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The child's name carries the love and blessing of the parents for the child. Many parents rack their brains to give their children a good name.
For children, the name is not only an identity, but also a person's face, and a good name will make people look at it and be impressed.
Some parents make their children's names very cumbersome, and some parents name their children too casually, making people cry and laugh.
There is a primary school student because the name is too simple to burst the red, the student's name attracted the attention of the teacher, because there are only 2 consecutive surnames, that is, "B one", this name is too rare, no wonder the teacher will feel surprised.
Although the name B is strange, at least we can all read it. However, the same "B" surname, another parent actually named the child "B0".
Although the name is also 2 strokes, but the parent is too hasty to name the child, this circle-like 〇, in the student's name reads ling.
B and B0, the name is only two, but the latter is more rare, whether it is the parents to save trouble to take an extremely simple name, or because they want to make the child's name more special, parents to give the child such a name is too different, it is really difficult to make the child satisfied and feel happy.
Parents name their children, do not be too innovative, but also avoid these 5 misunderstandings:
1. Ambiguous names
Some names look like there is no problem from the surface, but when they are read in Mandarin, the taste changes completely, which will make people feel that the name is not suitable.
There is a pair of twin names in Shanghai that have aroused heated discussion among netizens, who have been ridiculed by netizens for the harmonic sound "up and down left and right", what is going on?
It turned out that the twins, one baby with the father's surname, the surname of Shang Xia, is Shang Xia; the other baby and the mother homophone different words, called Zuo Yu.
The names of the two babies are Shang Xia and Zuo Yu, no wonder it is laughed at as "up and down left and right", although the baby's name is very special, but look at the mother's name is "left and right", instantly understand the mother's approach, perhaps in their view, the child's name has the most important meaning.
In fact, ambiguous names are easy to misunderstand, which will cause inconvenience to children's lives, especially if the mother and a child's name are homophones, which is more likely to cause confusion.
Parents should name their children, both catchy, but also easy to remember the meaning, but also to avoid ambiguous names, after all, the name is for convenience, not to cause trouble to the child.
2. Misleading harmonic words
Not all consonant words are suitable for use as children's names. Some harmonic characters as names are also easy for children to be laughed at by others, and will also hurt children's self-esteem, and it is easy for children to be inferior.
If the surname is Shi, try not to name it Shi Yi Camel, this name is homophonous with One Lump, which is easy to misunderstand.
If you are surnamed Ma, do not name "Ma Tong Calcium" or "Ma Tong", these two names are homophonous with "toilet lid" and "toilet".
3. Words with too many strokes
Some people think that the more complicated the child's name, the more cultured the child's name appears, but they never consider the child's feelings.
How devastating is it that your child's name is hard to write?
There was a cute baby who cried because her name was too difficult to write.
While crying, she asked her mother, why did she give me such a difficult name to write, why not call it Xiaohua? The girl's mother helplessly said that when she first named it, she did not consider this issue.
Her troubles are also felt by many children. There is also a girl who is too difficult to write her name, crying with her mother, I want to call "Gao Yiyi", I don't want to be called "Gao Zixuan".
How desperate are the dolls of this year forced to write their names? Even some naughty boys were also crying by writing names, and even a few female dolls were clamoring to change their names to Wang Yi, she felt that even from the number of "one to ten", it was better to choose a name than the name given by her parents, and the names given by her parents were too difficult to write, and this session of dolls was not easy!
The name has a lot of strokes, but it does not mean that there is culture, but one thing that can be determined is that it may force your cute baby to cry bitterly, or even clamor to change the name, which is not worth the loss.
To be honest, the little cute babies in the first grade have just learned to write, where can they write such a cumbersome word? Aren't parents embarrassed about their children? Parents should not only be satisfied with their own names, but also consider whether the names are easy to write and remember.
Although the name is a matter for parents, but the child uses this name is a lifelong thing, do not let the baby's learning be delayed by the name, but also have to consider the child's ability to accept ah!
4. Words with more repetition frequencies
Parents name their children with the times, children of different generations of names also have their own characteristics, there is a common point, that is, the phenomenon of the same name is very common.
There are some names that are more popular with old people and young couples, such as: Xiuying, Wei, Min, Jing, Lizi and so on.
If only the names are the same, some names are exactly the same.
In some classes, there are more than a dozen children with the same name and surname, and every time they roll call and send and receive homework, these children with the same name are particularly embarrassed, the teacher is not easy to distinguish, they also feel particularly helpless, often zhang guan Li Dai, make a lot of jokes.
Of course, children want their name to be unique, but if the child knows that this name is actually used by many people, from primary school to college, children have encountered many people with the same name, how much trouble will it bring to the child's life and learning? Parents really have to reflect, name can not be lazy ah!
5. Domineering but not suitable for the word of the name
Parents want to give their children a unique name, you can understand the parents' good intentions, but some words, although very imposing, are not suitable for individual names.
For example: Shang Fangjian, Nan Jiabin, Loess Gaopo, Shen Tu Yongfu
Although the starting point of parents is good intentions, such a unique name, not only can not make the child stand out, it is likely to make the child's name become a joke of others, and the gain is not worth the loss.
epilogue
In the TV series "Against the Current of You", after the baby was born, the two children named the child, and the "Zou Shuishui" and "Zou Xiaoxiao" proposed by Gao Mi were vetoed by the husband, and the "Zou Yufei" proposed by the husband was also firmly opposed.
It is not easy for parents to name their children, Andomi's husband does not agree to "smile" as a big name can be understood, parents always want to give their children a good name, after all, the name is the child's first business card, can not be sloppy.
There is a father surnamed Gao, he named Dabao "High One", he and his wife also have the idea of having a second child, but the second child is not going to be called "high school second".
He thought of the name in advance, if it is a girl, called "High One", this father's idea is very special, "One One" is indeed easy to remember, but always feel that this name is a bit casual.
Parents give their children a name, to avoid these 5 misunderstandings, the child's name is neither too complicated, nor ambiguous, the name should be in line with the "good memorable", "good to hear", "easy to write" these 3 principles, the name can not be too fancy.
Parents give their children a name, must consider practicality, if the name can be a little poetic, pinning on the parents' good wishes, it is more perfect.