There are many reasons why women leave men, but there is only one reason. Don't believe it. If you don't believe me, let's look at an example.
They were together for four years, they had known each other since school, and they were both female chasers.
They had known each other for less than two months, and they had been together for more than a month. At that time, she had been with him all day, like a couple for many years. This happiness lasts until graduation. They go to a city together and work together. At this time, the days are still happy.
One day, she suddenly found out that she was pregnant with a baby. He loved her, so he wouldn't let her work, and when he stayed at home, he went to work to earn money. When she was about to give birth, he returned to her and accompanied her. During that time, it was actually difficult, and for her, it was very lonely.
After the baby was born, it was a girl, a beautiful and cute girl, he liked it very much, and so did she. After the child was born, they made up the wedding. When the child is not yet one year old, they discuss leaving the child in their hometown to be cared for by their parents, and they go out to work.
However, after only 3 months of work, she said that she was too tired, so she quit the job and changed places, hoping to find a more comfortable job. However, she was not satisfied with finding a lot of jobs, and her mood was getting worse and worse. In the middle, he has also been deceived by intermediaries many times. They also borrowed a lot of money from friends. Later, with no way out, she went to KTV to find a job. He didn't want her to go, he thought it was too complicated, but he couldn't find a good job for a while, only this, she felt that it was OKAY, the problem was that she needed to earn money, otherwise, she had to pay back the debt, and the living expenses became a problem.
However, since she went to work there, their feelings gradually faded. Although he also found a job, the two people had a conflict in their rest time, and there was not much time to meet. Once, when she came back, he found a lot of faint strawberries on her neck. He was immediately disappointed and heartbroken, and he thought she must have done something to be sorry for herself. He pressed her to ask her what had happened. She cried and said, "Let's break up." ”
That night, he ran out alone and got drunk.
Later, he learned that she was in love with one of his colleagues, also a colleague of the woman. One day, she stopped coming home, he couldn't contact her, she didn't reply to his message, just sent a "I'm fine, don't look for me", and didn't reply to his message. He also foolishly used self-harm to blackmail her back, but she was determined.
They didn't get a license, and just like that, they were cut off in two...
He said he loved her very much and said that the reason she left her was because of her orientation was wrong... He wanted to save her, I don't know, is there any hope?
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After watching his plea for help, my heart was really complicated. My complication is that he has no idea what the real reason for the breakup is, and what he sees is only superficial. He always naively thought that she was in love with a female colleague, or that she was being pestered by a female colleague. In fact, if a woman leaves a man, if it is not a man's betrayal, if it is not a man who empathizes with him, not a man who has done something sorry for a woman, there is only one reason, and it can only be one. That is, you can't give her the life she wants, and you can't meet her satisfaction financially.
So, it was still the pressure of reality that made her see no hope and made her physically and mentally exhausted, so she ran away. When two people are under great financial pressure, neither person will be in a very good state. You will give her less care and love, if she wants to carry life with you, if she is not a strong person, it will be easy to collapse, will complain. Therefore, the so-called empathy is actually based on her dissatisfaction with you.
Moreover, this kind of disappointment is not accumulated in one day or two days, from the time you step out of the campus and face life, it has begun to accumulate. Unsatisfied with work, unmarried and pregnant, men are not around when she needs someone to accompany her most. The child is not yet one year old, leaving the child behind. Hard work, change jobs, and be deceived by intermediaries... This series of unsatisfactory, let her finally give up! That's the real reason why women leave men! Don't really think about it!
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