From ancient times to the present, love has been an enduring topic. Whether it is the helplessness revealed by Liu Yong's "holding hands and looking at each other with tearful eyes, and even choking without words", or the sweetness and beauty conveyed by Yan Shu's "no color phoenix with two wings, and a sharp heart", they all show us a thousand appearances of love.
Today, when civilization and technology are advancing rapidly, it seems that few people believe in long-lasting love. As the movie says: "Love is like a canned pineapple that has a shelf life." Therefore, now there are more "fast food love" and "material love" in society.
However, in the real society, the love of men and women with more impurities will set off the nobility and purity of love. Recently, in a love program on Jilin Satellite TV, the love story of a pair of uncles and aunts has touched countless people.
In the show, 68-year-old Yin Chunying found a lover 50 years ago, and in half a century, He Shaowen never forgot her, and because she never married in her life. On the show, the spirited He Shaowen also joked: "Wait until your hair is white."
A first love that ends without a problem
Yin Chunying was born into a military family in Yunnan, so she spent her childhood in the army compound. Unlike the other children in the yard, Yin Chunying rarely joined their playing team, and her gentle and quiet personality, her favorite thing to do was to carry a chair to read under a tree.
Perhaps because of fate, it was under this big tree that Yin Chunying and the young He Shaowen met. It was a hot summer day, and Yin Chunying was hiding under a big tree to cool off. The noisy cicadas, the poisonous sun, and the immovable leaves all seem to have nothing to do with Yin Chunying, because she is reading the novel with relish.
Just when she saw the wonderful, she was suddenly interrupted by a thick male voice, "Is Major General He's home here?" Yin Chunying looked up at the person who spoke, it was a young young man, his sweaty face was a little red from the sun, but he couldn't hide his beautiful features.
Seeing the boy's clear and sincere eyes, the girl's impatience disappeared in an instant, and she replied softly: "Yes, but he has not yet left work, it is so hot, you can rest under the tree." ”
In this way, the two young people began to talk, as if they had known each other for a long time. They talked about literature from books in girls' hands to favorite writers, and from writers to society. After some exchanges, the two found that their ideas were very compatible, and the boy told the girl that he would rest here for a while and then go to the army.
Lang has a concubine intention. The relationship between the two quickly warmed up, and the relationship was quickly confirmed. Before the boy went to the army, the two agreed with each other that they would not marry each other, and that they would not marry each other.
Distance did not seem to be an obstacle between them, and letters became the sustenance of their love. They turned their thoughts on each other into words and told each other their heartfelt thoughts. And their parents also know their feelings and express their support, everything is logical. According to common sense, the two will soon be able to enter the palace of marriage.
However, things are unpredictable. One day, Yin Chunying received a letter signed by He Shaowen's fiancée, telling Yin Chunying not to send another letter to her fiancé, they were already engaged.
This sudden news made Yin Chunying as shocked and desperate as five thunderbolts. She couldn't believe what she saw, and she also began to doubt her feelings for He Shaowen, and she was overwhelmed by anger, lit a torch to burn all the letters of the two, and decided not to contact He Shaowen again.
A misunderstanding
It's like a scumbag stepping on two boats and finally abandoning one side of the dog's blood story. But this is not the case, between Yin Chunying and He Shaowen, it is actually a misunderstanding!
The knot between the two was finally untied fifty years later. And the person who untied the bell was also the original bell tier. At that time, Yin Chunying's wife had been dead for many years, and her children had also established a family, feeling lonely, one day, she accidentally saw the program of Jilin Satellite TV on TV, and suddenly remembered her first love He Shaowen.
She was suddenly a little sad and wanted to draw a satisfactory end to this first love that ended without a problem. In this way, she found the program group, she thought very clearly, asked the other party why she left herself in the first place, and how is life now? If the other person is happily married, he will also be blessed, because in any case, it is considered to be untied.
After the efforts of the program team, the two finally met on the TV station. The two looked at each other with tearful eyes, a look of ten thousand years. Yin Chunying also said the doubts in her heart.
Uncle He explained that he had never had any fiancée, and he had only loved his aunt in this life. After learning that she was engaged, she decided not to bother, and also decided not to marry for life, and stayed with her brother and sister-in-law until they died, and then went to live in a nursing home.
After the show
At this point, the misunderstanding between the two was finally lifted. And the letter, written in the tone of He Shaowen's fiancée, may just be a prank, or maybe it is just a means for Yin Chunying's parents to let her marry someone else. None of this could be verified, but Uncle He's lover's heart was as bright and flawless as the moon.
After the show, the two will definitely be able to continue the frontier, whether it is in the way of friends or lovers, it may not matter anymore. For the two old people who have entered the twilight years, having each other's company seems to be happier and warmer than the vows of the mountain and the sea.
The most moving thing in this love story is naturally He Shaowen's fifty years of waiting and loyalty to never marrying, especially in this modern society, urban men and women have long stopped viewing love as a luxury.
Maybe as the book says, liking is having, and loving is letting go. I don't know if Yin Chunying ever regretted that she impulsively burned the evidence of their love, nor did she know whether He Shaowen had thought of giving up and finding a new love in the days he was waiting?
However, the answers to these questions don't seem to matter as much. Because the present moment is better than the past and the future, as long as they can untie each other's knots and accompany each other, isn't it already the most complete?
brief summary:
He Shaowen used his own personal experience to make the phrase "one life and one couple" no longer an empty slogan. This is also the charm of love.
The phrase "Wait until your hair is white" is a bit ridiculous, but it contains heartache. Fortunately, he finally waited for the first person who was right. Bless them for the rest of their lives, spending time with each other and growing older.