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When the circle of friends just emerged, most people were simple, and at that time, the circle of friends was just to record life, after all, people's memory is limited, and some things can be recorded in order to be better preserved.
And people's emotions are time-sensitive, at some point in the moment you are happy, depressed, excited or desperate, and after a while, these emotions may be gone.
Properly documented will make your life more three-dimensional and richer.
But I don't know when it started, the taste of the circle of friends gradually changed, people send the circle of friends is no longer simply to record life, but to operate people.
In order to make themselves look like a very successful and exquisite person, the circle of friends they send is becoming more and more deliberate and more and more false.
Not only that, but there are also some people who do everything unscrupulously and don't care about other people's feelings at all.
In fact, from a person's circle of friends, you can roughly see his personality, character and emotional intelligence and other aspects of things, if a person likes to send the following kinds of circles of friends, it can be seen that other people's character is not good, no matter who it is, do not make deep friends.
One: Like to spit and complain in the circle of friends, full of negative energy
In real life, many people still don't like to get along and contact with people with negative energy, let alone in the virtual online world.
Those who like to complain and complain not only do not handle interpersonal relationships well, but also cannot logically be self-consistent and reconcile with their inner selves. Such a person, in every respect, is not a person who is truly mature in thought.
In the adult world, nothing is easy.
Everyone is doing their best to live, and it is also clear that living well is a kind of luck, and living badly is a norm. Because of this, they force themselves to correct their mentality and live well.
If at this time, you see others surrounded by negative energy, it is inevitable that it will be affected by it and disrupt the original rhythm.
Living itself is already very tired, don't let those negative energy people bring you negative influences, in the future time, we can only feel more love and warmth if we are as close as possible to people with positive energy.
Two: Like to compare and show off in the circle of friends, bringing endless anxiety
Truly mature people understand that the world is their own and have nothing to do with others. If a person is addicted to showing off and comparing, it can only mean that he has a small pattern and a narrow vision.
At the same time, such people are instinctively unconfident.
Because he needs to be recognized and paid attention from the outside world, only in this way can he feel his own value.
And those who are truly mature and successful do not need such attention and recognition at all, they have no sense of inferiority, and naturally do not need to ask for it.
Not only that, but seeing those people compete and show off, we will also be affected by it and become more and more impetuous. When others are getting better and better, and they are getting worse and worse, it is inevitable that they will have self-doubt and self-denial.
But these could have been avoided, and if you don't look at such a circle of friends, you may not think so much.
We live in a world where information is extremely cumbersome, and as soon as we pick up our phones, we will see all kinds of information. Some are useful to us, while others only exacerbate our anxiety.
For the former, we should look at it more; for the latter, it should be avoided in time.
And those who habitually compare and show off in the circle of friends are undoubtedly people with extremely poor ideas, and if they get too close to them, they will only affect themselves, but it is better to draw a clear line and go their own way.
Three: Like to chew the root of the tongue in the circle of friends, can not see others are good, the pattern is small and the character is worrying
In addition to the above two, there is also a kind of person who is extremely annoying, they are people who like to say bad things about people behind their backs. Such people often have a small pattern, can't see others well, and like to stir up dissension.
Li Yu in the TV series "Perfect Partner" is such a person.
She and Chen Shan of the same company are all fighting for the quota of senior partners, and when they find that their ability and performance are not as good as Chen Shan, they begin to do things behind their backs.
She not only dug up Chen Shan's customers, but also took the opportunity to provoke her relationship with customers, making her husband mistakenly think that the child was not his.
Such a person is not only small in pattern and narrow in vision, but also has a worrying personality.
In life, such people are never in the minority, they like to send chat records to the circle of friends, insinuately provoke, so that the two people originally had nothing to do, but also began to turn against each other.
And he pretends to be innocent and reaps the benefits of the fisherman.
If there is such a person in your circle of friends, then you should pay attention, you have not affected his interests, he will not notice you for the time being, in case there is some kind of conflict, then he may do whatever it takes.
People who like to send the above three kinds of circles of friends actually have one thing in common, that is, everything is self-centered, living selfishly and narrowly, they do not care about the feelings of others, and only think about themselves.
Getting along with such a person is harmful and not beneficial.
If you have also met such a person, it is better to draw a line in time so as not to be hurt by it.
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