At the beginning of the year, Jiao'er did not know his grandfather, and he did not worship his fork.
Three thousand miles away from the head, when did you greet the door and arrive home?
I was only three months old, just a baby crying in my infancy, but I was sold by my biological parents, this is 17 years old, when will I be able to return to my haunted home?
On the 17th, the voice of Liu Xuezhou in Xingtai, Hebei Province, shocked netizens. Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, was blacklisted by his birth mother and then abandoned, and broke the news: he was sold by his biological parents and exchanged for dowry money
It is said that children are the heart of parents, and it is difficult for us to imagine that there are such cruel parents in the world!
There is an old Chinese saying: "Parents are more kind than heaven." ”
It is precisely in this way that Liu Xuezhou, a 17-year-old boy from Xingtai, Hebei Province, after learning of his origins, has his heart and mind to find his biological parents.
Fortunately, with the help of the majority of netizens, Liu Xuezhou found his own parents and recognized them, and the family who had been separated for 17 years was reunited, which was originally a touching and gratifying thing.
But not every parent in the world is "Guo Gangtang", and not all parents are concerned about their own flesh and bones.
From the full anticipation of finding relatives, to the joy of finding relatives, to the sting of being abandoned again, thousands of miles to find that they were betrayed by their biological parents, a human war is being staged...
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On December 6, 2021, Liu Xuezhou, a "17-year-old" boy from Nangong City, Xingtai, Hebei Province, posted a video of his search for relatives on a short video platform, and the good-looking big boy told his life in front of the camera.
Hello everyone, I am looking for relatives Liu Xuezhou, probably born between 2004 and 2006, in good health, without any congenital physical defects and diseases, and obvious birthmarks and scars...
When Liu Xuezhou was only three months old, he was sold by human traffickers from Shanxi to Hebei for 30,000 yuan.
Fortunately, his adoptive parents and the elders in the family have always been very fond of Liu Xuezhou, and even later, Liu Xuezhou planned to find his biological parents, and the elders of the family also respected his wishes.
In 2009, after the unexpected death of his adoptive parents, the house was gone, and Liu Xuezhou became a homeless orphan.
"It's not easy for the old man to raise me, and all my troubles are hidden in my heart." After that, he lived with his grandmother and grandfather, about his life, people around him often talked behind his back, some people said that he was a child who was picked up, some people said that he was a child who was sold by his biological parents, in short, he was a "wild child" that no one wanted.
Whenever he heard these gossip, the young Liu Xuezhou had to shed silent tears in his heart, and these childhood memories also became a scar that could not be erased in his young soul. Liu Xuezhou gradually grew up, but his life also became a stone in his heart.
After he understood things, he also took the initiative to ask the elderly in the family about his origins, and after being told by the family that he was a child bought by his adoptive parents through the money of the middleman, he secretly made up his mind: he must find his own biological parents.
Family affection is a thick thought that is constantly cut through even if it is far away from thousands of mountains and rivers. Family affection is that even in the vast night, there is a bright moon in the heart that illuminates the way for the wanderer to return home.
But this road home, for Liu Xuezhou, is undoubtedly long and painful.
Liu Xuezhou after obtaining the consent of the elders of the family, he began to publish the news of searching for relatives on some websites looking for relatives, due to the death of his adoptive father, many of the details about his own life were not detailed enough, such a search for relatives lasted for two years, like finding a needle in a haystack, with little hope.
Later, Liu Xuezhou also used the collection of DNA, hoping to help him find his biological parents through advanced science and technology, and one of his relatives search videos attracted the attention of many well-wishers in society.
The enthusiastic help and warm encouragement of countless netizens made Liu Xuezhou feel the true feelings of the world, and also strengthened his confidence in finding his biological parents.
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The old man in the family inadvertently turned to a vaccine book that Liu Xuezhou had registered at birth 17 years ago, and Liu Xuezhou's original name "Ding Jing" and the name of his biological father "Ding Shuangquan" were all in sight. Liu Xuezhou was excited.
So, he searched for his father's phone on the Internet, dialed it, the other party also thought he was a liar, directly hung up the phone, and then the police quickly found and confirmed the identity of Liu Xuezhou's biological parents through DNA comparison.
But Liu Xuezhou's parents have long been divorced and have formed their own families.
On December 22, 2021, father and son met, and the son was filial to the father and kind, and his happiness was harmonious.
On January 10, 2022, Liu Xuezhou rushed to Inner Mongolia to meet his mother, who held her son's hand and told him kindly: After moving the hukou over, we live together, and this year we will celebrate the New Year together...
