It is said that distance produces beauty, but if they do not see each other for a long time, not only will they not have a sense of beauty, but also it is easy to produce a lot of unnecessary misunderstandings. If it is not handled and resolved in time, the contradiction is knotted in the heart, which will make you question this emotion.
First, trust each other, do not be suspicious of each other because you often can't meet normally, lack of security in your heart, and doubt the other party.
Trust is the foundation of marriage, especially long-distance couples, because the time they live with each other is very short, so it is necessary to narrow the strangeness of each other through various forms. However, in real life, long-distance couples often cannot solve problems between each other in time because of this geographical distance that cannot be crossed, resulting in gaps and suspicions. Sometimes, it is not that the mobile phone is not in hand, and the other party cannot reply to a message in time, sometimes it is that they are negligent for a while and forget to send blessings on the other party's birthday, but the gift is obviously placed on the table. But these can all be the fuse of a failed marriage. Once trust is gone, the marriage is in jeopardy.
Second, be considerate of each other, understand the loneliness and hardship of the other party thousands of miles away, and give each other different forms of greetings and love.
Although you can't see each other very often, the trivial things in life are not diminished by the fact that the other person is not around. Therefore, the other party's hard work, I must redouble my understanding. Especially at the side of the parents, the party with the children. The elderly, the children who need to be obliged to help, at this time, the party working in the field, they must have a deep gratitude to the other party. On weekdays, due to the particularity of work, I can't help, once I go home, I have to work hard to do more and share the hardships of the other party. And the loneliness of those who work in other places miss their relatives cannot be ignored by the party who stays at home. When the other party goes home, give him the warmth of the family, rather than noisy, dislike the other party's lack of concern for the family, and do not do well.
Third, we must communicate with each other frequently, tell each other about the interesting stories that happen on their side and their own unhappiness, and reduce the strangeness caused by not meeting.
Not living together, even couples can feel strange. What's more, the various experiences of emotions need to be in each other's various words, behaviors, and contacts in order to have various real echoes and feedbacks. Therefore, couples in different places can use the Internet, video, and more communication, and take a fixed time to form a habit of communication. And through frequent contact with each other, tell each other what happens on their side, the problems that need to be solved, and let each other participate in it, so that even if the husband and wife do not live together on weekdays, but you will know each other's things, you will not feel strange, the heart is together, naturally will be very close.
Fourth, we must tell the other party about our thoughts about each other. Attaching importance to special festivals will create various opportunities to express their love.
Chinese are more subtle, but emotions need to be expressed to each other. Because of this distance in a different place, each other needs to give each other this kind of substantial love. Therefore, the days when you are not around, you must use language to convey your love, of course, if you are embarrassed to say meat and hemp, and are good at text expression, then fluent words are a small river of love, which will nourish and nourish your marriage and love. And e-commerce, the development of the network, you can also buy her favorite items for the other party, and then give her a big surprise. Or take advantage of the holiday, pick up the other party to their own place of work, let the other party feel your daily life, experience your loneliness and hardship.
Fifth, don't complain and blame the other party because the other party is not around, or even take chances, and start to betray love behind the other party's back to indulge their emotions.
Because the other party is not around, their own hardships, the pressure of this life, will always be led by emotions when they can't bear it, angry, grumble, and resentful. And because the other party is not around, can not stand the loneliness of the body, there will be a fluke psychology, will allow themselves to indulge emotionally, and new feelings will occur outside the marriage. This infidelity to marriage often leads to the eventual breakdown of the marriage. Therefore, when you choose such a long-distance life, you need to adapt to each other, you need self-restraint, you must build a bridge of trust between the heart and the heart, you must be able to withstand loneliness, loneliness, and keep yourself like a jade for marriage.
Long-distance couples will have a lot of difficulties compared to couples living together, and because the distance can not immediately solve the problems in life will be easy to produce estrangement, so that each other is alienated, lack of intimacy, so that the feelings between the two are getting weaker and weaker. It is impossible to feel the warmth from the other party at all. It seems to be married and living a single life of her own. Therefore, if you want to avoid this embarrassing marital state, you need two people, with words and deeds to give each other love, trust, and more practical actions to tell each other that your love for each other can travel through time and space, and without complaint and regret to give a lifetime.