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People choose good friends to make friends, and birds choose good trees to live in.
In life, only by interacting with people who are truly right and worthy of deep friendship can we have many benefits for ourselves and feel more love, companionship, help and warmth.
And those who only consume you, use you, and can't be sincere with you, you must draw boundaries or keep a distance as soon as possible, otherwise the closer you get, the more harmful you will be to yourself.
Friendship is always an inseparable part of our lives, but not all friends deserve unreserved dedication and trust.
People have different understandings of friends at different stages of life, and they also have different needs. Needing friends when you're young may be because you're bored and lonely, and you need friends in middle age, it may be because you have cooperation or someone who needs to help each other.
Then after the age of fifty, you must keep your circle clean, because at that time, you need to cultivate yourself and enter the old age with the best posture.
The following kinds of people, no matter who they are, don't have deep friendships, they will only consume you, such a relationship has no meaning.
One: A person with two sides and three knives and hypocrisy
In life, there is such a person, always face to face with a set of back sets, you never know when he will stab you, so that you can not be defended.
Being with such people is stressful, unsafe, and you can only protect yourself if you stay away in time.
Xiao Zhang once met one such colleague in the workplace, both of whom belong to middle management, but there is only one place for promotion, and the colleague pretends to be full of indifference, but secretly pokes Xiao Zhang's backbone behind his back.
This matter was known to Xiao Zhang, and there was a sigh in his heart.
Fair competition is the best way, Xiao Zhang even feels that his business ability is not worse than his own, and the chances of promotion are much greater than his own. But unexpectedly, he was not right in his heart, and he cut off the back road.
Later, it was Xiao Zhang who was successfully promoted, and the boss valued his character and attitude.
Xiao Zhang's colleague belongs to the typical two-faced and three-knife person, on the surface, he is a person who is indifferent to fame and fortune, extremely honest and responsible, but behind the scenes, he is a completely different person.
Such people have always been hypocritical, full of flowers and intestines, and it is difficult to deal with them without a snack machine, but after the age of fifty, who still has the heart to play tricks? How simple and how to live, so stay away from this kind of person.
Two: People who are high and low, who are good at flattery and extreme hypocrisy
Whether in film and television dramas, or in life, such people can be seen almost everywhere. They do not have a firm stand, and they do not have basic principles and bottom lines for dealing with the world, just as the so-called wall is early and falls with the wind.
They can sacrifice a lot of things to achieve their ends.
What they do best is flattery, and in front of people who are much more successful than themselves, they don't mind bending their knees and violating principles; when they ask for others, they are willing to do anything, even if they make great sacrifices.
Such a person has always been hypocritical, and anyone can be a stepping stone for him to go upwards.
If you associate with such a person, then when you mix well, it is useful for him, and he may be very enthusiastic about you; if one day, you are downcast and have no use value, he will change his appearance.
There is no need to associate with them, a relationship can not be heart to heart, honest with each other, there is no meaning.
Three: People who are too snobbish and never know how to compare hearts to hearts
People who are too snobbish are also called snobbish eyes, such people are completely small people, they will not feel grateful for the efforts of others, but will feel taken for granted.
What they do best is moral kidnapping, and even if you help him out of kindness, he will take it for granted.
The most common in life is the snobbish relative.
When you have money, he will pretend to approach you, and even deliberately ask you to borrow money, you borrow it out of kindness, but he will not return it as scheduled. When you open your mouth, he will bite you back, thinking that you are so rich and so stingy, which is really worrying.
But in fact, relatives help each other is originally a love, there is no so-called duty, what is wrong with asking for money? Just because someone else has money doesn't mean you can't pay it back.
This type of snobbish type of relative, no matter how close the blood relationship, is not worthy of in-depth contact.
If you live well, he will not sincerely bless you, but will only look at you or be jealous of you; if you do not live well, he will only fall into the well, trying to taunt you and laugh at you.
Interacting with such people will not only add to your own blockage, but also be easily hurt.
After passing fifty years, you must slowly see many things and see many people. Those who are not worth associating with should not be contacted, and those things that are not worthy of attention should not be cared about.
Only by moving forward easily, the road for the rest of your life will become smoother and smoother.
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