What would you do if you went out with your significant other and suddenly left in one place for hours, without a cell phone or any communication tools?
I hope that this does not happen to us, but in case it does happen, don't be in a hurry to question how such an outrageous thing can happen, you may wish to consider whether the person who "forgot" you can still want it!
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Early in the morning brushed to the topic of "girls were forgotten by the boyfriend in the service area for 2 hours", I was a little surprised, how old is this boy, but forgetful to such a point, the girlfriend is only a toilet time, back the boyfriend has driven away.
The panicked girl was left in the service area, she did not bring a mobile phone, waited in place for 2 hours, cold and hungry, and almost fainted. Crying in the video is called pear blossoms with rain-like grievances, think about it, two hours, there is no communication tool around, can you not be wronged?
See through not to say broken, is this really something to forget? Most netizens feel that such a boyfriend, there is no need to continue to keep it, the comment area is persuasive.
Of course, the point that many people question is that it is not forgotten at all, but deliberately! Maybe it was something unpleasant that happened in the service area, the girl waited for the boy to be soft, and the boy also refused to bow his head, and no one gave in, the boy drove away in a huff, and the girl was left in the service area.
I am still more inclined to this speculation, although the world is so big, the network is so developed today, we find that the high-speed "shame", the police into the "takeover man" story happens every day, they have rescued the lost children, girlfriends, mother-in-law, bosses in the service area... Numerous.
But the "really forgetful" thing, after all, is a case, and such strange things that happen to young men and women may be just a contradictory contest behind it.
Normally, there will be parking in the service area, either to eat and buy things, or to go to the bathroom, the girl will not quietly tell the boyfriend when she goes to the toilet, unless the two people have a conflict and refuse to communicate.
And taking ten thousand steps back, even if you really accidentally lost it, how can you not react for two hours? Take your girlfriend out of the house, drive yourself for two hours and don't find that your girlfriend is not in the car, don't talk for two hours, zero communication? Not to mention that feelings are unreliable, first of all, people are not reliable!
Countless facts have proved that communication and communication is the most basic link to maintain feelings, if two people are in love together, they only care about themselves, all the time is "mobile phone in hand, everything I have" state, face to face but there is nothing to say, then is it necessary to be together? Talk about which door to fall in love, is the mobile phone not fun, or a person is uncomfortable?
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Some words are said in person, some words are said directly, and some words are well said, which is the way of communication that should be in intimate relationships. The kind of inexplicable throwing hands, shaking faces, playing missing, pretending to be amnesiac, can really be saved!
In fact, I have always been particularly incomprehensible, why someone will always forget another person in the service area, the car space itself is not large, and there are only two people in the car, the other person is not really in the car can not really find out?
A few days ago, I also saw an uncle who left his wife in the service area for 4 hours, and after the lost lady contacted her husband through the police, her husband realized that his wife was not in the car! By then he had already driven to a place nearly 300 kilometers away.
Considering that it takes a long time for the man to turn around and come back, the woman may be more anxious to continue to wait, but she does not have a document and cannot take the train, so the police first send the woman to the exit of the service area, and then help her contact the hitchhiker to minimize the time and fare consumption.
Therefore, the kind of bridge section that "loses people" at every turn, whether it is really forgotten or deliberately forgotten, please also ask every driver to take care of the companions like taking care of the mobile phone, do not forget to leave, do not waste police power.
And this little girl, whether the boyfriend really forgot about you or not, I just want to tell you that such a boy is not worthy of your love, even if he drives a luxury car. Material conditions may determine the quality of consumption, but they do not represent the quality of feelings.
But anyone who truly loves you, he will always remember to hang on to you, especially in this situation of going out, eager to pin the other party to the waistband of his pants. And you just went to the bathroom, and your boyfriend forgot about you and left on his own, which sounds ridiculous.
If he really loves you and comes out of the service area, he will talk to you, or hold your hand, or touch your head and forget you.
Not to mention that for 2 hours, he did not find that you disappeared, which is enough to prove that you are in his heart, and the weight is not heavy.
Of course, it is not denied that this kind of thing happens between men and women, which makes people react sensitively. In fact, between parents and children, this kind of thing often happens, such as parents locking their children in the car on hot days and then forgetting.
However, then again, the forgotten child can't do anything, but it will leave a serious psychological shadow. And the forgotten adult quickly leaves the person who forgot you, whether he really forgot or fake forgot, there is nothing wrong with stopping the loss in time.
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Some people say that they don't look at this boy's Maserati, 80% of the possibility, they are a couple with a huge difference in status, so the boyfriend doesn't care about such a person at all, really forget. It wasn't even because of the quarrel, it was just pure forgetting. If it is not this condition, it is estimated that it will have broken up earlier, so one is willing to fight and one is willing to be beaten, and it should be deserved.
And I think, no matter whether you drive a luxury car or a rocket, material conditions are always just the icing on the cake in the relationship, falling in love or getting married, the most important thing is how that person treats you, otherwise even if the economic conditions are good, if you are reluctant to spend a penny on you, is it useful? If it doesn't fit, don't waste time acting!
All the good experiences during a relationship may just be a passing cloud, and all the bad experiences will be further cashed in after marriage, there is no worst, only worse.
Whether two people are suitable for marriage or not, whether they can grow old together, can be understood from the communication method after the quarrel.
In fact, many couples in real life do have great problems in communication, especially when facing quarrels or breakups, some boys would rather be cold and violent or use various methods to try to force girls to take the initiative to break up, rather than open their mouths and frankly say break up with girls.
In love and marriage, happiness or unhappiness is just like rolling dice, and the odds are the same. Separated is separated, who left who in these years will really not be able to live, why should it be so?
A female friend of mine before, the boyfriend's family conditions are particularly good, but the girls are not bad, but in comparison, the boys' family is better. The way they got along was always that she let him go, and once she was left alone on the road by her boyfriend after a fight.
At that time, many people were not worth it for her, and with her conditions, it should not be difficult to find a man who was good to herself! They broke up after five years in a relationship, and I guess that's one of the reasons they can't be together.
Quarrel, play disappear at every turn, and people who refuse to communicate really want to. Whether it is a boy or a girl, like to come to this set with each other, please stay away from it earlier, after all, separation is also a matter of time, and why waste feelings.
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Yu Sheng Weixia: The style is changeable, the preference is single, and I know that you will come, so I am waiting