Many parents in the education of children, always feel a very headache, children are thinking of individuals, they will follow their own ideas to do anything, of course, the role of parents in the side is to let the child not go a crooked road, but many times parents to the child to reason, children are perfunctory, the next time will do so, so is there any way to manage these children who can't listen to the big truth? See what post-90s parents do.
Post-90s parents' "interception parenting" is on fire: cutting off the child's road and making the child anxious.
Many children have a problem, and that is procrastination. It only takes an adult a minute to do something, and it takes at least half an hour to put it on a child. For example, before the child goes to school, the parents are obviously very early in the morning to tell the child to get up, the child is dragging and refusing to get up, even dressing and eating breakfast, the way to school can be done slowly, it will never be completed immediately, many mothers see the child is not hurried, and finally they are angry, the child is still a naïve look, do not know why their parents will be angry.
Some post-90s parents will never be angry when they see these procrastination children, children are not hurried before going to school, parents will use a slower speed than children in front of their children to rub and rub, anyway, it is not a parent to go to school, children are not in a hurry, what are you anxious? When the child knows that he is going to school late, he will certainly not rub it again. This is called cutting off the child's road and making the child anxious, which is also a relatively hot "interception parenting" method.
"Interceptive parenting": Children play with sex, parents will come to an upgraded version
Before there was a mother who used this interceptive parenting method of post-90s parents to educate her children, when the child suddenly lost his temper, lying on the ground and rolling and spilling, according to the normal parents' way of thinking, at this time, parents will definitely go over and pick up the child and ask the child what happened? But children generally do not eat this set, but also continue to vent their temper, and even do things that hurt their parents, parents will also be irritated by his behavior, "will intercept parenting" way of the mother directly follow the child's way of throwing and rolling, on the spot to give the child a lesson, to see the parent's behavior is like an upgraded version of the child's play, the child saw the mother's behavior suddenly stopped crying, and looked at his mother with a confused face, I think his inner thoughts at the time were: "Why, the mother will cry more than me?" ”
Some netizens think that this truncated parenting after the 90s is not conducive to the development of children, but I think that this new type of parenting method not only works, but also allows children to intuitively feel how incorrect their actions are, and this parenting method is designed to let parents take the child's road, let the child treat the parent as a child, and also let the child know that the parent also needs his own care, which can not only stimulate the child's sense of responsibility, but also let the child take the responsibility of taking the initiative to take care of others , and ultimately achieve the purpose of parenting.
Parents can make their children better by applying "truncated" parenting methods appropriately
Now most parents out of the importance of the child, very pampered children, but sometimes too spoiled, it becomes doting, and doting parents will definitely arrange anything for the child, once the parents form this habit of doting on the child, they will unconditionally agree to any request of the child, the child will become more and more blind, more and more pampered, and finally even the parents have no way to discipline him.
And this way of truncated education is not only very interesting to use, children can also accept well, for example, before the Internet exposed a parent with a child shopping, but the child scattered the mother herself and ran, at this time the mother made a very surprising behavior, only to see the mother in the video while jumping in place, while shouting loudly to her child said: What do I do without you? I'm not going to go. At this time, the child walked back very helplessly, and took the mother's hand, and how to catch up can not be driven away, does this not show that truncated parenting works?
Finally, I would like to say: parents use staged parenting to educate children also need to pay attention, do not feel that this way is useful is to let children bear all the responsibilities in the family at a young age, should properly show their "incompetence" to children, let children help themselves to do some things, of course, in the process of doing things, parents must accompany the whole process, otherwise the child will definitely lose enthusiasm, then this parenting method will fall short.
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