Since the launch of "Xiao MinJia", because there are many powerful actors in the play, there are also grounded plots, so that the TV series has become the focus of the audience's discussion after tea.
To say that there are many roles in the play, the most scolded is not Jin Bo, the character of this role really makes the audience like it, and even the actor Tu Songyan, who plays this role, often posts on social media, and the desire to survive is too strong.
Jin Bo has divorced Liu Xiaomin, but he also went to harass his ex-wife, because his own non-business led to debt, and let his son play games as a sparring partner to make money, to know that his son is about to take the college entrance examination, such a behavior, unlike a father who thinks about his son's future.
Because of this, Jin Bo was scolded, it is also reasonable, compared with Jin Bo, the other characters in the play each look bright and beautiful, in fact, under careful analysis, you will feel that each role has shortcomings, of which the shortcomings of individual roles are more than Jin Bo, such as Liu Xiaomin, it is really very frightening.
The following is to analyze the shortcomings of Liu Xiaomin one by one:
Disadvantage one: When there should be principles, there are no principles
Viewers who have watched the TV series will find that Liu Xiaomin is a very principled woman, even if she has been in love with Chen Zhuo for a year, she will still put forward various restrictions on Chen Zhuo.
Although the plot of his youth was not played, it can be inferred from clues that Liu Xiaomin was not a person with strong principles in the past.
When Jin Bo was young, he was also a table of talents, and the important thing was that the family situation was very good, the father was the factory director, the mother was the women's director, and such a family did not worry about finding a daughter-in-law.
Liu Xiaomin married Jin Bo under the persuasion of her mother, in fact, Liu Xiaomin was unwilling to marry at that time, and through the quarrel between Liu Xiaomin and her mother in the plot, she could understand this past experience.
As a mother, if you want your daughter to marry a family with better family conditions, there is no mistake, the fault is in Liu Xiaomin's personal body, since you don't like Jin Bo, you should adhere to your own principles, don't love others and marry each other, which is not a kind of harm to the other party.
Some people may say that the parents' lives cannot be violated, in fact, through the plot, but Liu Xiaomin's mother is not old and stubborn, and even the sister Liu Xiaojie can accept such a thing as a flash marriage and divorce, if Liu Xiaomin insists on not marrying Jin Bo, I believe that her mother will not always force it.
Disadvantage two: do not grasp the boundaries between men and women
After getting married, Jin Bo emotionally betrayed Liu Xiaomin, which was his fault, but there was a reason for it, because Liu Xiaomin did not grasp the scale of the difference between men and women after marriage.
As a married woman, Liu Xiaomin often corresponds with Teacher Su, although Liu Xiaomin claims that the content of her letters with Teacher Su is only to discuss poetry and song, but this is only her personal thoughts, because she does not know whether Teacher Su has emotional sustenance for her.
After Teacher Su's wife knew the truth of the matter, she beat Liu Xiaomin as an emotional destroyer, and it was obvious that Teacher Su was not sincere about her wife's feelings, otherwise she would not be suspected by her wife of having an emotional intervener.
As a married person, you should pay attention to this boundary, think that you are innocent, but let others think, it seems that Jin Bo and Teacher Su's wife are bad people, but they are not victims in life? They became bad, all of them were forced by Liu Xiaomin and Teacher Su.
Disadvantage three: no maternal love
Parents divorce, especially when the child is young, generally follow the mother, but after Jin Bo and Liu Xiaomin divorced, the custody of the child fell to Jin Bo's side.
Although the conditions of Jin Bo at that time were relatively good, Liu Xiaomin did not actively fight for custody, which is also a fact.
For the sake of his career, Liu Xiaomin went to Beijing to choose to do North Drift, and when the child was 6 years old, he chose to stay away from home, and such a cruel heart is not something that all mothers can do.
Liu Xiaomin is very smart, and soon settled in Beijing, and through the plot, it can be found that Liu Xiaomin's life in Beijing is already a Chinese-funded level.
When Beijing first started to roam, it was understandable not to take the child to live in Beijing, why didn't you take the child to the side to raise him personally?
Until the child's college entrance examination, in order to avoid Jin Bo's unreasonable trouble, his son Jin Jiajun was forced to come to Beijing in desperation, I really can't figure it out, the school resources in Beijing are definitely better than those in the hometown, if other mothers, they would have brought their children to raise them long ago.
In terms of maternal love, Liu Xiaomin behaved too poorly, even less than a grandmother, it can be said that without a grandmother, Jin Jiajun would not grow up so healthy.
There is a scene in the play where she and her son exchange rooms, seeing dirty things on the toilet lid, Liu Xiaomin's disgusted eyes fully show that she is not like other mothers to sons.
Many viewers may say that Liu Xiaomin has a habit of cleanliness, but to know that she has not lived with her son for too long, for other mothers, it is definitely too late to love, jedi will not have the slightest expression of disgust, but Liu Xiaomin is not like this, she and her son get along, more like a friend or a nightmate to get along.
Disadvantage four: the standard of self and others is not the same, very "double standard"
Liu Xiaomin is a person who goes his own way, for example, when he was young, he did not care about the eyes of others, even if he was pointed out by others and misunderstood by others, he still corresponded with Teacher Su.
Through such a thing, we know that Liu Xiaomin is a person who does not care about the worldly vision of the outside world, but she is another kind of requirement for Chen Zhuo, which reflects that she is very double-standard.
Liu Xiaomin has always asked Chen Zhuo not to tell Li Ping about their relationship, and many viewers may think that it is a factor of considering children and mothers, in fact, before Jin Jiajun and Grandma came to Beijing, Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo had been in love for a year.
Since they have been in love for a year, and they only fell in love after Chen Zhuo and Li Ping divorced, it is reasonable, why are you afraid that Li Ping will know? Bright and upright love does not know what to be afraid of, in the past, I was not afraid of the world's vision, why did I fall in love with Chen Zhuo, but I was afraid.
Speaking of being frank, Liu Xiaomin is really not as free as Li Ping, although Liu Xiaomin has always been very concerned about Li Ping's past when she said her little white shoes, but for Liu Xiaomin's past rumors, because of her own behavior, it is difficult not to be discussed by others.
When Li Ping knew that Chen Zhuo and Liu Xiaomin were in love, she also held a blessed attitude, which was not a little woman's rat belly chicken intestine at all.
On the surface, Jin Bo has many shortcomings, in fact, it is summed up by his lack of business, but when he was young, Jin Bo was also a table of talents, why did he become like this?
After Liu Xiaomin married him, not loving him is actually the reason for the culprit, thinking about it carefully, Liu Xiaomin also has 4 fatal shortcomings, and it is her "four deadly sins" that have led to a family of three living a different life.
Do you think that Jin Jiajun's family life is like a chicken feather, and the fault is Jin Bo or Liu Xiaomin? Who do you think is the most correct person in the three views of the play?