December 20, Changzhou, Jiangsu Province. Some netizens broke the news that a 15-year-old girl beat her mother because of an argument. The video shows a mother riding an electric car with her daughter, and when the two argue, the girl hits her mother's helmet with her hand. Passers-by said that the two were suspected of having an argument over buying a mobile phone, and the girl had an emotional breakdown and beat her mother.
Sure enough, there was a lot of skepticism about girls on the Internet, saying that because the mobile phone hit the mother should not be cloudy.
At first glance, it may seem like this is the case, but over time, it is clear that the whole thing has been unearthed. The daughter is at fault, but I think the lack of education of the mother and the way she treats her daughter are even more problematic.
Let's sort out what happened.
1, the mobile phone is broken, the girl has saved 4000 herself, and wants to change an Apple 13.
2, her mother said to help out 2000, the daughter went happily. The middle uncle said that the mobile phone repair can still be used, the mother does not want to pay this money, of course, the mother's idea I can also understand, saving 2,000 yuan is 2,000 yuan.
3, the most undeserved is that the mother tries to attract the attention of the onlookers, through their discussion and criticism to force the girl not to buy a mobile phone and give the 4,000 yuan she likes to the mother (presumably afraid that the daughter will buy it herself).
4, 15-year-old girl, in the passerby onlookers self-esteem is hurt, and in the outside crowd wrapped in speculation and strange eyes by the huge stimulation, emotional collapse.
5, the video can be seen that the girl is embarrassed, wants to leave, has always emphasized the fast walk, but the mother does not let go, let the crowd watch to make the girl completely erupt.
Seeing this, who do you think is right and who is wrong?
The mother wants to support the family and wants to save money, while the daughter is young and good-looking and wants a mobile phone. There was nothing wrong with either, but my mother's handling was terribly wrong. What a strange way of educating a 15-year-old girl and confusing brain circuitry about borrowing the pressure of a stranger's criticism to have her daughter obey.
In fact, this is the same as what many people encountered when they were young, and every time they saw a sugar gourd child, they might drool. It would pestered my mother to buy one to eat. Some mothers bought it, and some mothers will say, go home and buy it again, and then the child will go home with the mother, and wait until they go home to find out where there is sugar gourd at home. Once, twice, three times, parents will wear out their children's patience on such small things, and over time, they will accumulate and bring disastrous consequences to their children's psychological and future character growth.
In fact, educating children, other than to say, there is a very important principle, that is, credit, promise children things should be done, can not do things do not blindly promise children. Parents feel that small things don't matter, and children may think that parents have deceived themselves.
This parent is stupid, the child wants to go home, you stop on the side of the road for people to see the joke. But in reality, there are many such stupid parents, I have seen several parents who curse children and beat their children at the school gate, these children are all promises, so that people can't see the anger.
This mother,like a parent, who seems to be cunning with herself, may win in things. Masquerade as a victim and carry out a successful squeeze on his daughter. Some netizens believe that this is not a matter of money at all. It was this mother who was bullying the child and using her own heart to frame the child.
I agree with the statement that the child is in a vulnerable group in this situation, and is still in the rebellious period of adolescence, and in the face of such a situation, it is a good choice to collapse. If there is no collapse but silently endured, held in the heart, and then endured the inexplicable Internet violence that people do not know, the consequences are unimaginable.
But in reality, I would like to say that even if rational netizens are encouraging children, she may not be able to see it, and even if she buys a mobile phone in reality, she still loses. There will definitely be a group of relatives and friends around this mother who have come to do work for the girl, to persuade her to understand things, and will use the example of her own children to break her up and crush her, how can such a thing collapse, what can not be said well, how can you beat your mother.
And the mother? Maybe it doesn't matter at all, at most in the next few decades, when the daughter is not good for herself, sigh, and then say, alas, the child just doesn't understand things, I can't teach well, what to do?
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