Finding a gentle, kind, beautiful and pure woman as a wife is the dream of all men in the world. However, not all women in this world are perfect women, there will always be men who marry women with slight "flaws", if you marry the woman you love the most, but find that she is pregnant and has undergone surgery for this, what will you do?
Xiao Wu just put on such a thing! He is a rural man, the family conditions are not good, and he finally got the 230,000 dowry money and married the woman he loved. But a few days after getting married, I found that my wife Xiao Li had a large knife scar on her stomach. Asked the wife why, but the wife has been silent, and has never said a reason. Xiao Wu was very angry and went to her mother-in-law's house early the next morning, and the mother-in-law's answer was that her daughter had appendicitis when she was a child, which was a knife scar left after the operation.
Back at home, the more Xiao Wu thought about it, the more he felt that something was wrong. If it is true that she has appendicitis, why does she not speak when she first asks her? Later, under Xiao Wu's repeated questioning, his wife told the truth. It turned out that Xiao Wu's wife fell in love with a man for a year after graduating from college, and finally became pregnant, and the child was born by caesarean section, which had knife scars and stretch marks. After confiding the truth, his wife advised Xiao Wu to calm down, thinking that this was something that happened many years ago, and there was no need to pay attention to it. On this matter, Xiao Wu could not be calm at all, he pushed his wife hard onto the bed, ran outside the door and smoked a cigarette.
Before getting married, Xiao Wu had asked Xiao Li if he had been in love, and Xiao Li said that he did not. Later, Xiao Wu also specifically asked Xiao Li's parents, and Xiao Li's mother also categorically said that her daughter had never talked about a love affair. But after getting married, everything was different, I didn't expect my wife to be pregnant, and I didn't expect my wife to give birth to a child.
In the end, Xiao Wu chose to divorce and demanded a dowry of 230,000 yuan. Xiao Wu felt that the family was a liar, and it was normal to want to return the bride price. But Xiao Li's mother believes that divorce is no problem, but the bride price has been given, where there is a reason to go back, 230,000 bride price will not give a penny.
What did the lawyer say? The lawyer believes that it is basically impossible for Xiao Wu to get back the 230,000 dowry, and it is indeed wrong for Xiao Wu's wife Xiao Li to conceal her pregnancy, but in the end it is only a moral problem. Xiao Wu and Xiao Li have been husband and wife for four months, and the desire to return the 230,000 dowry will not be legally supported.
For this matter, many netizens expressed their views. Some netizens support Xiao Wu's divorce, and some netizens believe that Xiao Wu should forgive his wife, but almost no netizens support Xiao Wu's return of the 230,000 dowry. I personally think that Xiao Li should not intentionally want to "cheat marriage", after all, there have been children, saying it is a disgraceful thing, she estimates that she also hopes to go to the end with Xiao Wu, but she is afraid of saying this disgraceful thing before marriage, Xiao Wu will immediately choose to disappear.
They have been married for almost half a year, and it is impossible to return the 230,000 dowry, if Xiao Wu really plans to divorce, he can ask for less of the bride price. But taking ten thousand steps back, if Xiao Wu really loves his wife deeply, he should be able to forgive his wife, after all, the wife's pregnancy has been many years ago, and who among the young people has not made a mistake?
But this matter also sounded an alarm bell for us, marriage is a major event in life, sloppy, if you do not clearly understand the true face of the other party, do not impulsively get married!