Yesterday, Wang Lihong posted a blog admitting that he had applied for divorce with Li Lianglei, and quickly rushed to the hot search of major platforms.
Weibo reads up to 1.2 billion, discussed 97,000.
What was once a Mandarin duck lover is now two wide, which is infinitely regrettable.
This year is also known as the "first year of divorce in the entertainment industry".
In 2021, Zhao Liying Feng Shaofeng divorced, Fukuhara Aijiang Hongjie divorced, Chen Sicheng Tong Liya divorced, big s Wang Xiaofei divorced, Li Xiang Wang Yuelun divorced... The stars can be said to be from the beginning of the year to the end of the year.
Recently, a drama series that also focuses on the lives of divorced people, "Xiao MinJia", was launched.
Produced by Lemon Meng Pictures, directed by Wang Jun and screenwriter Huang Lei.
This is the third work of the production team's "small series", the first "Little Parting" Douban 8.0, the second "Little Joy" Douban 8.2.
Starring Zhou Xun and Huang Lei, following "April Day on Earth" and "Orange Red", they once again held hands on the small screen and were highly anticipated.
The play is adapted from the novel of the same name by writer Itachi. On the day of the launch, it topped a number of Weibo hot searches, and the popularity of Youku on the first day of the station exceeded 9,000. The first episode was the first in the ratings of the whole network.
Many Douban netizens praised the drama after watching it:
How the show really is, let's see.
01 People reach middle age and meet love again
In the play, Zhou Xun plays liu xiaomin, a midwife, and Huang Lei plays Chen Zhuo, a grassroots elder of an Internet company. They are forty years old, old and young, divorced in marriage, and their careers have encountered bottlenecks. This stage of life is called the Mature Age Clan.
The term "ripe year" comes from Japan.
Mature people refer to people who have a fairly good social status and economic level like ripe fruits, but also face many challenges such as marriage change, pension, loneliness, and mortgage because they are middle-aged.
These life problems naturally have a strong dramatic tension.
At the beginning of the first episode, XiaoMin and Chen Zhuo are preparing to celebrate the first anniversary of their love, but Xiaomin's son Jiajun and his mother Wang Sumin suddenly visit from their hometown. The love affair between the two began to face many tests.
When Xiao Min was young, under the arrangement of her mother, she married Lu Jinbo, the factory boy in her hometown, and gave birth to her son Jia Jun.
But Lu Jinbo drank and gambled heavily, and his debts were high.
In a married life without any happiness to speak of, Xiao Min often wrote letters to a teacher to exchange poetry.
However, this pure relationship was turned into a "spurious" cheating incident by false rumors, and Xiao Min lost her reputation and was also divorced.
After that, Xiaomin went to Beijing alone to work hard, and in order to escape gossip, she rarely contacted people in her hometown.
Until, Xiao Min met Chen Zhuo, the ex-husband of Fa Xiao Li Ping.
Chen Zhuo is a typical good man who does not gamble or prostitute himself, but does not have much professionalism.
His wife, Li Ping, hated Chen Zhuo and divorced him. Chen Zhuo's self-esteem was hurt, but he could only bear it alone.
Xiao Min and Chen Zhuo healed each other at first sight and talked about "underground love" in a low-key manner.
Neither partner wants to remarry, feeling unnecessary and too troublesome.
The original describes this as:
For remarriage, she and Chen Zhuo are very cautious. The second is to enter the city, it is not as easy as now, standing on the edge of the siege, attacking and retreating. They all pay more attention to spiritual communication.
A scene can be seen in the sweetness and bitterness of Xiao Min and Chen Zhuo's feelings.
02 Bittersweet and sweet middle-aged love
Xiao Min and Chen Zhuo's one-year anniversary commemoration plan was ruined by the sudden visit of Xiao Min's family.
Chen Zhuo, who has a romantic heart, drove to the downstairs of Xiao Min's house late at night and opened the trunk to prepare surprises for Xiao Min - roses and flashing lights.
