Sun Zhuo's matter finally ushered in the finale, and his father said: In order to let Sun Zhuo have a quiet learning environment, the school that is enrolled will no longer be announced. The mother shared the scene of a family of 4 playing by the sea in Shenzhen, just waiting for the real reunion of the family of five after her sister returned from studying in Singapore.
Even though he lives by the sea, but has never seen the sea, and can see from his mother's video that the child is having fun, like a normal high school student, how long does it take for the wounds in his heart to heal?
How reluctant he was when he was separated from his classmates and teachers, how complicated was his heart when he left the place where he thought he was home, the sudden change, the next life, how should this high school boy face it?
Sun Zhuo is about to enroll, and (buyer) sister is still playing the "feeling card"
Many families are second-born, parents want two children to accompany each other, (buyers) have two sisters, and the biological parents have a sister, but the two families have completely different educational concepts.
Sun Haiyang even if he lost his son did not give up the care and care for his sister, in time to bring his sister to Shenzhen to study, and respect her opinion, encourage education, even if the parents are desperate will not shed tears in front of the child, he (buyer) lived a poor life, the sister has gone to college, when the university went abroad as an exchange student, to see the aurora, to Singapore to study for a doctorate.
The parents' love for their sister is not affected, the parents do not want to pass on the pain to another child, and in addition to taking care of the child, they can also train the sister to become a "school bully". Knowing that her brother had been brought back, the sister sent a long thank you to her parents and miss her brother.
On the other hand, (buyers), because of the old concept of child prevention, stealing other people's children, ignoring their own daughters, letting the two sisters give up the opportunity to learn, but also let the "son" go to school.
After Sun Zhuo was picked up, the sister also played the "feeling card", which was completely different from the attitude of the sister, posting old photos on the Internet to recall this 14-year sister-brother relationship, and with the text: The heart is not willing to give up. But netizens did not buy it, thinking that the buyer's sister was a crocodile's tears, because from the jokes of her sister's childhood, they already knew the truth of the matter.
Children will have a "psychological gap" in a short period of time, and parents should guide them in time
How many 14 years can a student have? Fourteen years is enough to change a person, Sun Zhuo and his biological parents reunion, like the end of the TV series abruptly stopped, but there is still a long way to go in real life.
The first is the change in the learning environment, the gap between the two cities, resulting in different levels of classmates, can students in the new school quickly accept him? Whether a child from a "small county" can be integrated into the schools and classes in the big city. Children will have a psychological gap.
Here he has to face new challenges, it turns out that he is a "school bully" in the best local school, and the relationship with teachers and classmates is harmonious, and when he arrives at the new school, someone must know his "life", what is the most terrifying thing? The unknown world is the most terrifying.
If the classmates are not friendly, saying a certain sentence stings the child, it is easy to have a psychology of being bored with school, and if you regret coming to Shenzhen to study, parents can not accompany you at any time, and it is easy to have psychological problems.
As enrollment approaches, it will become more and more anxious, although there is no mention of "buyers" in public, according to villagers, Sun Zhuo is pampered, let him go to the best local school, and can become a "school bully", Sun Zhuo wants to eat what his parents are also trying their best to satisfy, and the sisters often can't eat.
He is a kind and sensible child, and now the more sensible the parents, the more attention they should pay attention to, give him more time, and the parents should not share the latest situation of the child, so that he has a quiet learning environment.
Therefore, in the transitional stage, parents play a key role, not only to care, but also to protect the fragile mind, the pressure of high school learning is not large, but it is also a critical period of ascension.
Therefore, parents should do a good job in psychological construction for their children, if conditions permit, find psychological counseling before going to school, solve psychological doubts, and parents can also have scientific methods to help their children get through difficulties.
The gap between education costs in Shenzhen and education costs in Shandong is huge, plus Sun Zhuo has a younger brother, the cost of two people will increase the pressure of parents, parents will also try to give the best to their children, so that he has a sense of gap and feels that he is an "outsider", so parents must pay attention to the way they get along with their children.
Sun Zhuo personally wrote a thank-you letter to thank netizens, and the whole process reflected high quality
Looking back at the whole incident, from the reluctance of the teacher "Mother Wang", it can be seen that he is a child with high emotional intelligence and excellent character and learning, and the classmates sent him parting blessings, and also saw that the classmates were very popular.
According to Sun Haiyang, when they first met, the son was very mature, has been comforting his parents, even if he was very ignorant at the time, but still respected his parents' ideas, and has always been concerned about learning, which shows that the child is a kind, love to learn high-quality children, I believe that the future in the new school can be as good.