There was a saying circulating on the Internet before: I am responsible for making money to support my family, and you are responsible for being beautiful as a flower. At any time, a man will only spend all the money he earns on her when he truly loves a woman, and even if he borrows money, he will spend it on her. Xu Zhimo's treatment of Lu Xiaoman was probably in such a state.
At that time, the combination of Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman went through many twists and turns, the opposition of the parents of both sides, the obstruction of the two original families, and even the discussion of unrelated personnel outside. But xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman both resisted these disapproving voices. After hardships, the two finally formed a small family of their own.
During the Republic of China, the salaries of teachers were quite high, and the salaries of the famous talent Xu Zhimo were naturally not low. Not to mention that he has held several positions at one time, serving as a professor in different universities.
This is not that Xu Zhimo is very free, but because Lu Xiaoman spends too much, he has to work hard to make money to raise Lu Xiaoman. At that time, most people's annual salary was only five oceans a year, but Xu Zhimo's annual salary added up to hundreds of oceans.
Moreover, Xu Zhimo himself never saved private money, and all his money was spent to Lu Xiaoman. Even so, Lu Xiaoman often complained to Xu Zhimo, saying that he did not have enough money to spend. Sometimes, Xu Zhimo would even ask a friend to borrow money to give Lu Xiaoman flowers (he had also borrowed money with Zhang Youyi, so it can be seen how much he may have borrowed).
For Lu Xiaoman, who spends money like flowing water, Xu Zhimo also gently advised her not to spend money so much, but Lu Xiaoman did not listen. Although Xu Zhimo felt helpless, he was not angry, and every time Lu Xiaoman said that he had no money, Xu Zhimo would send money to his home.
In the first half of 1931 alone, Xu Zhimo made eight trips to and from Beiping and Shanghai, all of which went home to see Lu Xiaoman send her money. From these deeds, it can be seen that Xu Zhimo really likes Lu Xiaoman. Otherwise, she would not be willing to spend all his money on her.
So if a man loves a woman, he will not be stingy with her. This generosity has nothing to do with whether you are rich or not. What do you think?