But happiness is like a colorful bubble, short and illusory, illuminated by the real sun, and disappears in an instant.
On January 17, Liu Xuezhou posted that his birth mother had blocked himself, and his biological father had also let his son block himself.
Fortunately, you turned your face so quickly, otherwise I would be trapped in it, and I really didn't expect my mother to say that if this adoptive family didn't take me away, there would be better people to take me away, and I didn't expect my father to say let me block him...
From a week ago, mother and child met happily and harmoniously, to today's sword-rattling, which is a big surprise.
And what is the real reason behind it?
It turned out that Liu Xuezhou had been living in a relative's house for all these years, and he hoped that his parents could rent a house or buy a house for himself to have a stable life.
It was in this matter that Liu Xuezhou and his biological parents had a dispute, and his mother scolded him for being a white-eyed wolf and having no conscience. Even blame the adoptive parents for poor family conditions, if they did not take away, there will be people with better family conditions to raise.
In the mother's view, Liu Xuezhou's lack of a place to live today is caused by his adoptive parents, because they do not have this ability, but they still have to hold their children. Now, just after confessing his relatives, he is going to force himself, which is simply a white-eyed wolf.
Such words, which came from the mouth of a mother, are truly "tears for the hearer, and sorrow for the hearer." ”
As a biological parent, when the child is three months old, he was taken away, as a parent did not fulfill the grace of a day's upbringing, the child searched hard, it was difficult to recognize the ancestors, but because the other party mentioned money, he changed his previous kindness and kindness, and scolded the child bitterly.
Parents completely disregard the child's feelings, the child has this appeal, as a parent should not understand the son's feelings? If it is true that because of the limited economic ability now, there is also its own family and children, and it is really impossible to meet the requirements of Liu Xuezhou, why can't you communicate well with your children? What about asking the other side's understanding to find a mutually acceptable solution?
Even if there is no matter how much the mother and child break, they can't change this blood thicker than water affection, break the bones and connect the tendons, why should they be so determined and destroy this lost and regained family affection? It also broke his son's heart again.
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Liu Xuezhou, now a 17-year-old sophomore in Xingtai, Hebei Province, has a cheerful personality, excellent grades, and a wall full of awards shining.
Through his own efforts, he has lived his own light, and also illuminated countless children who are moving forward in the darkness, and he said that he hopes to share this joy with his own parents.
Leaving aside, over the years, Liu Xuezhou has endured pain in his heart over the years, and the various sufferings he has experienced in order to find his biological parents.
As a parent, absent from the child's childhood, never gave him a trace of care and warmth, and now, lost and regained such an excellent and sensible child, should not the biological parents feel comforted and satisfied? Shouldn't you think about how to make up for the harm done to your child over the years?
Perhaps for them, Liu Xuezhou has always been a burden, the family was very poor, when Liu Xuezhou was three years old, they let people take Liu Xuezhou away at a price of thirty thousand yuan, and they never thought that this son would return to him one day.
So since you want to find it yourself, I can't refuse to recognize it, but if you want me to buy or rent a house, or pay for your future behavior, it won't work. After all, they all now have their own families and lives, and the emergence of Liu Xuezhou has also disrupted their originally peaceful lives.
17 years ago, Liu Xuezhou was sold by his biological parents because his family had no money, and now the family is reunited, but because of money, he was abandoned by his parents again.
After being separated for more than a decade, the flesh and blood reunion has become a vendetta between relatives. This is something we all don't want to see.
Liu Xuezhou originally said:
He will no longer hold his parents accountable for "selling him", but now he regrets it. The birth parents have their own families, they are not welcome to either of them, and they have never insisted on asking for a house from the birth parents, just want a place to live, even if it is rented, but they are said by the birth parents to be white-eyed wolves who just recognized the family and wanted the house. Then we will only see you in court.
Liu Xuezhou's post once again aroused the attention of the whole network, under the pressure of public opinion, his biological father said: willing to let Liu Xuezhou come to live with him, and willing to provide tuition and living expenses, but now it is impossible to buy a house.
As for Liu Xuezhou's statement that he was originally sold by his biological parents, his biological father denied this matter, but admitted that it was indeed because the family conditions were too poor, and he received 6,000 yuan from the other party.
17 years of dispersion, flesh and bones finally reunited, should have been to enjoy the joy of heaven, did not expect to be such a place of chicken feathers, it is really lamentable, we can't help but ask, liu Xuezhou, in the end, was not sold by his own parents?
17-year-old teenager Liu Xuezhou, his future, where should he go?
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