No matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education, and no matter how hard you are, you can't be bitter about your children.
When it comes to poor support, many parents will become energetic, my family is a boy, from a young age I can be poor! My family is a daughter, so I need to be rich!
Any parent who thinks this way, their problems are very serious. The key is not the sex of the child, but how much respect the child has.
"If your family is poor, you can't eat decent snacks"
From childhood to adulthood, the most common sentence that little one has heard is that our family is poor, you have to be sensible, and you can't see what you want. The parents unabashedly told Xiao Xiao that the conditions at home were not good.
But when he was a child, he could not understand what was poor, he only knew that all his wishes would not be fulfilled. You can't eat snacks, you can't wear new clothes, you can't wear amusement parks.
Every time he waited for his birthday to make a wish on the birthday cake, he seemed to be unable to think of anything, because he had slowly become desireless and undesirable, and any wish would not be fulfilled anyway.
However, the little parents do not think so, watching the little grow up according to their own requirements, sensible and obedient, and even clap their hands, let alone reflect and regret?
In fact, Xiao Xiao became more and more unhappy, and he didn't like to go home more and more, and every time he mentioned his parents and family outside, he always looked embarrassed and wanted to escape immediately.
Alpaca mom has something to say:
Today's parents will think twice before giving birth to a child, if their current economic situation can not provide a good environment for their children to grow, they will choose not to have children.
In the same way, if they finally decide to have children, it means that their economic conditions are passed, otherwise they feel that having children is a burden.
In addition, even if the family conditions are really poor, parents will try their best to meet their children, after all, they can't be bitter children, which is the requirements and sayings of the past and the present.
But how many parents can do it? As children grow older, parents' desires will also expand indefinitely, and excellent grades and obedience will become more important than physical health!
No matter how "poor" the family is, the parents of this money should not be chaotic, and the child will become inferior and cowardly
Money that contributes to learning
I don't know if you have had such an experience when you were a child, with the gimmick of buying teaching aids, asking your parents for more pocket money. In this case, even if the parents complain a lot, it is best to give money, and there will be no suspicion.
Isn't such a means just the use of parents' kindness to support their children's learning? Because parents do not dare to delay their children's learning, even if they are the children who rank last, they will vigorously support the idea of wanting to learn.
This is the sincerity of parents! After reading the teaching and auxiliary materials, it shows that there is another hope to catch up and achieve good results, if you don't even look at it, how can the results become better out of thin air?
In addition, parents are so supportive of their children's learning because they firmly believe that knowledge changes fate. Whether it is a parent with a high degree or a parent with a low degree, they all attach great importance to learning, as long as they can change the status quo and create miracles through learning.
Money that helps to cultivate interest
Some children can find their own learning interests, such as some children like to read, some like to take pictures, some like to play the piano, some like to draw.
Different students like very different things. It is said that interest is the best teacher, and once they have determined their hobbies, the initiative and self-consciousness of learning will rise sharply.
However, some parents are always worried that their children are three minutes hot, like this today, and tomorrow will become that. If you face all his interests and support, won't you test your parents' pockets?
In fact, the starting point of this idea of parents is not right. What is a hobby? That is to help students accumulate experience and feel happy. And the pursuit of spiritual harvest is more important than the achievement!
So does it matter what kind of results are achieved in the end? Even if you only like the interest for 3 days, if you can use the 3 days to accumulate experience, it can be a memory that you can remember hard.
But on the contrary, parents always pour cold water and reject their children's ideas, and children's self-confidence and creativity will be affected, repeatedly suppressed, which will only make children feel that they can't do anything, and even question whether parents love themselves or not, and are extremely insecure.
Today's Topic:
Do you always have a supportive attitude towards the development of your child's interests?