"I was a complete loser, no career, only a meager salary to survive, my mother got sick, but I didn't have money to treat her, and I watched my mother take her life from the disease." After busy with my mother's funeral, when I returned home, I found that I had lost my marriage again, and in the end, only the family was left! The 38-year-old Wang smiled and tearfully told his girlfriend about his experience, physical and mental necessity, and a strong sense of frustration!
Wang Xiaoxiao was born in the countryside, his parents are farmers, he runs a commissary at home, and his living conditions are not bad. Because of physical reasons, after my mother gave birth to Wang Xiaoxiao, she had a younger brother many years later. Wang Xiaoxiao is 18 years old with his brother, so Wang Xiaoxiao grew up almost as an only child, and her parents loved her very much, so Wang Xiaoxiao herself was a bit squeamish, a little playful, and a bit extravagant.
Wang Xiaoxiao's qualifications are average, and he is still a bit playful, so since elementary school, his grades have been bad. In junior high school, I studied hard for a year before I was admitted to a normal high school. The results of high school were as in the downstream as always, although Wang Xiaoxiao worked very hard in his third year of high school, and finally he was admitted to a junior college, and he still studied a major he did not like. When Wang Xiaoxiao went to college, she was very confused, where is her future?
After graduating from college, Wang Xiaoxiao found a clerical job in his hometown city, the salary was very low, the monthly salary was not enough for his own consumption, and he had to subsidize his family. After a few years, the salary was better, barely able to make ends meet, when Dad drove a pickup truck to buy goods, there was a car accident, died, the family lost its top pillar, and the world of my mother and brother collapsed.
Wang Xiaoxiao took a leave of absence to go home, helped his mother arrange his father's aftermath, and returned to the city. On weekdays, Wang Xiaoxiao worked step by step, and on weekends, he helped his mother buy goods, after all, the family commissary still had to open, and his brother still had to grow up. In this way, Wang Xiaoxiao lived in the city for many years, did not mix a famous hall, or a basic clerk, the salary is not high, and she has become a leftover woman.
After many blind dates, Wang Xiaoxiao lost patience and casually chose to marry alone and flash marriage. Wang Xiaoxiao believes that even if two people have no love and respect each other, they can live a life in peace, which is good. It may be the reason for the late marriage, or it may be a physical reason, Wang Xiaoxiao has never wanted a child. She also went to the hospital for a check-up, and the doctor said that she had no physical problems, relaxed her mind, and let nature take its course.
While Wang Xiaoxiao was living a plain life, Wang Xiaoxiao received another bad news, and his mother found out that he had advanced stomach cancer. Wang Xiaoxiao took a long vacation with the unit and took the only few tens of thousands of yuan at home to take care of his mother. As everyone knows, Wang Xiaoxiao's tens of thousands of yuan are only a cup of water for his mother's treatment. Emptied the family foundation, still poor money, and finally watched his mother die.
Wang Xiaoxiao sadly arranged his mother's aftermath, sent his brother back to school, and embarked on the way home. Unexpectedly, the night she returned home, she accidentally saw her husband's WeChat, she polished her eyes and looked at it over and over again, she really realized that her husband had cheated on her, the other party was pregnant, and the two sides were negotiating when to get married. Undoubtedly, this fact was a big blow to Wang Xiaoxiao.
Wang Xiaoxiao thought that her mother and father had died, she still had her husband, she still had a home, but now her home was gone. That night, Wang Xiaoxiao filed for divorce with her husband, and the next day, he packed up his things and moved into the dormitory of the staff of the unit. Wang Xiaoxiao found a place where no one was there, and cried bitterly, and his depressed mood was relieved a little.
What made Wang Xiaoxiao happy was that her good girlfriend took a few days off to accompany herself, which had the beginning of the period of sluggishness. Indeed, life has given Wang Xiaoxiao all kinds of blows, making her sluggish and losing confidence in life, but she is only 38 years old, she is still young, she has a job, a brother who goes to college, and a girlfriend who pushes her heart, and there is hope in life.
Life may give us suffering and problems, but it also gives us the strength to grow, no matter how difficult it is, the direction of life is always to be beautiful, as long as we go forward, it must be better and better. Friends, for the 38-year-old girl who claims to be a complete loser, no career, can't save her mother, and lost her marriage! What do you think? Welcome to leave a message, comment, bookmark, forward!