Education issues are related to the future of children, parents will do their best to cultivate children, no matter how much effort is paid, but when the child's physical problems, especially congenital diseases, parents will try to relax the requirements for their children.
When the child's body has problems, parents will not overly ask the child to achieve much, as long as the child grows up healthy and healthy, the parents will be satisfied. There is such a child prodigy, suffering from congenital diseases, but graduated with a master's degree at the age of 13, seamlessly studying for a doctorate.
I still remember the once popular naked runner, who was only 3 years old and wore a layer of underwear to run in the snowy New York, and many people liked and marveled at it.
This naked running man name He Yide, since childhood due to premature birth and many diseases, on the verge of cerebral palsy, the family frowned, thinking that this child's life is a hasty life, did not expect that as a physics teacher's father He Liesheng did not give up, believe that his son can survive this pass.
Father He Yide customized an exclusive plan to help He Yide, stipulating regular exercise and study plan every day, so that his son could complete it within the specified time, He Yide persevered, a persistence is 13 years, and now he has completed 12 courses of MBA at Wukang University in Spain at the age of 13 and continues to pursue a doctorate.
Under the father's unique education method, He Yide's sister He Yijing is also studying hard, and this father carefully teaches his children, so that their children continue to struggle for the future like a spring breeze.
The legend of the naked running brother has shocked many netizens, and it has achieved such extraordinary achievements at a young age, it is difficult to know that normal people study for a master's degree, not to mention a doctorate, and feel that He Yide can be called a prodigy.
For the life of the naked runner, different people have different views, and public opinion is quickly divided into two factions. One faction believes that the naked running brother's life is extremely self-disciplined, even if it is now extraordinary achievements, it is also a tool and test product of the father, and he has never respected the child's ideas, thinking that sooner or later the child will have problems. Parents who do not know how to respect their children will also be eaten by their children.
But people on the other side believe that the naked running brother has achieved today's achievements, and the education method of Eagle Father He Liesheng is indispensable, without he how he came from today's He Yide, if it is a normal husband and wife education, the child's life may not last so long.
Therefore, He Yide should be grateful for his father's help and training, and for a while the public opinion was noisy, and no one would succumb to the other's point of view.
In fact, no matter which view, only the right for the child is the best, and the child benefits from it, so there is nothing to blame.
First of all, don't over-learn from others, and have your own unique approach to targeting your own children. The father can cultivate his son so well, he must have adopted a way that suits his son, the son can apply, if the son rejects and resists, how can he persist for 13 years.
It is precisely because He Yide is not in good health that his father has adopted a reasonable and appropriate exercise plan so that He Yide's physical fitness has improved day by day, and then he has achieved academic success.
Secondly, follow the law of physical and mental development, do not force it too early, and combine work and leisure.
Children's physical and mental development has a certain law, if you force the child, it can only be a failure, in the eyes of many people He Yide is too young, so unreasonable.
Fathers should also consider the actual physical condition of their children when adopting the method of education, and if they violate the biological clock, it is difficult for children to withstand such heavy pressure.
In addition, respect and child communication and communication.
The child is an independent individual, never an appendage of the parents, the starting point of the parents is for the good of the child, but if the actual situation is not considered, it can only make the relationship between the child and the parents gradually drift away, He Yide has been persevering for so many years, presumably it is also the father's way to work, understand the father's hard work and difficulty.
Sugar Mother's heart words:
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, but how can parents turn a blind eye to their children, He Liesheng can let his son spend his life plainly, whether the son is willing to live a lifetime of mediocrity, the father and son fully understand each other, only to know what is the right choice, and once they insist, it may be a lifetime.