1. Looking back on the past: The unexpected gift of happiness obtained by the passage of time - the birth of Xiao Tianci, the daughter of an elderly couple, inspired the children to oppose it strongly
On an ordinary day in 2018, Ms. Tian, 67, suddenly showed symptoms that are common during pregnancy, such as vomiting and loss of appetite. As a couple of old husbands and wives who have long passed the age of childbearing, this has undoubtedly brought a lot of waves to the originally peaceful life.
The husband, who was deeply disturbed, immediately took his wife to the hospital for a comprehensive and detailed examination.
After a rigorous diagnosis, the doctor revealed to them a shocking fact with a solemn face -- Ms. Tian was actually pregnant! At the age of 67, natural conception can be called a miracle in the medical field.
"My mother is 67 years old, how can she get pregnant again?" After hearing the news, the children's first reaction was to resolutely oppose it. They are well aware of the huge birth risks faced by elderly mothers, and they are worried that if an accident happens to their mother, her life will be endangered.
On the other hand, children do not understand why parents should take on the responsibility of raising their newborns at this age.
However, in the face of the strong opposition of his children, Mr. Tian was extremely excited. He patiently explains: "Now that we are retired and have a stable pension income, you don't have to worry too much.
After the birth of our child, we will have enough time and energy to take care of her. ”
Despite the strong opposition from their families, the Tian couple firmly chose to give birth to the child. They look forward to having a cute baby to accompany them in their later years, so that life is no longer lonely and lonely.
For them, Ms. Tian's pregnancy is a precious gift from God.
2. Xiao Tianci's growth path: In the endless love of his parents, Xiao Tianci quickly rose to become an Internet celebrity, but his brothers and sisters turned a blind eye to it
In the opposition of everyone, Xiao Tianci, the "heaven-send" baby, finally came to the world. For the elderly Tian couple, she is undoubtedly their most valuable wealth in their later years, and it is also their greatest pride.
Bathed in the endless love of his parents since he was a child, Xiao Tianci grew up like a little princess who was carefully cared for by the second elder. They gave all their love to this junior.
The second elder often took Xiao Tianci to play in the countryside of the farmhouse, and watched her grow up healthy and happy under his careful care, and his heart was full of joy.
In order to witness every moment of the baby's growth, Mr. Tian and his wife specially opened a private account to record the bits and pieces of the little one's life. They don't have any special purpose, but they just want to preserve the precious mark of the growth of their children in this way.
However, what is unexpected is that the popularity of this small private account has skyrocketed at an astonishing speed, and the number of fans is as high as more than 900,000!
There are always people in the live broadcast room, and netizens have offered their most sincere blessings and support. However, in stark contrast to the enthusiastic response of his parents and fans, it is the indifference and alienation of Xiao Tianci's older siblings.
They are busy with work most of the time, and they don't seem to pay enough attention to the sister who suddenly appeared in the house, and every time the brothers and sisters fail to attend every birthday party, it can't help but make people wonder, whether they have really accepted the new member of Xiao Tianci?
3. The current situation: Xiao Tianci is 4 years old, and his parents are very spoiled, but the room is empty, and his brothers and sisters are absent
Recently, Xiao Tianci ushered in the fourth birthday of his life. On this special day, Mr. and Mrs. Tian carefully planned a grand birthday party, creating an environment full of warmth and love for their beloved baby.
The colorful colored balls, balloons and cherub-shaped decorations in the house all tell their endless love for Xiao Tianci, and the faces of the two old people are full of happy smiles, and their eyes always follow Xiao Tianci, for fear of missing any of her expressions and movements.
A sea of blessings poured into the live broadcast room: "I wish Xiao Tianci a happy 4th birthday!" "My baby daughter is a year older again!" Looking at Xiao Tianci's childish face in front of the camera, the eyes of the two old people were full of deep doting.
They are like happy grandparents, looking forward to the healthy and happy growth of little Tianci.
