Either you haven't met someone whose eyes are you and gives you enough security, or you're just too insecure to fully trust the other person, and that's not prejudice.
If you are still young in your teens and twenties, then you can rest assured of love, but obviously eat soft rice.
If the love has not been echoed, then cry well, go to a good meal, no matter how afraid of being hurt, these are rarely avoided in emotional experiences.
If that's the case, then love bravery, just like buying clothes will inevitably encounter inappropriate, unsuitable take off to try on the next one, will always encounter the clothes that suit you.
He may not be gorgeous enough but warm enough.
These two days and colleagues ridiculed his emotional experience, he held his head and complained to us: "Later, I felt that sometimes I liked it, and sometimes I didn't like it."
But I don't know if it's real when I like it or when I don't like it.
Even if the past moments of happiness have reached a new height, a little deeper than the happiness tasted in previous lives, but once something that makes me hate appears, I quickly reduce my enthusiasm, I am not without the ability to love, I am losing tolerance.
I can't forgive this adult as I can forgive a baby for wetting the bed.
My love is there, but my feelings are minus points, and at the same time I deeply feel that he thinks the same thing about me, and they are cautious about each other, or maybe not careful, just go with the flow.
I have never loved someone deeply, and every relationship is actually a game with myself, and when I lose, we are over.
It's easy for me to fall into the trap of trying to prove that the other person loves me or not.
It's strange that sometimes you can feel the other person's liking, but always question "does he really like me", "how long will he like me", "will he start to dislike me".
Then it was completely messed up, and it was hard for me to see his performance of loving me again, and his eyes were full of details that did not make me feel loved. But you know, everyone is an ordinary person, how can someone be able to get every detail in place.
With the so-called evidence of not being loved, he began to be jealous and self-pitying, magnified every small thing to the point of hopelessness, and began to plot a breakup in his heart. The contradictions become more and more intense, the feelings develop unconsciously in the direction of their own "hope", and finally the two people are physically and mentally exhausted and choose to separate.
Then he pretended to be relaxed and thought, "Look, he really doesn't really love me, otherwise how could he leave me so easily." "But I don't know that love also has a bottom line."
At the end of the day, I'm still not very confident, and I always feel that no one will really love me all the time. I got too little love from childhood to adulthood, so I always felt that love was a luxury. Since it is such a precious thing, can I really have it? How long will I have? How long is the other party willing to give me?
But believe it, you are already a very good person, the other party likes you because you are enough to make him move, he is willing to give you such a precious love. Even if the whole world thinks you don't deserve it, as long as he wants to, you deserve it.
The next time you meet someone who likes you, don't rush to push him out. No one is born to love people, we learn together, love and be loved together, okay. ”
Can maintain long-term mutual attraction, there is only one, that is, to talk, the more they can talk, the more willing to share their recent lives and ideas, the deeper the integration of the two people, the more people outside can not come in, talk, life will always have laughter, so find a chat to get married, simply too important, nothing to talk about important.
The right person doesn't have to have a high level of emotional intelligence, but they must understand your points and know how to make you happy, so that it won't be too difficult to spend a long life together. He won't be reasonable when you're emotional, and he won't be tough with you when you're angry and smoking.
The point is, never lose your romantic ability.
This romance does not only refer to love, but more importantly, curiosity and exploration of the world, reading and writing, naïve thoughts and kindness in the bones, a sense of ritual necessary for life.
Never lose these, don't stop loving. Promise me to protect the shiny parts of yourself.
Insisting on being romantic, even if it is only in vain, but also to let the futility happen, the process itself is a gift.
Seeing such a passage today, if you love someone, you have to live well with him.
Don't think about it so much, leave it to you later.
Don't be afraid, don't think wildly, don't be suspicious.
What should happen will always happen, and you can't stop it.
If you guess what won't happen, it will only affect your mood.
Whether a person loves you or not, you know best in your own heart.
Why think so much, just believe him.
If someone asks me one day what it's like to miss it to the extreme, I'll say that every time my phone rings, I want it to be you, every time.
Don't covet meaningless people or things, how to free up the hand carrying garbage to receive gifts, on the new journey, the past is zero, love and hate at will.
The past does not look back, the future will not be.
I hate the ambiguous state before love.
Even if we know each other, I don't like it, I want to be open and honest, and tell me plainly that you like me, this is a kind of peace of mind, but also a kind of responsibility.
Someone told me before that I enjoyed this feeling, and even kept such an ambiguous state with many people at the same time, I liked to open my eyes in the morning to see others say good morning to myself, talk for a long time in the evening, and then say goodnight to many people.
I can understand, but I like and enjoy the feeling that the window paper is not picked, that I can be loved unscrupulously, and I don't even need to be responsible for the relationship.
But I can't, I think like is like, I have to tell you very frankly, I like you, do you like me, do we want to be together.
Hate everything uncertain, love talk a lot, meet too many wrong people, I want to be sure earlier, you are not the one who can accompany me down.
After the heartbeat is very much want to be at ease, too lazy to take the time to guess whether you are finished and run.
When we were with our previous partners, we also had a slight period of ambiguity, and during that time we often went out to eat and watch movies together, but I really hated that uncertain relationship, so I cheekily said to him, I like you, do you like me?
Then we were together.
There is no sense of ceremony, and no one is struggling to pursue anyone, but the feeling of mutual certainty is very reassuring.
Love really does not depend on the length of time to determine the relationship, some people are like the fragments dropped by the cosmic explosion many years ago, have been struggling to find each other, the moment they met, tears in their eyes, pity each other.
Before a friend was single for more than twenty years, he met a boy, and the two of them met for a week and got married, and now they are very affectionate.
Really, if the Scythians are rainbows, they know that there is a party.
In love, some girls can be heavenly, while some are more sensible and painful.
They are always accustomed to disguising their sensitive and vulnerable sides, pretending to be a mature strong woman, and sometimes they are not willing to show the truest side even in the face of their closest lover.
In fact, in love, there is never any trouble or trouble, and falling in love is originally to trouble each other. Don't be afraid that you will trouble him, falling in love is originally a mutual "disturbance" that you and I want.
Don't always force yourself to be sensible. The person who is truly loved, don't worry about what else he can't do enough, because you're already 100 points old when he falls in love with you.
Isn't that what girls are? When I said it was okay, my heart was pounding.
Turn around and say that when you are busy, you never know how fiercely she is crying. But you don't know, they're very coaxing and they're vulnerable.
A hug, a warm look, even a small act of affection, she will remove her disguised armor and tell you what she really thinks.
Every girl wants to be cared for, cared for, and put in the heart of the loved one.
Understand her careful thinking, know her bad habits, can detect her small emotions, and can feel the love of being spared no effort.
She just wants you to prove your love for her in the trivialities of life. Someone once said that where there is love, there must be "lies". All her duplicity is telling you that there is one thing that it never lies. That is— "I love you, from beginning to end." ”