What happened to celebrity marriages?
There is gossip every year, and there are many stars. The hottest in the past few days is the star Wang Lihong, ex-wife Li Lianglei a thousand words long to push her ex-husband Wang Lihong to the cusp of public opinion, and burst out Wang Lihong's cold violence, transfer of property, marital infidelity, etc., so to speak, the standard scum. It's like you take an unwashed sheet to dry on the street, saying that it is sterilization, but in fact you are disgusting yourself and others. It seems that the victory actually killed three thousand self-inflicted wounds. The male god who has been popular for 26 years collapsed at this moment, and announced the temporary withdrawal from the entertainment circle to the end of the drama with a clever act of breaking his arm to survive, and he did not have to eat melons naturally and no longer joined in the fun, and scattered.
The wind and snow moon are love, and the complicated and tasteless is marriage.
Once said, "very lucky to meet a girl who can hold hands and spend the future together", Li Lianglei gave birth to 3 children in 8 years of marriage, gave up her job, took care of her family wholeheartedly, and in the blink of an eye, she was hurt by Wang Lihong's marriage, cold violence, and the transfer of property. Marriage for 8 years is not only a thousand words can narrate the heartache, but all the helplessness condensed into a grievance complaint, and then thrown into the boiling oil pot, whether there is moisture we do not know, the important thing is that the oil in the pot splashes around, people close to the pot are inevitably burned by the hot oil that flies, some are hot on the outside, some are hot on the inside.
At the beginning, no matter what the purpose was together, divorce was originally a matter of two people, ordinary people understand the truth, the family ugliness can not be publicized, the non-noisy boiling, the moment of tearing the character becomes a question mark, usually people are very good, why once the divorce is announced, the two parties to the death tear each other, tearing the other party's body is not finished. Even eager to push the other party down the abyss.
Is it the depth of love and hatred? Or was it made public because of the unfair division of property? I don't know whether the accumulated resentment has erupted for a long time or the planned implementation of the plan, in short, everything that shakes out is fatal, which is called the confrontation between the two armies, and only by knowing oneself and knowing the other can we win every battle.
Are you saying there is a more intimate relationship than a couple? Once the divorce throws dirty water on each other, such as Huang Yi and Qing Huangyi, Wang Feng and Ge Huijie, Wang Baoqiang Ma Rong, one is more wonderful than the other, in fact, it is easy to see a person clearly, and it is easiest to see the essence of a person when there is a contradiction, and then you use a magnifying glass, that is all he has.
As the old man said, any kind of relationship can not go too close, too close is a disaster, like the shrew tearing each other, revealing each other's bottom, good times you give me onions, I give you a bag of salt without thinking, and so one day because of a thing to tear, the trivial things are also taken to the street to say, do not reveal that one side of the defeat to show that they have won, in fact, no matter how high or low are half a pound eight two.
Wives who don't have strong inner structure celebrities aren't that good.
Husband and wife are originally two different people, because of mutual appreciation to have the opportunity to come together, to learn from the celebrity my favorite male star Chen Daoming, he once said that marriage will run away, but mainly to see if you will put into action, whether you have self-control. His 41-year marriage with Du Xian is happy and happy, including the wisdom and low-key of teacher Chen Daoming. The sentence I remember most is that after the performance, the other actors go out to have a hi, he will say to the other actors, don't look for me, he would rather sew clothes and bags for his wife and children at home, play the piano, practice calligraphy and painting, read and read, and will not idle around. Cultivation has nothing to do with a person's academic qualifications, but is closely related to a person's personality.
Character determines the quality of marriage, happy marriage is the same, you know my hardships, I understand your hardships Two people's marriages can go further.
Marriage can't be strong, each cut off half of their temper, and then blend together, such as their own never going to the kitchen, to make a daily breakfast for love to get up early. In or often play games you, put down the love of the game to accompany the lover of a busy day. What he wants is valued by you and not ignored.
Marriage is used to operate, just like the moldy quilt of June day, you have to sunbathe from time to time, happy marriage is the same, there are certain methods, first of all, do not try to transform each other, learn to accept each other's shortcomings and inadequacies.
Second, learn to praise and need each other. Praise is the preservative in marriage, and praise and encouragement from the heart can make the other party better.
Then even the best marriage should maintain self-independence, in the marriage can not completely rely on each other, whether emotional or financial, we must learn to constantly improve themselves, only to make yourself more and more excellent, you are more secure, marriage will be more stable.
Marriage is not to let you go to the grave, but both parties to manage happiness with their hearts, achieve each other when they love, and break up peacefully when they don't love. Fu Seoul said: "You must marry someone you like very much." Because marriage will suffer losses, the longer it lasts, the more losses it will suffer. You marry someone you like very much, and you suffer a loss to think about it. ”