The primary school stage is very simple, and most primary school students can get along peacefully and friendly.
In elementary schools, it is common to see pictures of going to the toilet and eating together, and they appear almost every day.
The reason why primary school girls go to the toilet together is inseparable from the campus environment and the lack of security of girls.
Recess time is very limited, but most primary school toilets, which are not numerous, tend to be overcrowded.
And most primary school toilets don't have doors and don't have any privacy to speak of, which is why some elementary school students travel together.
A few days ago, a sixth-grade girl in Ningxia came to menstruation because the toilet on campus was not covered, which attracted ridicule from other children.
This incident was posted on the Internet, which immediately aroused everyone's attention.
Parents said that the school's bathroom has no doors, and the teacher's bathroom is not allowed to be used by children.
Entering the primary school stage, after the rapid development of the child's body, it is inevitable that the above embarrassing scenes will occur.
In the face of the problems reflected by parents, the school deals with and decides at the first time.
The bathroom environment of elementary school students will be rectified and partition doors will be installed.
In special cases, the teacher's bathroom can also be used by students.
The occurrence of this incident also sounded the alarm for parents and teachers.
Adolescent children are in a sensitive and thoughtful stage, and any behavior may leave scars on their hearts, so in the face of adolescent children, the following points can not be ignored.
[Parents should let adolescent children understand this]
1, to have a sense of self-protection
In the face of adolescent children, as a parent, we must first teach them how to protect themselves.
Especially adolescent girls, in the face of rapid physical development and different eyes around them, are likely to put them in a state of inability to adapt.
Fluctuations in mentality will not only have an impact on their performance, but more importantly, they will have an impact on their mental health.
At this time, parents give appropriate guidance to let them understand that physical changes are normal and do not require excessive anxiety.
Only when they can correctly face the problems of adolescence can they effectively avoid the emergence of greater contradictions.
2, to understand the difference between men and women
When parents face the education of adolescent children, they should try to make them understand as much as possible: there is a difference between men and women, and there is a big difference between boys and girls.
When this kind of sexual enlightenment and sex education is carried out in an orderly manner, it can also make children face this event more rationally and spend a more stable time in sensitive adolescence.
3. Parents and teachers are the backing
Many adolescent children are anxious and emotionally unstable, so their hearts are in a state of great trepidation.
At this time, parents should let their children understand that no matter at what time, children must have confidence in parents and teachers.
Believe that teachers and parents will be the best partners and backing for them in their growth.
Only in this way, when they make choices and confusion, they will first turn their attention to parents and teachers for help, so that they can spend puberty in a more stable and healthy environment.
【Key points in the education of adolescent children】
1. Sex education is indispensable
In the face of adolescent children, whether it is physical development or mental health, parents must increase the importance.
The most important thing is sex education, although many parents are difficult to talk about, believing that talking about such topics with their children is not conducive to their growth, and even plays the opposite role.
As everyone knows, the correct guidance of parents can make children face rationally and completely eliminate the confusion in their hearts, so that they can rationally and correctly face various difficulties and problems in life.
2, the child's dynamics should be paid attention to
In the process of adolescent children's growth, changes in mentality and changes in behavior cannot be ignored.
As a parent, paying attention to their emotional changes in time can avoid many problems.
In addition to observation, it is also necessary to maintain stable communication with children, which is also an effective way to prevent adolescents from making wrong decisions and taking a crooked path during adolescence.
【Educational Insight】:
Gorky once said that living in our world, it is completely impossible to understand people without reading. Although many parents complain that adolescent children are difficult to discipline and disobey, they do not focus on the education of adolescent children, so adolescent children have also made various outrageous behaviors.
Adolescence, as a specific stage of children's growth, will inevitably have some behaviors that are not satisfied with parents.
However, if parents can give correct guidance and attention to adolescent children, many adolescent problems can be fundamentally eliminated, and there will be no situation of expanding contradictions.
Only then can parents create a better growth environment for them.
Talk about educational perspectives: Do you think that what parents should do when facing the various problems of adolescent children is the most beneficial to their growth and mental health? Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences below.