Source: Mom & Dad Intensive (ID: bmnfrc)
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Mobile phones have increasingly become a "family cancer"
In 2015, a Chinese mainland animated short film "Life with Heads Down" was interpreted: everyone is a low-headed family, immersed in the world of mobile phones, and the scene is familiar and chilling.
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Are you my parent or your phone parent?
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The children don't listen to us, they imitate us
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The world of mobile phones is big, and the world of children is only you
Researchers at Illinois State University and the University of Michigan in the United States have done a study:
172 two-parent families were recruited to investigate the use of electronic products such as mobile phones and computers by parents, and to analyze the impact of parents' use of mobile phones on parent-child activities.
It turned out that if parents spend a lot of time on mobile phones during family activities, children will become more and more disappointed in their parents, and the rift in the parent-child relationship will become larger and larger.
The researchers refer to this situation as "technology insertion," which refers to the interruption of face-to-face communication in daily life due to the use of technological devices.
Many parents only stay on the material level of concern for their children, thinking that "I give you good food and drink, and I will try to meet what you want" This is the biggest obligation they can do.
As everyone knows, such "love" will only make children become more and more indifferent and autistic, and over time, they will become an empty shell without feelings.
Don't pour cold water over and over again at a loving age in your child's heart, and don't let your phone become an insurmountable gap between you and your child.
If you don't know how much mental damage your phone can cause to your child, check out this video:
The little girl learned a new nursery rhyme and wanted to sing it to her mother, but her mother did not lift her head and directly let her write her homework.
The girl wanted to ask her mother a math problem, but her mother coldly pushed her away: "Don't you count yourself with your fingers?" ”
The little girl had no choice but to break her fingers to do arithmetic, and when her fingers were not enough, she took off her socks and counted her toes one by one.
As his own flesh and blood relatives, is a child more attractive than a cold intelligent machine?
Tagore wrote a poem called "The Way of the Child":
In the world of the tiny crescent moon, the child has no bondage.
He gave up his freedom for no reason.
He knew that there was infinite happiness hidden in the little corner of his mother's heart, embraced by her dear arms, and its sweetness was far greater than freedom.
Children never know how to cry. He lived in a complete promised land.
The reason he shed tears was not without reason.
Although he used the smile on his lovely face to tease his mother's eager heart towards him, his small cries for small reasons were made into a belt of double restraint of pity and love.
Since the child fell to the ground, before he matured, the focus of his life and the only thing he could see was to bring them enlightenment and education to the parents.
Never underestimate your child's love for you. For children in early childhood, nothing can withstand the care and companionship of their parents.
Today you regard your mobile phone as a treasure, tomorrow your child may become a "dry grass" that lacks the moisture of love.
To give your child the warmest care, please start by putting down the phone.