The journey of life, ups and downs, hurried steps, only learn to be quiet, in order to calmly wait.
As a passage shared by the People's Daily put it:
No one cares, no one is as good as others, you have to try to be quiet and do what you should do, instead of letting your heart be irritable and anxious, destroying your enthusiasm and concentration!
So, on the way to getting old, let yourself learn to be a quiet person!
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When you are poor, be quiet, and find a way out of the counterattack.
Unsatisfactory things are often eight or nine, and can be indistinguishable from others.
When a person is poor, if he is always unable to calm down, then in addition to constantly worrying about three meals a day in life, he will also be restless.
The poet Du Fu had the lofty ambition of "to the Emperor Yao Shun, and then to make the customs pure". But he failed several times, his career was poetic, and he often relied on friends to help him get by.
However, the impoverished Du Fu did not sink here; with the great ambition of serving the country and worrying about the world, he successively wrote down the "three officials and three distinctions" of flogging the powerful and advocating for the people, issued an appeal of "tens of millions of buildings in Ande, sheltering the world from the cold and the happy faces" and a large number of famous works by the popular population.
These great realist works laid the foundation for Du Fu's status as a "poetic saint" and won him the name of his predecessor and descendant.
"Cai Gen Tan" once wrote: "Poor families sweep the floor, poor women clean comb their hair, although the scenery is not gorgeous, the temperament is elegant." When a gentleman is poor and depressed, why should he waste himself! ”
This means that poor families must often sweep the floor clean, and the daughters of the poor must comb their hair neatly, although there is no gorgeous and luxurious furnishings and beautiful decorations, but there is a natural and simple style. How can a talented gentleman give up on himself when he encounters poverty and sorrow, or when he encounters bad circumstances and is snubbed!
In real life, many people are not happy, but they have a kind of "peaceful and happy way". In a pure and miserable life, do not give up on yourself, do not sink.
As one poet put it, "Yes, in the garden of the poor there are not only flowers and plants, but also kindness and contentment, peace of mind and the joy of toil." ”
Therefore, as long as the mind is quiet and poor, it can also find a way out.
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When the achievement is successful, quiet down, in order to find the back road to the success of the body.
In the journey of life, from penniless to famous in the world, it is a process of continuous hard work and hard work. Among them, it is inevitable to sharpen the level of ability and fight for interpersonal relationships in the workplace.
Finally, after waiting for the "daughter-in-law to become a wife", the green teenager in the past has also become a "successful person" in the eyes of others, with a city government, a wrist, can be independent, and is a bad person.
At this time, many people will be fluttering, unable to calm down, find the best way back for themselves, so that they have failed.
After the Qin Dynasty unified China, Li Si was the prime minister, and his sons all married Princess Qin, and all his daughters married The Prince of Qin. When he held a family banquet, all the officials came to the banquet. After Seeing this situation, Li Si realized that "the extremes of things are decaying, and I don't know where I am going!" ”
That is to say, Li Si understood the principle of "retiring after success", but he could not let himself be quiet, and he could not retreat in a rapids, and as a result, he was falsely accused by Zhao Gao of rebellion, beheaded, and exterminated the "three tribes".
It can be seen that no matter how high a person has achieved a position, he must keep a clear head and be able to objectively and calmly analyze his situation in order to make the most correct choice and climb from one peak to another.
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When you are confused, be quiet to get out of the cycle of dilemma.
For many people, it is not that there is no dream, nor is there no action, but that there is not enough self-discipline and implementation is not in place.
The biggest reason for this is that the mind cannot be calmed down.
Doing work in the hands, but the mind is circling, just now the leaders and colleagues to evaluate themselves whether to praise or denigrate;
Back at home, doing housework, I can't put on some small episodes in my day's work, especially those things that I feel are not handled properly.
Accompanying the child to write homework, watching him grind and chirp, and repeatedly doing wrong topics, I hope to be able to personally fight, instead of him to grow, but also pessimistic and disappointed to trigger a series of bad associations.
People always "look busy" and don't know that they are struggling to cope.
Coping with work, coping with children, and coping with yourself: knowing that if you go on like this, you will achieve nothing, you will get worse and worse, you just think too much and act very little.
Their own rhythm is completely disrupted, watching what others do, but also want to copy it all, immediate success; for their own strengths, easily give up to carry it forward, for their own shortcomings, but also choose to turn a blind eye.
As long as you can mix it up, you can safely mix it up and count it as a day. It's like walking into a dead end and can't find an exit.
At this time, if you can calm down, carefully sort out what you can do, and start from the present, little by little serious to change, the ordinary days will have new ideas.
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Conclusion:
In this lifetime, what height a person can reach depends on how quiet he is.
A person who has calmed down is like a high-speed train that has been running, renovated, and modified and upgraded. Once the "energy storage is completed", it begins to show unprecedented "superpowers".
Many people who are better than you have actually been working harder than you, and their secret is that their hearts are stable and their bodies are stable, so some of them become stable.
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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