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· The strong are strong in thinking ·
In the era of fierce competition, every parent "hopes to become a dragon" and hopes that their children can become strong, but there are thousands of people in the world, and there are few strong people.
How do you excel? We must learn to cultivate a strong thinking in our children. If you want to have a strong mindset, these three laws must be understood by children.
The three laws of the strong man's mind
1. Crab Law (Bottom Fall)
When we put a crab in the basket, we must cover it, otherwise the crab will definitely crawl out.
But if you can put two more in it, you don't have to worry, because when one of them is about to climb out, the others will pull it down, and finally, no one will want to climb out, this is the law of crabs.
Sociologist Sun Liping once proposed a concept called the fall of the bottom. The more people at the bottom, the easier it is to fall into the mode of mutual harm, spending all their energy on hurting others, rather than focusing on self-growth. In the end, everyone was not good.
The lower the level of people tend to tear each other down, on the contrary, the higher the level of people, the more they know how to appreciate each other, mutual achievement.
Therefore, we should guide children to appreciate the advantages of others.
2. Mushroom Law (One Heart Upward)
The law of mushrooms means that newcomers are often placed in dark corners, unappreciated or miscellaneous errands, just like mushroom cultivation.
Subjected to all kinds of groundless accusations, generational experience, in the process of self-destruction. Mushroom growth must go through such a process, and human growth will also go through such a process. This is the law of mushrooms.
But if you survive the dark days, you're out of the way. If you give up easily, you will be buried.
Therefore, the more we have no achievements and people speak softly, the more we have to redouble our efforts.
3. The Law of Fleas (Self-Limit)
Psychologists once did an interesting experiment, they found that fleas can normally jump out of their height of four hundred times their own height, but if when jumping, put a glass plate on the top of his head, each time he will hit it, then after several consecutive times, he will adjust the height of his jump.
As the height of the glass plate is constantly lowered, the height of his jump will become lower and lower, and in the end, although the glass plate is removed, it cannot jump up, which is the law of fleas.
There is only one kind of failure in life, that is, self-limiting, do not shrink yourself back into the circle of ability, if you want to succeed and become strong, you should never set limits on yourself. Everyone has endless possibilities.
How to cultivate thinking
In fact, in the final analysis, the gap between us and the strong is the difference in the way of thinking about dealing with problems. In the same problem, the weak cannot calculate the answer, but the strong have multiple solutions, so multi-dimensional thinking prompts them to solve the problem when facing difficulties.
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