Chinese the expression of love will be more subtle, especially men, he and women are different in the way of expression of feelings, it is difficult to express their feelings directly, but some men often like to put "I love you" on the lips, at first women will be very happy after listening to it. But over time, I will also question the truth behind this sentence, because a man always says I love you frequently, and it is somewhat frivolous.
Men always say they love you, do they really love you? Let's take a look at such feelings together from a psychological point of view today.
Character and words and deeds
A person's personality will directly affect his attitude and expression with others.
If a man belongs to the extroverted and lively type, then his frequent words of I love you are only a description and expression of his feelings, and even part of it has only become a mantra, and there is no deep meaning of the understanding of love from the perspective of a substantive woman.
If a man is an introvert, then his feelings may be more inclined to express love, and at the same time he cares too much about this person, he may also because he lacks inner security, so he will frequently hang love on his lips.
After all, for some people who are emotionally fragile or have been frustrated, hiding feelings is also a way of self-preservation, and it will not be easy to say, if the other party belongs to this category, it really shows that they cherish the relationship very much.
Men habitually express the psychological knowledge behind love
Men grow up in loving environments
Frequent expression of love is not necessarily the man's excessive affection and instability, but is likely to be related to his growth experience.
A family atmosphere, a mode of getting along and a way of expressing feelings will become the appearance of children, children who grow up in a loving family, not only have a strong sense of confidence and security that others cannot imitate in their lifetime, but also the way of transmitting feelings is often direct.
A man's frequent talk of love is likely to stem from the fact that he grew up in love since childhood, and his family is inherently harmonious, so he is better at showing his emotions.
Men have strong empathy
Why between couples, women always feel that they are incompatible with men, there are always contradictions and differences, not so much love or no love, in fact, more precisely speaking, men have poor empathy ability, so it is always difficult to interpret women's feelings and needs, what he gives is difficult for women to want, what he says, not necessarily women love to hear.
A person's personality charm is often the biggest magic weapon to attract others willing to be close to themselves, so the man who often expresses emotions and says I love you, most likely is empathy, he knows how to convey emotions in details, and knows how to make the relationship more harmonious.
It must also be denied that even if they pay the same feelings, this type of man is more likely to make women feel happy, and it has nothing to do with the economy.
His phrase "I love you" is a spiritual need to understand women's emotions, and it is also a good medicine to win girls' laughter. Such a simple sentence can not only express their emotions, but also coax girls to be happy and happy.
Flower heart performance is strong
A man who frequently expresses feelings and treats "I love you" as a common thing, is most likely a veteran of the love field, his performance desire is strong, he hopes to become the focus of attention and attention, he is eager to get more love and worship of the opposite sex, so he uses the way of attracting women to let the other party fall into this relationship faster and deeper, he knows that women can never get tired of hearing this sentence, so behind it is more clear purpose than love or no love.
It is no exaggeration to say that a man who often says that he loves may not really put in love, but is just throwing "bait" for his goal, so as to achieve the goal better and faster.
Therefore, although love is emotional, it also needs to be a little rational and sober, do not rush to define the feelings as untrue because the other party has not expressed it, and do not mess up because you often hear love. No matter what gender, there is his affectionate side, but also has his sincere moments, whether this is true or false, more or to see what he has done after saying "I love you", blindly falling in love with his ears, it is likely to be the beginning of the injury.
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Text/Relief Emotional Station
(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.