There is no shortage of scumbags in this society, of course, there are good men, but good men are not all people can meet, and scumbags seem to be everywhere. So that even if a woman encounters feelings, she can't help but explore it again and again, in order not to let herself be deceived.
In fact, a man, whether he really loves you in his heart, or just cheating on your feelings, can make a clear judgment through certain things, and see what he usually takes the initiative to contact you, it is because of what can be clear.
If a man, he really loves you, then, when he contacts you, he must miss you, maybe encountered something happy to share with you, and if a man, when he contacts you, is in need of your help, other than that, there is nothing else, then, obviously, he does not love you, just use your feelings. The man will take the initiative to contact you at these times, indicating that you have a very important place in his heart.
1, when you need help, he will take the initiative to contact you
When a woman encounters difficulties, even if she is strong, her heart will long to have someone around her to accompany her and share her worries and solve difficulties, if she can have a dependence, no one wants to carry everything by herself, because a person is really too tired and too difficult.
So, the man who loves you, he must understand you, but also understand you, so, when he learns that you need help, he will take the initiative to contact you: ask where you are, tell you he will come right away, let you don't worry, everything is with him.
A man like this is obviously deeply in love with you, and you must have a very important place in his heart, so he will be so positive and attentive when he learns that you need help.
2, when you are "aunt", he will accompany you and take care of you
Women always have a few uncomfortable days a month, and these days are also the worst stages, and sometimes they may take direct vacations at home.
When he can accurately remember your "menstrual period" and take the initiative to contact you these days and want to accompany you, then you should understand the importance of you in his heart.
If a man can spend his mind on small things, then the other party must be someone he attaches great importance to, do not feel that these are not important, when women have his company in this critical period, although the body is still uncomfortable, but the heart will be warm.
3, when you are in a bad mood, he will take the initiative to contact you and give you the comfort you want
This society is full of pressure everywhere, and many times it is necessary to learn to solve it by yourself. Everyone's life is not smooth sailing, there will always be some setbacks, at this time, it is difficult to be in a good mood.
And the man who loves you must be paying attention to you all the time, so when you are in a bad mood, he will take the initiative to contact you, ask you what is wrong, will do his best to enlighten you, comfort you, and do not want you to be entangled in unhappiness.
A man like this who will take the initiative to contact you, comfort you, coax you, and make you happy when you are unhappy is really concerned about you, and you must be important in his heart, with a heavy weight.
4, he will take the initiative to contact you when he achieves his own achievements
A man who has you in his heart will definitely keep you firmly in his heart, and no matter what happens, the first thing he thinks of will definitely be you, because you are important to him.
Especially when he achieves success in his career, he will take the initiative to contact you for the first time, share the joy in his heart with you at the moment, and a man like this who will share his happiness with you really has you in his heart.
Because the man who does not love you, even if he encounters happy things, he can't think of you, so you must know how to cherish the man who is willing to share his happiness with you, because he really loves you.
What does it look like to love someone in the best state? That's when you need him, he's always there, and that's all that can make a woman die.
If a man is willing to contact you when you are in difficulty, accompany you when you are in a bad mood, and care about you during your menstrual period, then he must put you in a very important position and will do this to you.
The love that women want is very simple, nothing more than a confidant, love until old, but many times they fail to do so, some men always say that they love you very much, but when they need him, he hides aside and completely ignores you.
Therefore, if a man solemnly puts you in his heart, then you must cherish it and grasp the happiness that belongs to you!
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