In a person's life, 1/3 of it is the period from the time of falling to adulthood. During this time, 2/3 of the time requires the dedicated care of adults to thrive. Especially from the critical period of birth to the age of 6, adults must take care of them inseparably to ensure that children pass through this stage smoothly and safely.
Children are the heart of parents. This is what most people recognize. But I don't think that's entirely true. This statement is only said to some people who really regard children as the whole of their lives. And there are a small number of people who do not deserve this aura of love at all.
Some people, in the name of full-time mothers, are doing to take children as a shield, putting children aside to play by themselves, while adults are doing things that have nothing to do with taking children. When something big happened, he pounded his chest and cried. As everyone knows, there is no regret medicine in the world, there is no moonlight treasure box, time has passed, it will never come back, once things happen, it will be impossible to reverse.
One such thing happened in our village. Li Da Niang had a son, although the early years were hard, but the hard days finally survived. The son had another son and a daughter. The younger granddaughter is more than one year old and is under the full-time supervision of her daughter-in-law, Xiaomei. Grow some small vegetables yourself, take them to the market to sell, and you can subsidize your family to some extent. Ben is a happy family of five. But a recent incident has broken this happy status quo.
Li Daniang's son, Li Da, works at a construction site near the village, and his wife Xiaomei takes her young daughter to the construction site all day to play, sometimes playing autumn wind in the construction site canteen. I also met some women who went to the construction site like her. Sometimes, as soon as the parents are short, they completely throw their tasks out of the clouds and let their little daughter run around the construction site.
One scream after another of children's heart-rending screams came from the construction site canteen, like a thunderclap from the clear sky, which alarmed the women who gathered together because a leather coat was not legitimate, and argued endlessly. The argument came to an abrupt halt, as if the TV series that was playing had been pressed the pause button.
The crowd stayed for two or three seconds before someone reacted and rushed to the construction site canteen. Xiao Mei found that her little daughter was not around, and rushed in front of everyone like an arrow off the string, and went to the canteen.
On the floor of the canteen stove, a little girl of more than one year old was rolling back and forth on the floor while crying and crying, and next to her, a large enamel basin was still swirling. A large pool of unknown liquid on the floor was still spreading around on the floor as the little girl rolled. As soon as Xiao Mei saw the little girl on the ground, she rushed over and did not notice the ground at all. As soon as I stepped on the liquid, I fell a and almost knocked my teeth off. Ignoring the pain, she got up and rushed to the side of the little girl and picked her up.
At this time, the crowd also arrived, only to see that the little girl's face, neck and hands were the kind of red that could only be shown when it was burned.
It turned out that the little girl saw that the adults were all gathered together to chat, and ignored herself. I ran to the canteen by myself playing and playing, saw a basin on the board, because I was curious, I wanted to see what was inside, but I didn't know that the basin was lard that the canteen had just squeezed out not long ago, and it was still in the high temperature. A pot of piping hot lard was poured all over the little girl's body...
The crowd hurriedly called the emergency number and sent the child to the county people's hospital, and then to the West China Hospital, where the little girl was burned on a large scale and her tongue was burned. Alas, it was really miserable. This is why the girl's mother was too indifferent to her, so that she experienced such a painful pain from a young age. Writing this, I can only wish the poor little girl a speedy recovery!
How should we take care of our childhood babies?
First, in early childhood, children are not yet mentally mature, and they cannot judge whether the objects they come into contact with and the environment they are in are dangerous. For the sake of safety, we should keep all harmful items in places that are not easily accessible to children. Children are lively and active, curious about many things, and want to explore the end. We should take care of children and stop them from touching dangerous objects in time.
One year, the first day of the Chinese New Year, it was a good day for the family to rejoice and welcome the New Year. But for the family of Peng Daniang's family in our village, it was a sad day. Because her little grandchildren saw the big children blowing balloons and had fun, they also shouted to play. This play, there is an accident. The child sucks the balloon into the trachea, and as the child breathes, the balloon also expands and shrinks in the child's mouth... By the time the adults found out, the child was already flushed and unconscious. Sent to the hospital, it has long been a lack of surgery and inability to return to heaven.
Second, when driving out with children, we must not put the children alone in the back seat and let the children play or sleep by themselves. Once an adult is negligent and leaves the child in the car, it is too dangerous.
In the past year or two, the car has gradually entered thousands of households and become a means of transportation for our daily travel. It brings us convenience at the same time, but also gives us some parents who do not have a good memory, bringing a lot of sad things. From time to time, the news reveals that due to the negligence of parents, tragic things have happened to forget children in the car.
Third, when taking children out to play, we must hold the child's small hand and not let it run around, so as to avoid accidents.
There is still such a treasure mother in our village, let's call her Xiaoqin for the time being. That summer, Xiaoqin took her four-year-old son to the neighboring village's mother's house, and because she thought that her son was walking slowly and the sun was shining, she hurried forward and let her son follow behind. Since it was not very far away, she was not worried about what would happen, she looked back from time to time and saw that her sons were not far behind, and she gradually relaxed her heart. But when she arrived at her mother's house, the child's grandmother asked about her little grandson, and XiaoQin said that she would arrive in a moment. The child's grandmother scolded Xiaoqin and asked her to go back and pick up her grandson immediately. When she turned back, there was still a trace of her son. At this moment, she also panicked at once, and ran back in a hurry, calling her son's name while running. She had been running all the way, but she hadn't seen her son, she was already crying, and she was crying, and she ran back to the house. The moment she entered the courtyard, she was suddenly confused. Her son's grandmother was sitting in the yard holding her son, next to the shorts and shorts she had worn in the morning, except for the wet beach. She couldn't react at once. After a while, I asked how the child was at home.
It turned out that the child was walking halfway, accidentally, slipped into the paddy field on the side of the road, and this time, as if he had discovered a new continent, he simply sat on the side of the road, playing with water with his hands and feet.
Playing until the rise, I even forgot to go to my grandmother's house with my mother. Fortunately, the child's grandmother came home from work and saw her grandson playing with water on the side of the road, so she led him home and changed his clothes. Fortunately, I met the child's grandmother, and this time there was no danger. This time also gave Xiaoqin a profound lesson, let her have a long memory, and every time she takes the child, she is inseparable.
Fourth, we need to remind everyone that when we get off the car with the child in the parking lot, we must firmly grasp the child's hand, do not let go, and cannot let the child out of the adult's control. Cars in and out of the parking lot, children are short and small, it is difficult for drivers to find the young figure of children. Moreover, there are blind spots on the car, which increases the danger.
Children are our treasures, the flesh of our hearts. When we care for children, we must think things through, including the worst aspects. Don't think that the god of luck will always protect you, none of us will know when the accident will happen. Therefore, we must always keep in mind that letting our little baby grow up safely and healthily is the goal we pursue as a father and a mother!
Pay attention to the short inch, more life experience to share with you!