Is there pure friendship between the opposite sex?
When Xiaoli first went to work, she met a big brother in the office, and when she first met, everyone was an ordinary colleague and had no private interaction.
Later, Xiao Li found that this big brother was really very righteous and bold, and he had always been very respectful of himself and had rules and regulations.
Over the years, the two people have maintained very friendly exchanges, in Xiaoli's view, the other party is the same as his own brother, as long as he opens his mouth, the eldest brother has always been able to help, never resign.
This kind of friendship has been maintained for many years, making Xiaoli feel that this is not a pure friendship between men and women?
But one night, the eldest brother called Xiaoli, and Xiaoli listened to the tone of the eldest brother, and should have drunk too much.
The eldest brother said to Xiao Li, "After all these years, don't you know my thoughts?" Don't you understand my kindness to you? ”
Xiao Li listened to the other party's words, did not know how to answer, and there was a little more sadness in her heart, it turned out that this was the person she had always regarded as her brother.
Therefore, sometimes don't easily accept a person's kindness to you, because there are some feelings that you can't afford.
Is there really any pure friendship between men and women?
I think that only those who have actually experienced it will understand that those who maintain the seemingly pure relationship between men and women in the name of friendship are just one person who has a hard time speaking.
It is true to like a person, but once the love thing appears in the wrong person, it is hurtful, either self-harm or hurtful.
Of course, there is also a situation where two people admire each other, but they can only stay at the level of "loving you in the heart is difficult to open".
A point of view was put forward: there is a pure relationship between men and women, but there is no pure friendship.
This is because, in the face of emotions, no one can deceive themselves.
If you don't like a person of the opposite sex, you won't take the initiative to get close, on the contrary, if a person doesn't like you, there is no reason to help you regardless of return.
Therefore, don't believe in the friendship between men and women, once it is stained with feelings, it is hurt to go in and out.
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