After the double reduction of the first big exam final exam, a few days ago on the Internet saw some parents because of the decline in their children's grades in a hurry in the background message, asked the tiger mother: originally thought that the double reduction was relaxed, did not think that the real anxiety began.
(1) No reduction in liability
Under the double subtraction, the school usually does not allow the test to publish the results and does not allow the ranking, so that many parents are in a vague state of their children's grades. Reducing homework and homework, it is believed that the tense learning mode of the past is finally over, and the parents of students can finally relax. In the final exam, the test paper results were exposed and seriously declined one by one. As everyone knows, serious students are still serious, responsible parents are still responsible, reducing classes does not reduce responsibility, and parents' responsibility is always on the road, especially in the period of character cultivation in young teenagers. Whether or not to raise an excellent child mainly depends on the parents, and the parents' attitude determines the future of the child.
Liang Qichao said: "Life is a hundred years, standing in early childhood. "Children are children after all, and their mental weakness needs the guidance of their parents. Reducing coursework and homework means that children will have more time for self-domination, which just shows that parents need more responsibilities and more efforts.
Children's growth is not only cultural achievements, but also their sentiments, will, interests, skills, habits, and handling of people, which are all affected by the words and deeds of their parents.
(2) Lack of responsibility will only destroy the child
The family is the child's first school, and the parents are the child's first teachers. Lazy parents have a hard time having diligent children, and families without discipline will only have more losers. The future fate of the child is hidden in the discipline of the parents at an early age.
Presumably, everyone read about The Wounds of Zhongyong when they went to school, because his father's snobbish greed destroyed his gifted prodigy son.
Another example (Guangming Network): Xia Xia, a fifth-grade student of a primary school, was originally well-behaved, hard-working, and had excellent grades, but since her parents' emotional discord began to appear anxious and bored with school, because she was afraid of her parents' divorce and did not want to go to school, as soon as she arrived at school, she had stomachache and nausea, and her grades dropped sharply.
And so on, how many families have ruined the future of their children due to the shallowness of their parents, and how many families have affected the healthy growth of their children's physical and mental health due to the irresponsibility of their parents.
(3) Responsibility can only achieve children
Stupid parents destroy their children, and wise parents often produce excellent children. They will create a good learning environment for their children, will be strict with themselves, and always influence their children with their words and deeds, and set an example for their children.
The story of "Meng Mu Three Migrations" is recited by the world, and everyone will marvel at Meng Mu's good intentions in cultivating children, and marvel at Meng Mu's unique insight and persistent belief.
Parents discipline their children how responsible their children will be in the future.
Shijiazhuang Xueba twins "Qiankun" brothers were sent to Peking University for graduate school with the first and second results in their majors, and were praised by the People's Daily CCTV (from the headlines). The secret of their success is that for many years at home parents will accompany their children to learn together, strict requirements, and attach importance to the cultivation of children's abilities.
The success of the child is inseparable from the efforts of the parents, and it is the parents' efforts that the parents' role models have made the two children today.
(4) Love and strictness
Double-reduce the child's schoolwork burden, but do not reduce the responsibility of parents. The quality of parents determines the character of children.
Visionary parents will be fiercely demanding of their children: the age of suffering is not blessed, the age of learning is not indulged, the age of effort is not abandoned.
Discipline, teaching, and punishment are the best love for children. Tolerating too much is condoning, and pampering too much is doting.
Sow an action, harvest a habit, sow a habit, harvest a character, sow a character, harvest a destiny.
Parents should be strict and loving with their peers, discipline and motivation are synchronized, and attach importance to the cultivation of children's learning interest and ability and the cultivation of good learning habits, so as to lay a solid foundation for children's future life path.
(5) The prerequisite for raising excellent children lies in the parents
The child is the shadow of the parent, and the parent is a mirror of the child. Whether a child can grow up healthy and happy, whether he can become an excellent child depends more on the parents, and the parents' attitude determines the future of the child.
Only by polishing the mirror of parents can we create excellent children.