People are poor for a while, and their hearts are poor all their lives.
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Extremely poor children, inferior and cowardly.
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Overly rich children, selfish and arrogant.
The most eye-popping thing is that she sold the mobile phone case that cost 20 yuan to get back for 2 yuan, and she also had a special sense of accomplishment.
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It is better to cultivate the poor and the rich.
People say that boys should be poor and girls should be rich, but the truth is often:
Poor support operation is improper, children are inferior, the pattern is narrow; rich support is not well grasped, children are arrogant and self-interested.
True money education is not simply giving children enough money or parents themselves strictly controlling money.
Whether it is poor or rich, it is better to cultivate a correct understanding of money in children.
So how can we cultivate a child's correct view of money?
You can refer to the following suggestions:
1. Tell your child where the money is coming from and be honest about your child's needs.
Let children know that money is the income of parents' labor, and let children learn to cherish and be grateful.
For the child's requirements, if the parents are incompetent, they should be honest with the child and let the child understand that it is not that they are not worthy, but that they need to become better.
2. Tell your child that it is a matter of pride to give to the family.
If you just blindly emphasize the pressure of life in front of your child, it will make your child panic and uneasy.
In addition to letting children learn to be grateful, it is also necessary for children to understand that although the work is very hard, it is a proud and proud thing to pay for the family.
3. Tell your child that it is human nature to love money, but that there is a way to take it.
Material is the foundation of life, and wanting to have a better material life is also the pursuit of human nature, which is beyond reproach.
But what is important is that a gentleman who loves money must have a way to get it.
4. Lead by example and consume rationally.
Parents are the best teachers for their children, and they should set an example for their children to consume rationally.
Let children participate in family consumption, make a reasonable consumption plan with children, and guide children to learn to get things that they can't afford temporarily through savings.
5. Let the child get what he wants through "labor".
Children can be given additional "rewards" by completing some simple chores.
But we must also pay attention to not allowing children to develop the idea of "no money, no work", study, do homework, these should be their own things, can not be exchanged for money.
6. Let your child understand that money is not a panacea.
While helping their children form a correct view of money, parents must let their children understand that money is only an equivalent exchange, and people's lives cannot be controlled by money.
The musician Beethoven said:
"Pass on virtues and good deeds to your children, not leave them wealth, only in this way can they bring happiness."
The rich cannot be proud, the poor cannot be humbled, and people's happiness is not measured by money.
Careful education can make children truly understand that even if they are not rich, they can still enjoy a lot of happiness.