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In the final analysis, the fate of man is in his own hands. No matter what kind of family you were born into and what kind of growth experience you have, when you become an adult, as long as you are willing to work hard, you can always grasp the dominance of fate and decide what kind of person you will become and what kind of life you will live.
Whether a person has a good life or a bitter life, the key lies in yourself, in your choice at the key point of life, in your attitude towards life and attitude towards the world, and in your ability to resist pressure and setbacks.
This is especially true for women.
Many women always feel that what kind of person they marry is destined to live what kind of life, but it is not. No matter who you marry, whether you are married or not, what your life looks like, the key is to decide for yourself.
Those women with good fortunes do not win at birth, but in the business of the day after tomorrow.
In general, if a woman can do the following two things, then no matter what kind of setbacks and tribulations she encounters in life, she can get through it smoothly.
One: See if she knows how to stop the loss in time and withdraw in time in the wrong feelings
Frustration in life or feelings is an extremely common thing, the key is not what kind of people you meet, what kind of things you encounter, but whether you have the ability to stop losses in time.
Those who can get out in time, minimize the damage, and actively summarize the experience are often the ones who firmly hold the lead in life.
Zhao Xin is my colleague, and she lives very selfishly.
Under the introduction of relatives, she and her husband met and fell in love, and finally entered the palace of marriage. After getting married, Zhao Xin also paid the care and care she could give, and she always cherished each other's feelings.
She also firmly believes that her husband loves herself and that running a marriage requires working together. But later, Zhao Xin found that her husband had extramarital feelings, and her daughter was only three years old at the time.
Once a man learns that a woman has done something to hurt himself, he will not choose to compromise in order to give his child a complete home. But women usually choose to forgive and only hope that they can not be separated from each other.
But Zhao Xin did not choose to be patient, her husband has touched her bottom line, and their feelings for each other can no longer continue, and the five-year marriage ends.
There are too many girls around, and their marriages have long been in ruins, and every day is extremely painful. However, they only spend a lot of time complaining, and they have never thought of using actions to improve the current situation, and such women are usually difficult to live happily.
Whether a woman has a good life or a bitter fate, it is known whether she loves herself or not.
Women who can't keep their principles are most likely to be miserable, and no matter what kind of hurt they experience, they don't deserve to be sympathized with, because these are their own choices.
Two: See if she has the ability to dominate her own destiny and have the courage to start over after falling
Life is like climbing a mountain, there are times when you go well, and there are times when you fall.
A really good life of women, even if they fall, will have the courage to start over, they are not afraid of failure, not afraid of setbacks, since they have set a goal, they will unswervingly go on.
If you give up halfway through, you will never be able to reach the other side of your ideal and live the life you want.
Such women often live very soberly, they know what they want, how to get it, and they know what kind of people they should associate with.
A person who has set a goal and has actual actions will always arrive no matter how slow he goes.
In the final analysis, the only thing a person can rely on is himself.
Don't pin your life on others, have the ability to pay for your own choices, then no matter who you are with, no matter how many times you fall, you will encounter new landscapes.
There is a saying in "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart": "There is hardness in the bones, and no matter how miserable the days are, the heart is not miserable." ”
A woman who loves herself with confidence, life is not satisfactory, but the heart can continue to give herself strength, which can make life less regret and pain.
A woman's beauty is not only a bright appearance, but also an inner abundance.
Assertive, and able to be optimistic about life, between the hands and feet highlight the unique wisdom and charm, such women often live a wonderful life.
You know, a woman with a good life is often a woman who can pay for her own life. When you have the ability to dominate your own life, whether you live well or not is up to you.
In this way, you are active, and you are also doomed not to compromise with fate.
I hope that every woman can rely on herself and live her own life that should be abundant.
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