When it comes to children's names, parents attach great importance to them. After all, it can accompany a person throughout their lives.
Parents name their children not only in hope for their future, but also in the cultural level of a family.
In the past, many names were taken by parents for the purpose of distinguishing between different children, and the good sound was secondary, mainly to make it catchy. Words like jade flower and dog leftovers were loved by parents when they took names.
Now, the names people take are more poetic and representative, such as Zi Meng, Shao Han, etc., all of which are good and allegorical.
But Chinese still has a large number of homophones, or the same word has different pronunciations, and it is easy to get the same name, which makes parents very headache.
Even if these words are good and called by more people, they are tasteless, and the repetition rate is particularly high, 30 children in a kindergarten, there are 9 Zi Han, 8 Zi Xuan.
As a result, many parents have begun to go through the dictionary, and strive to give their children a good name that is both good to hear and good in meaning, and the key is not to be renamed.
However, in such a situation, "strange characters", "complex names" and "harmonic confusion" have become hidden dangers one after another.
In the last final exam, a primary school student wrote down his name and didn't finish it for 10 minutes. Write rub, scrub write, rush to cry. The invigilator hurried up to ask the child what was wrong.
As a result, the child said his name was too complicated to write.
It turned out that the student's name was Cuan Yìxī. His grades are usually very good, but his name is always not written well. It takes more than 10 minutes to write a name each time. It was really hard for him, there were 72 paintings in three words.
The parent of the elementary school student said the name was chosen to reduce repetition and that the strokes were special. At first glance, they knew that it was their own child, and the meaning was good, and Yi meant good; Xi meant sunshine, mainly referring to the morning sun, but they did not expect to cause trouble for the child.
It can be seen that the influence of names on the life of students is multifaceted.
"B Yi" VS "Ning Yining"
There is no harm without contrast
● B one
Previously, the name of a primary school student became popular on the Internet because of "simple", to say how simple, but also from the stroke of this name, even the name with the surname is only 2 strokes, called B one.
The name is so ingenious that many people are asking their children's parents how they came up with this name.
Later, Bao Dad came forward to respond:
"In my study and work, I am always the second oldest in the millennium, so I want to give my children this name, let this name bring good luck to children, and everything can become the first."
Netizens have praised it after hearing it, and B-Ichi is really good to hear and use, and the meaning is also very good.
When going to school, not only can new students remember it as soon as they hear it, but the name is simple enough for elementary school students to write in 5 seconds, saving time answering questions.
● Ning Yining
There is also a primary school student named "Ning Yining", because his parents are surnamed Ning, using his parents' surname as a name, which means beautiful and touching, and the two overlapping words are also very simple, but this name teacher never dares to name names in class.
It turned out that the advertisement of "twisting and soaking" was too famous, as long as the name was called in the classroom, the atmosphere would be stirred up, and then it would be out of control, directly affecting the progress of the class.
Similar to Ning Yining, there is also a primary school student surnamed Fang.
Her parents wanted their daughter to be diligent and studious, so they named it a "study" word, and the name with the surname reads "Fangxue".
But after going to elementary school, the daughter began to become a little introverted and unhappy, so she asked the school teacher if there was something wrong with the daughter at school and whether she was bullied. The student's father did not think of it, because the daughter's name is pronounced "after school", and no teacher has dared to point out her name.
Two names that are also popular because of simplicity, but the circumstances are different, and names like Ning Yining are indeed simple, but too special, and it is not a good thing for children to receive excessive attention during their student years.
Some parents are keen to give their children alternative names, but they do not know that they have brought a lot of trouble to their children's student days.
Those students who became popular because their names were strange enough
1. "Glory of the King" and "Whampoa Military Academy" are on the list
Remember a few years ago, a baby girl in Shaanxi was named "Glory of the King" and successfully went to the household, and a cute girl in Chongqing also named "Whampoa Military Academy" and quickly became a school celebrity, these naming cases caused many netizens to watch.
2. Mount Jumulangma, which was born to reach the summit of the first peak
The name of 4 characters became popular, and the names of 5 characters followed, and with the posture of the world's first peak, it reached the top of the world's first peak as soon as it was born. Although it is not known whether elementary school students can afford the name, it is certain that it is eye-catching enough.
3. Where to go awkward to the harmonic stem
The following name can be reminiscent of the child's psychological embarrassment when the class teacher rolls the name.
Also, the reporter interviewed a woman before, her name is "Stone Change", at first it does not sound special, but read it twice to become "poop".
In addition, in society, sometimes it is rarely called in the form of a full name, usually a "small" word is added in front of the name, so this lady is gradually called "small change".
The girl said that every time she was called by name, she was eager to dig a hole and drill into it, so she wanted to change her name at one time.
How did the name affect the student years?
1． Affects the child's mental health
Everyone is full of yearning for beautiful things, and the name is the same, if we can have a good and beautiful name, in fact, invisibly will also enhance the child's self-confidence.
However, if a child's name is not good, or even ambiguous, the child will also lose self-confidence, and at the same time, he will have an inferiority complex and dare not introduce himself generously in front of others.
Over time, the accumulation of such emotions will make primary school students fear normal interpersonal communication, and then develop introverts and non-talkative habits.
2. Affect academic performance
For elementary school students, whether it is daily study, life or formal examinations, the name must be used.
The primary school period is the time when the child's psychology is fragile and sensitive, and the students whose names are easily ignored by the teacher will naturally think that they have been ignored, and then the enthusiasm for learning will be greatly hit, which will directly affect the improvement of academic performance.
How parents should give their children
What about a nice and learning-friendly name?
The name is the first gift that parents give to their children, and they must be cautious and cautious. Pits like the "strange characters", "complex names" and "harmonic confusion" we mentioned above should be avoided again.
So, how can parents help their children get a good name? Listen to the following suggestions
First, use beautiful things to name
Good things can make people feel happy when they recall, so it is a good idea to name them according to some things that have something good to them.
For example, if you associate it with the moon, roses, the sea, etc., or refer to things that your parents have a special commemorative significance, people can feel beautiful when they think of it.
When taking a name, adding these words to the name can make the name beautiful and rich in meaning.
Second, take names with the help of poetry allusions
If parents really have no idea about naming their children, they can look at the Poetry Sutra and the Compendium of Materia Medica for inspiration, but it is not recommended to copy it directly.
It is also a good way to grasp a meaningful sentence from a poetic allusion and choose one or two words from it to extend.
Finally, the name is a unique business card on the child's body from birth. As a parent, you must be cautious when naming your child, think more and consider more, and give your child a good name that is pleasant and refreshing.
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