"Are you still married while you're still studying?" This is a question that a company's HR asks a college student who is applying for a job.
I think many people will have the same surprise - still in school, how can they get married?
In Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province, there is also a female student who is getting married, and her life happiness event has actually been on the hot search list, which has aroused heated discussion among netizens.
Sophomore girls are happy to be popular
The female friend who got married was a sophomore from Jiangsu Normal University, and because her marriage was approaching, she sent some happy candy to her classmates. This is also the common sentiment of people, after all, it is a great joy of life, and sending joy to sugar is also sharing joy with good friends.
Looking at the irrepressible smile on the girl's face, I can see that she is very happy and really happy for her.
Unexpectedly, his great joy unexpectedly became popular. The video of the female student sending joy candy has been on the hot search list, and many netizens have commented on it.
Among the comments of netizens, most of the blessings are heard, but there are also some words that are not very good.
The marriage of a sophomore female student has aroused doubts, and she is different from ordinary people in 3 points
Getting married alone is a big deal for two families and their friends and family, but why should it attract the attention of the majority of netizens? How is this marriage different from an ordinary marriage? Yes, there are three differences!
First, the identity is special. The newlyweds who are about to enter the palace of marriage are still a college student, and the main task of the college students is still to study, how can they get married? This broke with conventional notions and surprised many people.
Second, the issue of age. The legal age of marriage in our country is 22 years for men and 20 years for women. However, according to the normal situation, girls take the college entrance examination at the age of 18 and should be less than 20 years old when they are sophomores. Therefore, some people questioned, the female student is in a hurry to get married, is she old enough?
Third, economic conditions. In general, "marriage" means that a person is maturing, and this maturity includes being able to support himself, to put it bluntly, the economic conditions can be independent. And a sophomore female student has not yet left the campus, she does not even have a job, what else to talk about financial independence? Do you have to rely on your parents to help you when you get married?
Sophomore girls get married, and there are blessings and questions
Seeing their sweet wedding photos, many netizens are blessing this female classmate, and some students revealed a hint of helplessness when expressing their blessings - people got married in their sophomore year, and they didn't have a boyfriend at the age of 25, and they didn't even hold the boy's hand!
But envy is envy, and the blessing is still very sincere. For some netizens, the words spoken are somewhat difficult to hear.
As analyzed above, there are 3 differences between the marriage of this sophomore female student and the marriage of ordinary people, and some netizens also suspect that it is because the female student is pregnant and the two people have to marry their children?
To be honest, it's a bit ugly to say.
The marriage of the sophomore girl caused doubts, and the boyfriend responded domineeringly
The couple did not feel unhappy because of the doubts from the Internet, but bravely explained their marriage to everyone.
The fiancé of the sophomore said that for some reason, his girlfriend went to college late, and the girlfriend was born in 97 and had reached the legal age of marriage.
In addition, he himself was born in 93 and has reached the age. And I have graduated and am currently starting my own business. Therefore, the life of two people after marriage will not face the financial problems that everyone is worried about.
Two people are normal free love to get married, not what is "bong son marriage".
At the end of the day
College students marry while they are in school, although rare but not prohibited, as long as two people voluntarily and age-
But this does break with the traditional thinking, because you have not yet graduated, there is no stable job, and you will get married under such conditions, but you will face more practical problems. So sometimes the happiness of two people may be based on the financial support of the man's parents, which is a burden for the parents.
Therefore, in this case, many students do not dare to think about getting married and starting a family after reading a doctorate, because they have to "start a career first and then start a family." It is true that this consideration is more mature, but it does not negate the feelings and marriages that belong to these young people.
As the poem says, life is precious and love is more expensive. Since the sophomore female student of Jiangsu Normal University has met her own destiny, the two people also have the conditions to go to the palace of marriage and form a family. This is a great joy and we should bless them!
Today's topic, about the marriage of college students, do you think it is appropriate?
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