation.
With money, you may be able to exchange for a car and a house, but you can't exchange it for health.
Without health, what about having money? Without health, there is nothing.
Money, what is it? It's just something outside the body, and after death, it is not empty-handed?
Name, what is it? It's just a title, and it will gradually be forgotten after death.
The body is the capital of the revolution, and only with a healthy body can we be qualified to talk about dreams.
The beauty of the future is not how much money you have, but whether you can stay healthy.
Please remember that no matter how much pressure you are, everything should be considered for your own health.
To remember:
Don't show off your money, in the hospital that's like paper.
Don't show off your work, you fall down and countless people will do better than you do.
Don't show off your room, you go, that's someone else's nest.
Don't show off your car, you're gone, and the car keys are in someone else's hand! The only thing you can show off is: your health!
When everyone else is gone, you can still bask in the sun, drink tea, and enjoy a healthy life.
Please be kind to yourself, because the parts are not easy to match, the price is extremely expensive, and there is no stock!
Life is subtraction, seeing one side and one side less. So the most popular saying in today's society is not how much money you have now, but how many more years you can live.
03
About the family
What is a couple?
"A hundred years of cultivation can be in the same boat, and a thousand years of cultivation can be a common pillow."
Husband and wife are like two legs, to stand firm, to walk, no one can do without anyone.
Why is one leg always complaining about the other?
If there are couples who say that they have been married for decades without contradictions or disagreements, it can be asserted that at least one of them is not responsible for the family and does not care about each other.
Because marriage is a comfortable annoyance. Love for a lifetime, quarrel for a lifetime, endure for a lifetime, this is husband and wife.
What is home?
The home is run jointly by husband and wife, weaving dreams and bittersweet and sour nests.
Home is a burden, home is a responsibility; home is a sincere treatment of each other, and home is a slow journey to be able to grow old in vain.
Home is all about the emotions of being with your family.
When you have it, it is as ordinary as chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea; when you lose it, you can't get it back with your heart and liver.
The family is not a place of reason, and the way of husband and wife is "rarely confused".
If neither of the two people wants to be confused, the family will never be at peace.
What is marriage?
Marriage is like a table of wine, love is the staple food, tolerance, understanding, trust, respect is a dish, appreciation, humor, fun is wine and drink.
Only a banquet with the above varieties at the same time can be regarded as a perfect banquet.
I hope that everyone will eat comfortably, eat calmly, and eat forever at the wedding table, until the last breath of life.
What is happiness?
To have a home is to be happy.
Home is a relaxing place to feel comfortable and at ease. Tired, bored, hurt, sore; and home to go back to.
At home, you can be completely open, you can have complete trust, you can be fully understood; having a home is enough to make us feel satisfied.
Having a partner is happiness.
The road of life is more troublesome, there is a person who can accompany himself through the ups and downs, support each other, jointly support a warm home, and when he is old, he is still by his side, which is "the hand of the son, and the son with the old".
Having children is happiness.
Children are the continuation of your own life, and when you watch your children grow up and pass it on from generation to generation, can you say that this is not a kind of happiness?
Having friends is happiness.
There are friends, happiness is shared, pain is comforted, troubles are listened to;
Whether you are around or far away, as long as you think of a few people who are thinking about themselves, you can realize that happiness is actually everywhere.
04
About the world
Remember: don't hurt the people who help you when you're short of money!
Borrowing money, that taste really hurts, no interest lending you is not money, but trust, is encouragement. Now people are afraid: standing to borrow money, kneeling to ask for debts.
When you lend it out, it is an emotion, and when you take it back, you are an enemy!
What is the hardest thing this year, when you are tight on your hands? Borrowing money is the hardest!
The person who is willing to lend you money must be your nobleman; nowadays, there are not many such nobles, and when they meet, they must cherish it for a lifetime.
Because money can't spend a lifetime, people who help you have only one purpose, that is, they hope that you can live better!
Cherish the person who is willing to spend money on you, whether this person is a relative, a lover or a blue face, or a friend, because money is not enough for anyone to spend;
The person who is willing to spend money on you is not because he has more money, nor because he is stupid, but at that moment he thinks that you are more important than money;
There are not many friends, but you are walking together in the wind and rain; no matter how long the love is, the emphasis is on responding to every need.
The so-called love truth: as long as you want, as long as I have; as long as you need, as long as I can.
The so-called righteousness: not the rhetoric of the proud, but the hand that pulls you at the critical moment.
Don't show off your money, dead that's just scrap paper; don't show off your house, you go, that's someone else's nest; don't show off your car, you leave, the car keys are in someone else's hand.
Money can never be earned, but life is limited, desperate can earn money, fight for money but can not earn life.
In this life, some people are willing to spend money on you, that is called happiness, be content; some people are willing to lend you money, that is called funding, do not forget; the money you can earn, that is called hard work, must be satisfied.
05
epilogue
Time flies so fast! This year, I have experienced a lot and understood a lot.
Every year that followed, I was more confident that I could live happily and live clearly!
This year, I thank my relatives and friends for spending every day with me, and I wish every friend of mine a good time!
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