In the process of growing up alone, parents are the most important teachers. Parental education plays a crucial role in a person's growth process, good education can make a child a good person in the future, but inappropriate education may also lead a child astray.
Mother is often the most gentle role in a person's heart, from small to large, no matter what grievances have been suffered, the mother is always the best object of conversation. And my mother also presented us with her most tender side. Compared with the strictness of the father, the gentleness of the mother is always what we like more, and we prefer to stay by the mother's side. The education of mothers is a vital part of life, and there is a legendary mother who not only pulled 13 children to grow up by herself, but also trained them all to become doctors. For herself to be so successful, she said in her later years that her experience of educating her children successfully was only 15 words.
So, who is this mother? What is her 15-word godson secret? Let's take a closer look.
Xiangfu godson
In 1897, Wang Shuzhen was born in Rugao, Jiangsu Province, because of her family's solid family, coupled with the idea of changing the law at that time, Wang Shuzhen's family was also relatively enlightened. Therefore, Wang Shuzhen did not wait at home to get married like other families at that time, but went to a female middle school for a long time, and Wang Shuzhen herself also liked poetry and music. It can be said that Wang Shuzhen was a relatively advanced woman at that time.
At the age of 19, Wang Shuzhen married Li Haomin, the son of a wealthy local merchant, under the introduction of her family. At that time, people still admired having many children and many blessings, so after Wang Shuzhen married li Haomin, she had 8 daughters and 5 sons. Also thanks to Li Haomin's family is rich and runs a large grain store, otherwise the average family really can't afford the expenses of 13 children.
Wang Shuzhen takes care of and educates the children at home, while Li Haomin runs a grain store outside, the family lives a happy and harmonious life, and people outside are very envious of the life of Wang Shuzhen's family. In 1948, when the situation on the mainland was turbulent, Li Haomin moved his family to Taiwan.
After moving to Taiwan, Li Haomin switched to aquaculture. Some time before the Spring Festival in 1949, Li Haomin went to southern Jiangsu to buy a batch of fish fry and wanted to transport them back to Taiwan. On the way back to Taiwan, Li Haomin boarded the "Taiping" steamship, which was not very peaceful. Not long after the "Taiping" ship departed, it collided with the Jianyuan ship, and more than 900 passengers on the "Taiping" ship were killed, including Li Haomin.
Never give up
After Li Haomin's death, Wang Shuzhen felt like the sky had fallen, but Wang Shuzhen did not give up her life. She not only has to live, but also has to have 13 children to eat, all to go to school, all to receive a good education, and to become a person with a good reputation.
In order to make a living, Wang Shuzhen, who was once a lady, put down her body to work as a maid for other people's families, doing needlework for people, washing clothes, and teaching music. But everything that can earn money without touching Wang Shuzhen's principles, Wang Shuzhen has almost done it. At that time, Wang Shuzhen lived in the suburbs of Taiwan with 13 children, and the children had to spend an hour or two walking to the city to go to school every day, and at that time, Wang Shuzhen's family was almost unable to open the pot, in order to let the children go to school, Wang Shuzhen was smashing the pot and selling iron, and even her dowry paid for the children's tuition.
At first, Wang Shuzhen's young children thought that even if their father was no longer there, it should not be a big problem for the property to continue to live. But Wang Shuzhen never interfered in Li Haomin's business, let alone continued to operate, so the property left by Li Haomin was quickly consumed. Wang Shuzhen's children also found that their lives were becoming more and more embarrassing. And Wang Shuzhen also taught them to "have the ability to have a career in the future" Watching their mother work so hard, the children are like growing up overnight, becoming more and more sensible, never letting their mother worry more, and studying very hard.
Doctor's House
It is gratifying that Wang Shuzhen's thirteen children are very competitive, and when they grow up, they are all over the world of scientific researchers, businessmen, designers, engineers, artists, advertisers, securities workers, IT elites, etc., and each of them is a doctor. It is very difficult for one person to pull 13 children to grow up, not to mention that everyone has become a doctor, and Wang Shuzhen must have made efforts that others cannot imagine during this period.
Wang Shuzhen's thirteen children have achieved great success in their professions, and several of them have graduated from well-known universities in the United States, such as her son Li Changxin, who graduated from the University of Maryland and served as the deputy dean of the Research Institute of the University of Virginia. But the most famous of these is Li Changjue, who has titles such as "Chinese Detective" and "Contemporary Sherlock Holmes", and he is the first Chinese chief in American history to hold the highest position in the state police. Several famous big cases in the world, like the Kennedy assassination, Nixon Watergate. The 911 incident and so on, Li Changjue participated in the identification. Li Changjue won the World Outstanding Chinese Award.
Li Changjue attributed a large part of his success to his mother, Wang Shuzhen, who Li Changjue said was his lifelong role model, and it was with her encouragement and teaching that he could achieve such achievements in a few days. Li Changjue himself once said that after graduating from the police academy, he was assigned a job, and his salary and treatment were good, but his mother Wang Shuzhen told him: "You still have to continue to study, the master's degree is not enough, you have to read out the doctorate." "
It was with the support and encouragement of his mother that Li Changjue later went to the United States to study, and eventually became a "Chinese detective" who shook the world. Li Changjue's other siblings were also very competitive, and several were awarded the "Top Ten Outstanding Young People of the United States". Former US presidents Clinton and Bush personally wrote letters to Wang Shuzhen, calling her a great mother. Someone once asked Wang Shuzhen about her successful experience, and Wang Shuzhen only said thirteen words lightly: Treat people well, concentrate on doing things, talk less, and do more things.
In 2003, Wang Shuzhen died in New York, USA, at the age of 106.
brief summary
Wang Shuzhen is an excellent and great mother, under her confidence cultivation, her 13 children have become very outstanding people, and Wang Shuzhen has achieved great achievements, becoming one of the most successful mothers in the world.