In the past, the carriages and horses were slow to mail, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
On the show "Long Time No See", there is a 68-year-old grandmother Yin Chunying, who asked the program team to help her find an old friend He Shaowen who has not been seen for 50 years
Her husband has long died, her daughter has also started a family early, she has often dreamed recently, dreaming of the crush when she was young, she did not want to leave any regrets in this life, she asked the program team to help her find this old friend, after more than half a century, I don't know if we can find the person she missed?
01, young boys and girls fall in love, and are opposed by their parents
It is understood that Yin Chunying was particularly lively and mischievous when she was a child, and after she grew up slowly, she began to converge, and her personality began to be quiet and calm.
In 1970, when He Shaowen was 22 years old, he joined the army from his hometown in Yunnan Province. Due to the insubordination of the water and soil, when he first arrived, he often had a fever for a month and often went to the health center.
Once he fell ill and lived in a health center for more than half a month, and because of this, he met Yin Chunying, a woman he had been worried about for half his life.
Because the health center is very close to Yin Chunying's home. He Shaowen was bored during his hospitalization, and by chance he saw a beautiful, quiet-looking girl under the tree, and he was attracted.
Yin Chunying was 18 years old at the time, quietly reading under a tree, and the dappled light and shadow sprinkled on her body, and that look made him unable to move his eyes.
So during the time he was hospitalized, he looked at the tree every day and quietly waited for the girl's arrival.
When he was about to be discharged from the hospital, he couldn't wait, he was afraid of missing the girl. So when he saw the girl carrying the small bench and holding the book, and was about to leave under the tree, he hurried down.
In those days, men and women were big houses, so he could only look at the girl from a distance through the crowd. But unexpectedly, the girl suddenly looked up at him, and this time the girl also fell.
The handsome-looking boy looked at her smiling through the crowd. And this time, Yin Chunying sprouted love.
Soon after He Shaowen was discharged from the hospital, he often found an excuse to play in the army compound, and there were many children in the army compound, so they took the opportunity to mix in the middle, quietly separated from the crowd, secretly looked at each other, and then looked at each other and smiled
In the process of getting along day by day, the relationship between the two has gradually deepened. But I didn't expect that such feelings were rejected by Yin Chunying's parents, and the two were not right, and it was impossible to be together.
He Shaowen was also imprisoned for this reason, because He Shaowen's troops changed their defenses, he was about to leave here, and he asked the girl to see him again.
It just happened to rain heavily that night, and Yin Chunying was strictly regarded by her parents, and she had no way to go to the appointment.
At that time, unlike our current convenient transportation and easy contact, this parting may be a lifetime.
02, the woman mistakenly thinks that the man has changed his heart and is sad to marry
Unexpectedly, a year later, the two got in touch, and due to their work and academic reasons, the two of them met a year later.
The two relied on writing letters to ease each other's longing, and later Yin Chunying received a letter in which she claimed to be He Shaowen's blind date, so at this moment, Yin Chunying felt that He Shaowen had deceived her, so she gave up this feeling.
Burn all the letters he had written before, and no matter how He Shaowen wrote to her to explain, she refused to accept them.
She also accepted the family's arrangement for a blind date, and half a year later she married a man who was right at home.
He Shaowen wanted to see her and explain it to her personally, but the difficulties of reality prevented him from reaching the girl.
So He Shaowen could only ask his former comrades-in-arms to go to the army compound to take a look and explain to the other party, but he did not expect that At that time, Yin Chunying was already married and did not live there.
After He Shaowen knew, he never wrote a letter to the other party again and broke off contact with her.
Soon after Yin Chunying got married, she returned to her mother's house and knew that someone had come here to find her, but she gave up, did not pursue, she felt that it was impossible for each other, and she also had a family and a daughter, and she buried this relationship in time.
When Yin Chunying was 42 years old, her husband suffered from throat cancer and died less than a year later.
She never wanted to start a relationship again, she raised her daughter to marry and have children, and recently, she is now 68 years old, she always dreams of the past, she feels that this dream is prompt, she does not want to regret for life.
After she told her daughter about this idea, she also did some ideological work for them before she got her consent.
03, half a life has not been seen, the man is still waiting
Finally, with the help of the program team, she met He Shaowen.
It turned out that for so many years, He Shaowen had not been married, and when he refused the blind date arranged by his family in the army, he was alone, and later he was injured and disabled and returned to his hometown.
He has been living with his brother and sister-in-law, and later when he got older, he was in the nursing home and never married for the rest of his life.
Yin Chunying was also very sad after she knew that she did not expect the other party to end like this.
For the first time in 50 years, the two held each other's hands, talked about the past of the year, and explained the misunderstanding.
At that time, He Shaowen's family made up their own minds to introduce him to the blind date, but he never agreed.
This miss between the two is half a century, and He Shaowen has always believed in Yin Chunying's promise and has never married in his life.
Yin Chunying also decided to take care of him in the last time, no matter what, this time the two sides will not let go of each other's hands.
This kind of love really makes everyone envious.
I have this kind of thing around me, she is a high school Chinese teacher, now she is in her 50s, but she has never been married, she once had a partner, the two fell in love in college, her parents also know and acquiesce to them together, everything is waiting for them to graduate, they can be together for a lifetime.
Unexpectedly, the boy suddenly told her to go home for a turn, but this trip never came back. She waited for a long time, and could not contact the other party, so she decided to go to his house to have a look, only to find that the boy had long since passed away.
He was seriously ill at the time, but instead of telling her, he chose to leave alone.
The teacher was never married, and even though her parents were dissatisfied, they finally acquiesced to her behavior.
Although this kind of love is touching, it is also a little sad and bumpy.
May everyone meet such a deep love person, harvest a happy love, and do not have to endure the pain of separation.