Children: The goal is Tsinghua and Peking University! Mom: The reality contrast is huge...

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Who didn't set a few big goals when they were kids?

Recently, a mother in Wuxi shared it with everyone

Such a video▼

The mother opened the child's school bag and found that there were all kinds of volumes, books all kneaded together, and a lot of torn paper, but she did not expect that this messy bag hid the child's lofty goals and ambitions!

Only to see the title page of the Chinese textbook read, "The goal is Tsinghua and Peking University", the mother said: "The child is usually not obedient at all, the goal is still so ambitious, I can't believe it!" ”

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In the new year, I believe that many children have set their own new goals.

But not all goals are easy to achieve, and some children often give up halfway. One of the big reasons for this is that the goal setting is too big and too far away, and it is usually not easy to stick to.

The child has a clear goal and also has to make a practical plan to achieve it. Unattainable goals can easily be discouraged, and the unknown makes people feel that it will be difficult to do.

The lofty goals are decomposed into small goals that "can be achieved by jumping", and the realization of each small goal can make children experience the joy of success, so that children can actively learn.

Completing a small goal can make the child full of hope and self-confidence, more willing to persist in the process of hard work, and gradually achieve a big goal with perseverance.

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Can each of the "small goals" set be successfully completed? The answer is clearly no.

When children encounter failure and cannot complete their preset goals, we need to help children review in time, which is also particularly needed in education.

Face failure

Don't just teach your child to be optimistic

It is even more necessary to learn lessons from it in a timely manner

Only if children are allowed to fail, they dare to try boldly, accumulate knowledge and ability from experience, and have no worries.

Accustomed to review, children will also practice a "growth mindset" and will pay more attention to their own growth and learning.

New year

What goals have your child set?

How can you help him to do it

Feel free to share it with you in the comments section

Source: Capital Education, Sprout Mother, Sun Yunxiao Studio, Parent Ocean, @People's Network, @Sichuan Observation, etc