Xiao Tianci blinked his big eyes, as if he was a little confused: "Mom and Dad, where have my brothers and sisters gone? Why didn't you come to my birthday party?" Facing the helpless expressions of his parents, although Xiao Tianci didn't ask any further, he obviously noticed something unusual.
As a four-year-old child, she may not understand why her brothers and sisters are suspicious of her, a sister who was born "accidentally".
Fourth, the bitterness: The parents are old, the mother's health is deteriorating day by day, and the second elder is full of loneliness and helplessness in his heart
After the birthday party, the two elders quietly closed the live broadcast room, and the room fell silent instantly. At this moment, they are the only ones who bear the indescribable loneliness and helplessness alone.
Ms. Tian, who is now in her prime, lives with her husband, who is also in her seventies. When they saw the busy figures of the children in the neighbor's yard, they couldn't help but feel a huge loneliness in their hearts.
Faced with the indifferent attitude of their children towards Xiao Tianci's younger sister, they were deeply shocked.
As the years passed, Ms. Tian's physical condition deteriorated. Cerebrovascular disease, which she suffered from many years ago, is now a serious threat to her health, and dizziness and inconvenience have become the norm in her life.
Looking at his lover's physically and mentally exhausted appearance, Mr. Tian's heart was full of sourness. As a solid backing for his wife, he also felt deep powerlessness and regret when he saw his lover so haggard.
Every time his wife struggled to pick up a glass of water, or sat in the yard in a daze, his heart would be deeply stabbed.
Even Mr. Tian, who has always been optimistic and open-minded, gradually suffered from geriatric diseases such as high blood pressure and high blood sugar. The once energetic couple has now entered a faltering old age.
Although they resolutely decided to give birth to Xiao Tianci back then, they were actually full of worries deep down. Once they die, how will the little godsends, who are alone, deal with themselves? Even their closest children have a grudge against this sister and cannot give her enough love and care.
Perhaps it was because they were too obsessed with the stubbornness of young people that they were so determined. However, now that they have entered their twilight years and their lives are coming to an end, they have begun to feel the helplessness and fear.
5. Review of the past: The pregnancy at an advanced age caused strong opposition from the family, and the husband and wife still resolutely gave birth to a little godsend, looking forward to some sustenance in their later years
Recalling the pregnancy scene back then, Mr. and Mrs. Tian still remember it vividly.
At that time, Ms. Tian had reached the age of 67, and the pregnancy was undoubtedly a miracle for the childless elderly couple. They thought they could enjoy their old age in peace, but they never expected that God would give them this unexpected gift.
When they learned that the results of the examination at that time had revealed that they were pregnant, everyone could be said to be shocked. As an experienced gynaecologist, Mr. Tian is well aware of the enormous risks that advanced maternal age may face.
If she takes the risk of having a child at this age, I am afraid that if an unexpected situation occurs, I am afraid that Ms. Tian will be unable to save her life. Therefore, at the initial stage, he insisted that his wife give up the child to prevent the danger to his own safety.
However, Ms. Tian was full of joy at this sudden "surprise". Having children by your side in later life will undoubtedly greatly reduce loneliness. Moreover, they are now in retirement and have a stable pension income, so they don't have to worry about their children.
"When the baby is born, we will naturally have enough time to take care of her!" Ms. Tian said excitedly.
Despite their children's best efforts to dissuade them, the Tian couple firmly chose to have this child. They look forward to having a cute baby to live with in their old age, so that the days will no longer seem lonely.
At the time, the children strongly questioned their parents' decision, believing it to be too crazy and irresponsible.
"You should have the best time for yourself, not be so burdened with yourself. If the child is not properly cared for after birth, it is not up to us to take on the responsibility in the end?"
However, in the face of the opposition from their families, the Tian couple showed a very different attitude. For this "God-gifted" child, they cherish and look forward to it. Perhaps it is because of this deep desire that they are so obsessed with their decisions.