Ah said: "The first meaning of freedom is to take responsibility for oneself. "There is no absolute freedom in the world, and freedom and responsibility always go hand in hand. When it comes to love, this principle is also universal.
She was the first talented woman in the country, the first female architect in our country, and he was a Romantic poet and a talented professor. The two meet in a foreign country, know each other on campus, women love rationally, transparently; men love fanatically, full.
They start by accident and end in responsibility, and they are the beautiful talents Xu Zhimo and Lin Huiyin.
Destiny
In 1904, Lin Huiyin was born in Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province, to a privileged family. His grandfather, Lin Xiaogong, was born as a jinshi, and his father, Lin Changmin, was a very politically active person. From an early age, Lin Huiyin received a good education and showed a high talent for learning. In 1920, at the age of 16, Lin Huiyin entered St. Mary's College.
Days in the UK are both fresh and boring. Fortunately, she met Xu Zhimo, who was also studying here. With the right age, there will be more words, and slowly the two will become friends who talk about everything. Xu Zhimo fell in love with Lin Huiyin at first sight, and compared to the pedantic state of the original wife's "little foot", he admired the wisdom and erudition of the beautiful person in front of him. He embarked on a frantic pursuit of Lin Huiyin.
Xu Zhimo is romantic, he uses words to record the bits and pieces of the two people, turning the short moment into an eternity. He was writing like a fountain at this time, and he was going to record all her goodness with poetry. Lin Huiyin was at the beginning of his love sinus, and he couldn't refuse at all in the face of a blazing heat. The two walked around the campus like lovers, looking at the scenery of Kangqiao and unable to extricate themselves.
When Father Lin learned of the relationship, he refused, because Lin Changmin knew that Xu Zhimo had a wife in China. As a father, he must not accept his beloved daughter as a third party. When Lin Huiyin knew the truth, she was also shocked and fell into a dilemma.
The time the two of them spent together was vivid, and how regrettable it would be to disappear, but she was a reasonable person and knew how disgraceful this behavior was.
Xu Zhimo's attitude was much more decisive, he recklessly filed for divorce from his wife, and Zhang Youyi was pregnant at this time. Storms of doubt and opposition poured in, and he ignored them.
And Lin Huiyin retreated. Lin Huiyin was afraid of this situation, even if Xu Zhimo could divorce and replace him, he would become the object of scorn by the world and could not lift his head all the time. She knew very well that she didn't want this kind of life.
Therefore, Lin Huiyin and his father silently left, rejected Xu Zhimo with actions, and left the poet and the "Kangqiao Diary" that recorded the words of the two men, that is, Lin Huiyin tried his best to find what was destroyed after Xu Zhimo's death.
Go your separate ways
Lin Hui's resignation parted, and the poet's enthusiasm was instantly half-cut. Xu Zhimo and his wife have long been at odds, he does not think that he has anything wrong in the pursuit of free love, and he is depressed all day.
In 1922, Xu Zhimo returned to China and met Lu Xiaoman. Dissatisfied with her husband Wang Geng's pedantic and dull, Lu Xiaoman wandered into social places every day. After the two met, they hit it off and immediately fell in love. In order to be able to be together, Lu Xiaoman disregarded the world, divorced Wang Geng and married Xu Zhimo.
This marriage is the poet's romantic expectation, they had a good time, but the good times are not long, because Lu Xiaoman likes to make friends with celebrities, mixed in the Ten Mile Ocean Field, the cost is very large. Xu Zhimo had to teach around to meet his wife's needs. For a long time, it was overwhelmed.
The burden of life suddenly overwhelmed the two of them, followed by a long quarrel, no peace. In order to enjoy a moment of tranquility, Xu Zhimo often used business trips as an excuse to live outside.
One day in 1931, Xu Zhimo returned to his home in Shanghai and saw Lu Xiaoman smoking opium. He couldn't bear it any longer, and after a big fight with his wife, he grabbed the door and left.
After Lin Huiyin returned to China, he continued his life according to his father's arrangement. She often participated in various literary and artistic activities, and then went abroad to study architecture and stage art design.
In 1928, Lin Huiyin married Liang Sicheng, and the latter two taught in the Department of Architecture of Northeastern University. From 1930 to 1945, Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng inspected and surveyed a number of ancient buildings. The couple has played a major role in the protection of ancient buildings in China and are the founders of China's construction industry.
On one side is each other's foam and mutual fulfillment, while on the other side is water and fire intolerable, black smoke miasma. It's amazing that the two couples have taken such different paths! Of course, Lin Huiyin and Xu Zhimo also intersected, and they often met at the activities of the Crescent Moon Society. In 1924, the two worked together as Tagore's guide to China, but the relationship was very different from before.
Battle for the Crate
I thought everything was settled, so I was all right, but things took a turn.
On November 19, 1931, Xu Zhimo was killed on the way from Nanjing to Beijing on a postal plane at the age of 35. Lin Huiyin, who was in Beijing, did not wait for her friends, and when she learned the bad news, she was in pain.
Lin Hui felt guilty and thought that it was his invitation to kill Xu Zhimo, and for a time he could not extricate himself. And Lu Xiaoman was also deeply shocked, she changed her past behavior, no longer nostalgic for flowers and wine, and sorting out her husband's book manuscript became her most important daily routine. It is a matter of happiness that the wife should be happy, but the Slovaks are dead.
Lu Xiaoman and Lin Huiyin are two kinds of people living in different circles, and there should be no intersection, but because Xu Zhimo's relics and eight treasure chests are in love, it is really an accident.
Xu Zhimo left a lot of works in the days with Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman, especially during his study in the UK, and there were many manuscripts, which recorded his and Lin Huiyin's various works. After the end of the relationship, Xu Zhimo could not bear to destroy it and secretly kept it. After marrying Lu Xiaoman, he will be hidden in Ling Shuhua for safekeeping.
After Xu Zhimo's death, in order to sort out the manuscript, Lin Hui asked Ling Shuhua for the elimination of influence, but they were all rejected.
Ling Shuhua knew the content of the manuscript, which contained the love diary of Xu Zhimo and Lin Huiyin, which certainly could not be handed over to Lu Xiaoman; on the other hand, the content left Xu Zhimo's various complaints and dissatisfactions about Lin Huiyin after he did not quit, and there was also a sea oath mountain alliance with Lu Xiaoman, which could not be handed over to Lin Huiyin.
Lin Huiyin knew very well how bad an impact Xu Zhimo's manuscript would have on his family once it was published and made public. To this end, she successively entrusted her friends Shen Congwen and Hu Shi to come forward, and finally Hu Shi got the manuscript.
Ling Shuhua advised Hu Shi that he must objectively establish a biography for Xu Zhimo and not hand over the manuscript to others. In addition, after using it, the manuscript should be handed over to Lu Xiaoman. However, Hu Shi did not heed the admonition and gave the manuscript directly to Lin Huiyin, who burned the manuscript at the first time.
Ling Shuhua, who learned the truth, fell out with Hu Shi and became infamy with Lin Huiyin, while Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman had a new grudge. Afterwards, Hu Shi sighed, a box of book manuscripts, making the city of Beijing full of wind and rain. Shen Congwen later commented on this: Lin Huiyin used his calmness and connections to avoid a disaster that affected himself.
brief summary:
Meeting the right person at the wrong time, and meeting the wrong person at the wrong time are all unfortunate things about love.
Xu Zhimo, Lin Huiyin, and Lu Xiaoman are all in their own love, they have their own freedom, and at the same time they all have their own responsibilities. Their love entanglements are doomed not to be resolved satisfactorily.
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