I once heard a saying: "It's not that you can't get through the predicament, it's that you're too weak; it's not that no one cares about you, it's that you're too good." ”
Women can't do too much, but they can "do" it appropriately. The premise is that you can master this degree, not too much will often backfire, too shallow and like scratching the itch in the boot, no use.
If a relationship wants to be long-lasting, you don't need to be too ''done'', but you can't ''do'' without 'doing'. Do it moderately, do it just right, strengthen each other's interaction and emotional exchange through ''doing'' and let him know that you care about him, so that you can go farther and farther. Women understand these 3 "dos", not only will not make men disgusted, but also let him love you more!
1. Use '''work' to satisfy his heroic complex
There are some women who are particularly sensible in their feelings, no matter what difficulties they encounter, they carry themselves, and they are always afraid of bringing trouble to their boyfriends. They think that their understanding is intimate, but they don't know that for men, they don't need him.
In feelings, it is not only women who need a sense of existence, but also men. If you can solve it yourself, whether it is repairing the toilet or changing the light bulb, then what sense of existence does a man have? Your strong independence will not make him feel that you love him, on the contrary, it will only make him feel that you have him and he is not the same. You know, most men have machismo, they want to be a hero in the heart of the woman they love, they want her to look up to themselves. Learn to show weakness in feelings, and give the man the opportunity to perform to satisfy his heroic complex at the same time, but also deepen your feelings.
The so-called feelings are not established in each other's back and forth, so don't be afraid of troublesome men, men who really love you are willing to help you and are willing to participate in your life. At the same time, men often prefer not women who are strong and independent and can solve anything by themselves, but women who know how to show weakness and know how to trouble him.
2. Use ''making'' as a condiment for feelings
Whether it is love or marriage, the final direction is flat. Some people's feelings flow in the ordinary days, and some people drift away.
Many times, two people are separated not because they don't love, but by hiding their love in trivial days, thinking that they no longer need each other. Because of such a misunderstanding, it is a pity to live up to each other's fate and live up to the feelings of many years.
Therefore, in the ordinary days, in addition to the need to establish a sense of ceremony, it is also necessary to use "doing" to awaken each other's love. Your 'doing' will inject freshness into your feelings, will make men understand that it is not easy for a relationship to come to the present, will let you re-establish a love connection, and create opportunities for communication through ''doing'' to communicate, so that you can get closer and go further.
3, ''Do'' to let him understand that you really care about him
If you like someone, you will have a strong possessiveness toward him, you will be jealous of him, and you will want to know everything about him.
But if he has time with you or not, you have no objection; you don't mind who he goes out with; you don't ask him what he did today or where he went. You feel that this is trust and respect for him, and you feel that falling in love should give the other party enough freedom and space, but in his eyes, you do not pay attention to him, it is indifferent, it is not love.
Your understanding and thoughtfulness will not win his gratitude, on the contrary, it will only make you more and more distant. Because only two people who are deeper and deeper can go farther and farther. Therefore, you don't have to make yourself too well-behaved and sensible, sometimes overbearing, make your own little temper, he will know that you care about him.
To fall in love is to find the right person to face the disturbances of this world. Be happy, let the happiness double, be sad, let the sadness be halved, and each other is the other's dependence and support.
Therefore, women really don't have to be too well-behaved and sensible in their feelings, when they want to cry, they will cry bitterly in his arms, and when they need to embrace, they will boldly invest in his broad bosom, let him feel your need for him, understand that you care about him, and your feelings can flow for a long time.
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