Introduction: In less than a month, the New Year will come, the children have arrived at the happy moment of collecting the old money, although the living conditions are now good, every family will provide rich materials for the child on weekdays, and the child is not short of money and things. However, in the New Year, there is no substitute for the joy of receiving the red envelope of the year, and the meaning of the money is completely different from the daily pocket money.
The elders wrap their deep concerns and expectations in the money, send them out together with the red envelopes, and the elders greet each other and bless each other at the moment of receiving the money, and this sense of ceremony is only available in the New Year.
01, press the old money, do not put the left hand in and out of the right hand, give the child a certain right to control
With the continuous improvement of living standards, the amount of money received by children every year is also increasing, from a few yuan, more than ten yuan to hundreds of yuan in the past, and now it is hundreds of starts, or even more. During a Spring Festival holiday, children receive not a small amount of red envelopes. There has been controversy over where to press the money, and some people believe that children are not adults after all, have no ability to dispose of money, and are naturally left to their parents for safekeeping.
Many children have become left-handed and right-handed in and out of the new year's money, parents are worried about random spending, and usually most of the items that children need are arranged by their parents, and there are not many places to use money, so many families are in charge of the money. Of course, there are also parents who want to cultivate the ability to manage money from an early age, supervise with children, and give children a certain degree of freedom of control.
Shortly after the New Year last year, a child in Changsha wanted to use his own money to apply for tutoring classes for his parents. It turned out that the child's parents were usually very busy at work, since the first grade, the parents gave the child a white lie, saying that the child's homework parents will not tutor, need to go to the training class to let the teacher tutor.
Children make up for the after-school time, to solve the parents do not have time to accompany the concerns, naïve children only came up with their own pressure money, to the parents to apply for tutoring classes, so that they can also learn knowledge. After learning about this incident, the parents of the children were very guilty and determined to take time to spend more time with their children.
At a young age, this elementary school student already knows how to use the money to spend on his parents, and is very rational and has the potential to manage money.
In fact, for young children, there is no concept of money at all and no awareness of managing money, so it is normal to press the old money to be saved by parents. And primary school students and even middle school students, already have a sense of consumption, have a concept of money, it is best not to put the left hand in and out of the right hand. Parents can take advantage of the opportunity to collect old money and let their children contact the management of money, which helps to cultivate reasonable consumption concepts and cultivate correct values.
Moreover, the law also has relevant provisions, the money belongs to the child's gifted property, parents do not have the right to deprive, can assist in controlling or supervising consumption.
02, the way the child dominates the pressure of the old money, hiding his future
Children's perspective and thinking are completely different from adults, the domination of old money is also a science, different children may have different ways of consumption, but also from different perspectives of consideration of problems, implying their values.
1, press the old money to improve themselves
Putting the money to buy books or school supplies, investing in their own interests and hobbies, this part of the children will have strong self-control in the future, pay attention to improving themselves, and are a person with pursuits.
2. Help strangers with old money
Many children will donate with their own money, or buy items to donate to people in need, and have a sense of helpfulness from an early age.
Children are kind in heart from an early age, can consider others, and when they grow up, they are also a person with a broad heart and great love, a sense of social responsibility, and they are willing to do more meaningful things within their capabilities.
3. Press the old money to spend for the family
Use your own money to buy gifts for your family, or occasionally spend and buy daily necessities for your family, and use your money to surprise your loved ones on holidays. Such a child knows how to be grateful, has a sense of family responsibility, and will grow up to be a person with a sense of responsibility and attach importance to family affection.
03. Parents assist their children in making reasonable use of the money
First of all, parents can propose the principle of controlling the old money, within the scope of this principle, the child can be free to dispose of. On the one hand, give children autonomy, on the other hand, parents help guide children to spend rationally to prevent spending money indiscriminately.
Secondly, when parents buy daily necessities or other items, they can let their children participate, use practical actions to let him experience rational consumption, and know how to use money in useful places.
Finally, you can exercise your child's ability to live independently, such as arranging him to buy vegetables or buy water and electricity according to age, buy daily necessities, etc., which will help children increase their common sense of life and know how to consume.
Pillow Parenting Message:
Many children do not know the hard work of making money, with a large amount of pressure money, will buy their favorite toys or snacks, young age does not have the concept of consumption amount, it is inevitable that the phenomenon of extravagance. If left unchecked, it is easy to form an unreasonable concept of consumption, which is not conducive to growth and even affects the future. And know how to use money where it is used, these children can control their desires, but also understand that it is not easy to make money, and the future can be expected.
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