Liu Xuezhou's tragedy was actually written 16 years ago.
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Liu Xuezhou's father was married and had a son in the case of liu Xuezhou's mother, the two were unmarried and pregnant, with study abroad week, in order to get married, Liu Xuezhou gave it to others, in exchange for thousands of yuan as a dowry. After marriage, they gave birth to another boy. Unexpectedly, after a period of time, Liu's father actually fell in love with another woman and divorced Liu's mother. After the divorce, the two had children with others. After the operation of his parents, Liu Xuezhou had many half-brothers, half-brothers, half-sisters, and half-brothers. What broke Liu Xuezhou the most was that he had thought he had been abducted for many years, and finally learned that they had sold me for money as a bride price, and had given birth to a new child but had never looked for me. The birth of a child, without the tears of parents, without the blessings of relatives and friends, the only value is to exchange money, and their own biological parents did not happen, quickly opened a new chapter in their lives. It is really impossible to imagine how a teenager can face such a bloody and absurd truth. We always think that parents give life to children, children should be grateful to their parents, but in fact, parents bring their children into this world without their children's consent, children have no choice, no matter what kind of parents you are, children must accept. Therefore, giant babies like Liu Xuezhou's parents are adults, and it is best not to become parents. Since you have decided to have a child, please be responsible for him, which is the most basic meaning of parenthood.
In my short life studying abroad, I have been looking for a home. After finding his parents, he said that whether he bought a house or rented a room, as long as one room and one living room were enough, he had enough of living without a fixed place and sending people under the fence. But I didn't expect that it was such a reasonable request, so that the parents who have always seemed to be kind changed their faces, directly on the phone said that you are not having a good life now, the person who should be blamed is not me, but your adoptive parents, after a few words of argument, he found that his mother blacked himself out, and his father also made rumors and insults to him on the Internet, bluntly saying that he was a miserably selling network beggars. Liu Xuezhou was desperate, he knew about the concept of home, it has a completely different definition from his parents, one is a family field, the other is a trading field, so he decided to sue them for abandonment. I had planned to give up, but you blamed yourself, reversed black and white, and did not realize your mistake in the slightest, so I am very sorry, see you in court. Unexpectedly, as soon as the incident came out, countless netizens launched an attack on the state of studying abroad. Some people said that he confessed his relatives just to ask for money and a house, and some people scolded him for being disgusting and begging him to die quickly. Some people also predict that he is hyping himself as an Internet celebrity live streaming goods by looking for relatives. Liu Xuezhou said in a long article that I was trying to find some sunshine labels and label myself, but I found that the only label left was strong. But no matter how strong he is, he is only a 15-year-old teenager. In the end, the home he longed for became the last straw that crushed the camel. In Liu Xuezhou's eyes, one parent and home represent a sense of belonging, and the other provides a sense of security, both of which are indispensable. And this point also reminds countless parents, whether poor or rich, what children need most is to live with their parents, the weather is cold and there is a roof, and they are bullied to have parents to support them.
In Liu Xuezhou's suicide note, the most painful thing is probably his arrangement for posthumous affairs. He left half of his savings to his grandmother and grandfather, and the rest of his children were donated to the Shijiazhuang orphanage to buy some beautiful clothes and delicious food for the children there. People who are not treated well are the most recognizable for kindness, despite being abandoned by their parents, isolated by their peers, and slandered by rumors.
So, when the child is young, the companionship, kissing, care, protection, and repeated I love you by parents is not too much. It is precisely because of these that the child's life is endowed with flowing energy and has the power to cross the boundless night. A loved child is healed by childhood all his life, and a child who is not loved is cured of childhood all his life. Finally, I would like to say that the birth of every life is a sacred thing, and it is the greatest to be born without nurturing. Raising children without teaching is a great disaster, since you have chosen to be a parent, you should understand that in the next 20 years of life, it is your most important career to feel that raising your children is your most important career. May our children be warm in the winter, not cold in the spring, with lights in the dark and umbrellas in the rain.