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When children fall in love with kindergarten, parents: "If I were children, I would also..."

Qilu Evening News Qilu one-point reporter Zhang Zhiyuan Jiang Sukun

When the children reach a certain age, they will be sent to the kindergarten by their parents to study, and the parents can finally breathe a sigh of relief and do not have to look at the children with 24 hours of energy.

The kindergarten is where the children live together for the first time, and the children will eat there, live there, and play with other children. Then, the problem comes, and the children gradually have their own "circle of friends".

Here's a submission from a kindergarten parent:

My family is two or four years old, introverted, timid and shy. Because we both had to work, we started looking for a kindergarten for him around the age of two and a half. Finally, I chose a kindergarten close to home and low fees, with a long name and a very grand style. Enter the park in September, and leave the park on May 7th, 8 months. In these 8 months, Qin Er, who is less than four years old, is unhappy almost every day, not only because of the boring kindergarten environment, but also for various reasons, after which we resolutely dropped out of school and chose the Wizard of Oz Kindergarten...

When children fall in love with kindergarten, parents: "If I were children, I would also..."

On May 19th, we walked into the Wizard of Oz again. Accompanying me is Teacher Zhang, and accompanying Qin'er is Teacher Wang. Throughout the morning, quiet, free, joyful, moisturizing us every minute and every second. He's playing, I'm watching. Until Teacher Wang called us to eat, the children ate one after another and came out to do activities. Qin Er was still eating, and while eating, he told me that he had to eat it all, and he couldn't move if he couldn't finish eating. Today, I put pen to recount the past bits and pieces, and once again I burst into tears. Teacher Wang gently patted him on the back and said: Qin'er, eat as much as you want. It sounds like a simple appeal to everyone, but this is not allowed in the last kindergarten. That night, I told Teacher Zhang that I would break through all the resistance and run to you. At that time, only my boss supported me in the whole family.

On May 20th, we officially entered the kindergarten, and Qin Er came back on the first day to tell me that my mother did not want to sleep. I said okay, we'll discuss anything with the teacher. At noon the next day, in the quiet room, the quiet teacher, the quiet child, quietly reading, occasionally he would read it to Teacher Wang, which surprised Teacher Wang, Teacher Wang praised him in surprise, you know so many words! Here I would like to solemnly thank Teacher Wang, a timely encouragement, let him find his self-confidence, see his own light. Every day that week, I had to recognize words every day, because Teacher Wang's words opened up the internal motivation for learning Chinese characters. For Teacher Wang, it was just a simple sentence, but for the children, it was a seed.

Let me say one more thing that I am grateful for. Less than a month after entering the Wizard of Oz, Teacher Zhang called me one afternoon and said that Qin Er had bitten off the shoulder of the onion while playing a lion in a game. At that time, feeling guilty, I asked for Teacher Zhang's permission, as the hurting party, I carefully unpluged the phone of Onion's father, but the injured onion's father has been comforting me, asking me not to reprimand the child too much, let the children learn to solve problems on their own, and slowly reason with him. People often say to be a person with a temperature, and I guess onion daddy is the temperature.

When children fall in love with kindergarten, parents: "If I were children, I would also..."

Although we had experienced a "fake" kindergarten before, there were some psychological traumas, but because of the coldness, we cherished the warmth. Cherish the unrestrained and free love of Teacher Zhao, your free appearance, full heart, all your children will be as free and abundant as you. Because, you are their sun, they are your shadow. Go with the light, move with you. Cherish the clarity and love of loving grandchildren, you may not know how much love energy you pass on with your hearty laughter every day. How many seeds of love have been sown, let them enjoy being loved, let them learn to be grateful, and thus love others. The vast universe, loving and being loved, is the meaning of life. Compared with the cheerful grandchildren, our teacher Teng's smile is always just right, if the grandson is a cup of hot tea in the winter, then our teacher Teng should be the cool white open prepared in advance by the mother in the summer, empathetic, warm pulse.

When children fall in love with kindergarten, parents: "If I were children, I would also..."

If I had to say one reason for choosing the Wizard of Oz, it would be for my children to learn the power to love, to enjoy being loved, to learn to love. Love is to be spoken out loud, I love the Wizard of Oz, I love every angel of the Wizard of Oz, I love every teacher of the Wizard of Oz, I love you as clearly as you love our children. Respect you as you respect every child! May more children be led by you!

Parents are the only audience members of the child's first half of life, and the child is the only audience for the second half of the parent's life.

In the first half of this journey, please take responsibility for your children, pay more attention to your children, don't miss every moment of their growth, and don't let yourself leave regrets. Parents are the only audience members of the child's first half of life, and the child is the only audience for the second half of the parent's life.

Just as Qin'er's mother experienced, here, children are concerned, loved, encouraged, respected, and appreciated, this is a different place, where children can be real, the best of themselves.

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