Children are the maintenance of a family, and now many couples have a stressful life, and after marriage, they are not in a hurry to have children. I always feel that I am not capable of taking on the responsibilities of parenthood. Now many female friends dare not have children even if they are married, that is, they think that education is too troublesome. Especially before the child is three years old, if there is no good belt, some behaviors outsiders like to "point out", but these behaviors, parents do not care, will benefit in the future.
It is a common habit for children to like to eat their hands. Even we adults, when recalling our own childhood, will also remember that we had the habit of eating fingers when we were young. In order to prevent children from repeating the same mistakes now, but also to prevent some outsiders from talking nonsense, saying that their children are so old that they still like to eat fingers.
Many parents have thought of various ways to prevent their children from eating their fingers, such as wearing a glove for their children, and some even squeezing bitter melon juice on their children's hands. In the short term, the child may improve, but once there is a slight slack, the child begins to have the habit of eating fingers again.
The child eats fingers from a way of relieving anxiety. Especially babies with pacifier habits, after quitting the pacifier, they are very insecure, and the habit of biting fingers is born at this time. There is also a situation that the person who often takes him, for various reasons, if he takes him less, he will also be insecure. However, this habit is only short-lived, and when the child adapts to the new stage, he will quit without too much intervention.
At this stage, although it is not necessary to forcibly interfere with the child's eating hands, it is necessary to give the child a pair of clean and hygienic hands. Otherwise, it will cause illness to enter the mouth. Parents should wash their children's hands more, and at the same time guide their children to quit eating habits in the process, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
Now that the children are in good condition, they can often see cartoons or cartoons, and parents will also buy some simple picture books for their children, but children before the age of three do not have the habit of drawing on paper. They will scribble indiscriminately, regardless of occasion or place. Children are generally not limited to drawing books, sometimes even on the walls and floors of their homes. However, at home, you can not stop it, after all, this can make children use more imagination.
It is worth noting that this kind of non-stop behavior is also limited to the home, not that it is not stopped in public or in other people's homes. Some people come to the house and see the graffiti walls and complain that the children are disobedient. But parents just listen to it. However, children are not allowed to graffiti when they go to other people's homes. In the eyes of others, this is uncultured behavior. If in public, it will also increase the work of cleaning staff, and if it is serious, even violations.
Graffiti behavior can allow children to play their own interests and hobbies, but parents sometimes have to guide their children and slowly correct this problem. It is not to blame the child as soon as it goes up, but to make the child lose interest in drawing, which kills the child's nature.
For the child's personality, parents are hoping that their children can be loved by everyone, not only adults praise their children for being sensible and well-behaved, but also play with other children in groups. However, it often backfires, and when getting along with adults, children recognize birth, and when they get along with other children, they will be too arrogant. He would play with other children and even grab toys.
In fact, none of these behaviors need be taken too seriously. Children have their own growth trajectory, recognizing life is a kind of self-protection, and slowly growing up, they will also change. Over time, children feel more secure about the world and will know how to get along with other adults. And getting along with children is also to suffer a little setback to remember the lesson. Adults in the family generally follow the child, which is not good for the child, and when playing with children, they will understand the way of getting along with people.
Many people think that it is best to bring a child when they are 1 year old, and spend most of their day sleeping. Adults just need to feed them milk powder, change diapers, and sometimes consciously tease them. Children before the age of 1 are thoughtless, all their actions are instinctive reactions, and at this time they are left with the simplest eating and sleeping. Parents just need to take good care of the baby, don't get sick and don't take medicine.
Children grow up slowly, they will have their own thoughts, especially when they are 2 years old, at this time, the child's ability to express is limited, many times, for the child's ideas, only rely on the tacit understanding between parents and children, let parents guess his thoughts.
In fact, children at different stages of growth need different ways to guide, and they need absolute patience and love. Educating children is never so easy, but parents pay more attention to their own behavior while educating their children, and children will learn from them, become better social talents, and be praised by adults around them.