The New Year is originally a joyous and cheerful thing, but how to celebrate the New Year between relatives is worth discussing, and proper handling between relatives is the icing on the cake, otherwise it will be self-defeating.
First, the relatives should stay away from each other, and the mutual restraint of the relatives is not for the sake of the children to run the small family well, and the relatives maintain an indispensable distance, even if the customs or habits are different, there will be no conflict.
The New Year is a season of paying attention to customs, and it can be said that the customs are the most intensive and concentrated throughout the year, and since the relatives come from two different places, they will have their own customs. If you don't celebrate the New Year together, even if there are many differences in customs, there will be no conflict, anyway, each year will pass. If the relatives get together for the New Year, large to customs, small to habits need to be integrated in a short period of time, the longer the time spent with each other, the more differences are exposed to customs or habits, there will be complaints between relatives and families, heavy will cause quarrels, contradictions will affect the child's small family from top to bottom, the New Year was originally a joyous festival, and did not want to let the feelings between relatives and families not advance or retreat.
Second, two families living together will feel awkward, even if they live together for a short time, they will feel uncomfortable, and even embarrassing situations will occur, not to mention that the child's small family is still an independent family, and three families will stage a drama.
The best relationship between relatives and families is to live their own lives, the child's small family can help, maintain the necessary distance from each other, distance is not estranged, but to build a firewall. Being polite and polite between relatives and families is the best mode of getting along, greeting each other during the New Year's Festival, getting together when there is something to discuss things, and when there is nothing to do, you can have less contact and less contact, so as to achieve mutual respect and courtesy exchanges. Since there are relatives who are not close enough to incense and neighbors usually hit the wall high, the relatives should also take this as a warning.
Third, it is still possible to eat two or three meals together between relatives and families during the New Year, if you live together every day, there will indeed be a variety of inconveniences, and if you get along with relatives for a long time, there will be a situation where you see people's hearts for a long time, and you can not use your strengths and avoid your weaknesses, but you may also lose more words or be close to each other in doing things.
Zengguang Xianwen once mentioned: Long-term living is despicable, frequent relatives are also alienated. Although the specific direction of the relationship lies in how relatives get along with each other, there is a great possibility that it will conform to the laws of historical development. It is not to trigger the contradictions of the child's small family, or to intensify the contradiction of the child's small family.
Conclusion: Unless the children and daughters are particularly compatible, do not easily try to be together for the New Year, the attempt is unsuccessful, it is very likely to damage the harmony of the child's small family.
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