War epidemic ・ special tutoring
Recently, the epidemic counterattack situation is grim, the sudden outbreak of the epidemic disrupted our normal rhythm of life, children and parents are "trapped" in the family. Home office and online learning allow parents and children to have more time to spend together, but at the same time, some educational problems in the family are gradually exposed, resulting in the spread of negative emotions in the family between parents and children, and even caused tension between parents and children. In this special period, it is more important to "stay at home and learn at home". In order to help special tutors in special periods, we provide parents and friends with the following seven educational suggestions -
01
Learn up
Parents should establish a correct family education concept. The family is not a school, but a place to transmit warmth, especially in the period of epidemic, families should let children feel warm and safe. Parents should not only pay attention to their children's learning, but also pay attention to their children's psychological conditions, strengthen communication between parents and children, and give their children more encouragement and support. At the same time, parents should also recognize the "sense of proportion" of love, give children the space to be alone, allow children to have their own "little secrets", and achieve "love" and "distance".
02
Get it going
Strengthen life education, guide children to learn to cherish life, improve the awareness of protection, and establish respect and love for nature. On the one hand, parents can guide young children to learn to protect themselves and protect themselves in their daily lives, so that children realize that life is precious, but life is fragile. At the same time, help children develop good hygiene habits, such as frequent ventilation, drinking more water, wearing masks, and learning the "seven-step handwashing method". On the other hand, parents can use the epidemic deeds around them, such as letting children stand on the balcony to see the busy figures of epidemic prevention volunteers, etc., to guide children to feel and learn the dedication of workers to sacrifice themselves, and establish socialist core values and lofty ideals and beliefs.
03
Adjust it up
Do a good job of emotional regulation and maintain a good psychological state. When parents encounter bad emotions, they can actively adjust themselves by taking deep breaths, diverting attention, exercising, etc. During the epidemic prevention and control period, do not panic, do not transmit fear, uneasiness and other negative emotions to children. At the same time, parents should help and guide their children to maintain a good psychological state. Children's physical and mental development is not mature enough, in the face of the sudden attack of the epidemic will inevitably appear fear, panic and other emotions and pressure, parents should actively take measures on the basis of understanding to help young children alleviate, singing, dancing with children can effectively help children form a healthy and positive attitude.
04
Arrange it up
Learning to arrange is a compulsory course for everyone. During the pandemic, everyone is quarantined at home and is not allowed to go out unless necessary. Many families only have two things to "eat" and "sleep" every day, and life is boring and boring. To break this state, it is urgent to make a family schedule. Parents and children can arrange activities from getting up, eating, and sleeping together to daily study and entertainment, and even make some "wish lists", such as doing crafts together, painting, caring for plants, and so on. In the process of discussion and interaction, "arrange it", enjoy a good parent-child time, and formulate a scientific and reasonable and flexible family plan.
05
Regularize up
Home is a "safe haven" in everyone's heart, and many people even think that they should not and cannot study and work at home. But during the pandemic, families have taken on the responsibilities of relaxation and enjoyment and study and work. Therefore, parents and children should make good rules for the family, make good rules for themselves, and establish "family rules" together. For example, parents and children should make clear provisions on the time period, frequency, and length of use of electronic products, and supervise each other, and parents should lead by example in this process and be strict with themselves.
06
Get active
"Movement is the source of all life". The development of family sports activities is affected by the sports atmosphere, sports facilities, and the initiative of family members. Among them, the initiative of family members has an important regulatory effect on the development of family sports activities. Therefore, during the epidemic period, parents should take the initiative to lead their children to "get active" together, and they can take yoga classes at home with their children, jump "lattice", turn hula hoops, and carry out indoor sports through video resources such as square dance and aerobics in some APP, turning the living room into another "playground". Parents and children sweat together every day, "get active", improve their own immunity, and keep the virus away from themselves.
07
Cooperate
Only by forming an educational synergy can we have a better educational effect. In such a period, the Ministry of Education has carried out the "suspension of classes without stopping learning" activities, through the use of online platform teaching, to achieve teachers online teaching courses, students online learning courses at home learning mode. For children, it is necessary to cultivate self-discipline through active planning, enhance independent learning ability, improve learning efficiency through the cultivation of concentration, and be the master of learning; for parents, a good learning environment should be provided, so that children are not noisy in class, listen to the suggestions and requirements of schools and teachers, timely inquire and feedback on children's learning status, and actively "cooperate" to provide children with better education.
Dear parents and friends, the above seven suggestions hope to help you, let us work together to tide over the difficulties, in this special period, do a good job in special family education!
Guest of interpretation of this issue: Li Shaomei
He is the president of the Shaanxi Family Education Research Association, the main member of the Provincial Family Education Legislation Research Group, and the professor of the Faculty of Education of Shaanxi Normal University
Author: Li Shaomei Zheng Yuxin Marlene
Editor: Chen Yang
Preliminary review: Lv Yuning Liu Kun
Final Judge: An Jing