In the traditional thinking of Chinese, it is a natural thing for children to be filial to their parents, but whenever children and parents move or tear up, they are basically students who do not understand things, but one thing that happens in Changzhou will subvert your "concept".
The 15-year-old girl did not buy a mobile phone, shouted and started with her mother on the street, but everyone thought that the parents were at fault
In Changzhou, Jiangsu Province, a little girl clashed with her mother on the street, and in the dispute, the girl even beat her mother.
Judging from the footage taken by passers-by, it is the mother riding an electric car with the child, at this time the two have an argument, and the girl is hitting the mother's helmet with her hand.
Because passers-by were watching, the girl's emotions collapsed, and then someone called the police and stopped the girl's behavior, at first everyone thought that it was the girl's fault, but after understanding the incident, everyone thought that the parents were at fault.
It turned out that the girl's old mobile phone has been broken, before saving 4,000 yuan, want to let the mother help out 2,000 yuan, change this old mobile phone to "13", to the market to see, the uncle checked and said, repair a repair can still be used, so the mother repented.
Because of the mother's "halfway remorse", the girl shouted at the mother and moved, and then the number of onlookers became more, the girl did not want to "lose people", insisted on letting the mother take herself away, but the parents were not moved, making the girl's emotions out of control.
Judging from the whole thing, one of the results that the mother wants the public to see is that the child does not understand things, is not filial piety, and just because of a mobile phone, she shouts and acts with her mother.
However, in the eyes of the onlookers, the truth is a different look, many netizens sighed: thanks to the child for retaining the last shred of sanity, did not choose the "extreme way" to deal with, otherwise this is a 15-year-old child, how unfair.
We always think that when parents argue with students, it is the child's fault, but after careful consideration, parents have an unshirkable responsibility.
If the child is not forced to a certain extent, how can he choose to be "hysterical", which has nothing to do with filial piety or disobedience.
Objectively speaking, it is indeed wrong for girls to beat their mothers, but parents do not pay attention to their children's self-esteem at all, which will cause the current situation, and even let the crowd of onlookers talk about the daughter's is not, I have to say that such an education method is really "too low-end".
In the end, at the suggestion of the police, the mother still promised the child to buy a new mobile phone, a solution that everyone believes can accept, and perhaps the best ending.
After understanding the origin of the matter, I felt very sad in my heart, why parents can "regret at will", and in turn "beat a rake", how can such an education method teach children "emotional stability".
When the daughter shouts and moves, I believe that everyone can feel not only the anger of the child, but also the helplessness and fear, obviously can protect their mother, but pushed themselves to the "cusp of the storm".
Although 6,000 yuan is indeed not a small amount for ordinary families, is "words and deeds" not the truth that parents teach their children? How to "change the taste" as soon as it comes to yourself.
Not only that, but the mother also used public pressure to make her daughter give up, which is not education for students, but more like a "humiliation".
In fact, for adolescent students, emotions are easy to fluctuate, then parents should be a big tree, guarding the child's side, calming their emotions, so that the child can use reason to look at the problem.
Even if the final ending is that the 15-year-old girl got this long-desired mobile phone, it will also leave a "shadow" in the heart, when this smog will dissipate, we do not know, but we hope that the girl can come out of this "pressure" and can face the future life with a good attitude.
Write at the end:
15-year-old girl because of not to buy a mobile phone, when the street with the mother shouted and started, but everyone said that the parents are wrong, after analyzing the causes and consequences of the matter, we found that the child is wrong, but the parents' mistakes are more serious.
It also makes many people see that during the school period, some students choose "extreme ways and emotions" to deal with problems, not without reason, a large part of the factor lies in parents, which is worthy of parental reflection.
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