Xiao Min's expression was first faint, as if she didn't care. In the blink of an eye, he looked down and snickered, and joy surged into the corners of his eyebrows.
Zhou Xun interpreted the stability of middle-aged people and the shyness of girls in love to the fullest.
During the ceremony, Xiao Min saw Chen Zhuo take out a gift box similar to a ring and was about to kneel, and she immediately jumped up in alarm.
Chen Zhuo smiled broadly and said, "You can rest assured, it is not an engagement ring." ”
Xiao Min immediately relaxed.
Adult love has a tacit understanding of each other's hearts, and there are boundaries that understand each other.
This tacit understanding makes them comfortable and sweet, and also reflects the difficulty of their love.
At the first anniversary ceremony, Xiaomin said to Chen Zhuo: I want to thank you, I have had a very happy year.
For Xiao Min, being able to fall in love happily is already a gift and gift of life.
For the future, they dare not think much.
In the car, Xiao Min pretended to inadvertently ask Chen Zhuo: If my mother supports me, will you marry me?
Chen Zhuo hesitated.
He confessed: Not because we don't love, but because we all need to think too much.
The first is the children of two people.
Jiajun lacked maternal love from an early age, and his father drank and gambled heavily. He developed a deep-minded, sensitive and stubborn personality.
He scored excellent in the college entrance examination, but he was still 2 points away from the ideal Tsinghua University, and Jia Jun insisted on re-reading.
The mother and son have not seen each other for many years, and it is inevitable that they will be strange, and Xiaomin wants to take this opportunity to repair the relationship with her son.
If the son knows his love situation, he will inevitably be more estranged from himself.
Chen Zhuo's daughter Jiajia, with a sensitive and stubborn personality and lack of security, is very reluctant to remarry Chen Zhuo.
This is followed by the predecessor.
Xiaomin's ex-husband Jin Bo, because of the failure of investment debts, came to Beijing to find a job and wanted to turn to Xiaomin.
Wang Subunian arranged accommodation for Jin Bo on years of affection, and also urged her daughter to find a job for Jin Bo.
Jin Bo is lazy and lazy, in urgent need of money and sensitive and suspicious.
He asked his son for more money in the name of living expenses.
Xiao Min didn't want to tangle with her ex-husband at all, but she couldn't tear her face because of her son.
Chen Zhuo's ex-wife Li Ping is already worth more than 10 million.
But Li Ping has a strong personality and her mouth is broken. If Li Ping knows that she and Xiao min are in love, it is inevitable that there will be more right and wrong.
Finally, there are the parents.
Xiao Min's mother has a strong personality and has a great say in the family. For Xiao Min to remarry, her mother is also anxious to look forward to it.
She hopes that Xiaomin will have a companion in the old age, and she is afraid that Xiaomin will suffer losses, so she is picky about her future son-in-law.
In addition, Xiao Min and Li Ping are fellow villagers. When Xiao Min remarries, it is inevitable that she will face the scrutiny of the strange eyes of others.
Xiao Min and Chen Zhuo have both been injured in marriage, if there is a problem with the relationship after remarriage, how to deal with it?
03 True and happy
"Xiao Min Jia" takes the "difficult love" of Xiao Min and Chen Zhuo as the main line, and writes the spiritual and material life of three generations of contemporary old, middle and young people.
Xiao Min's sister Xiao Jie, with excellent grades from an early age, successfully entered a state-owned enterprise after graduation and engaged in the publishing industry.
She flashed marriage to her ex-husband. After marriage, he found that her husband was a mother treasure man, did not seek advancement, and quickly flashed away.
When divorced, Ma Bao Nan remembered his mother's words and wanted to return the wedding ring:
It was passed on to my mother by my grandmother
My mom said (divorced)
Let me get the ring back
Xiao Jie was scarred in his marriage.
After the divorce, Xiao Jie, who is over thirty years old, thinks that he looks good, works hard, and still has a future to look forward to.
After Xiao Jie met her new boyfriend Xu Zheng, the two fell in love, but this relationship was opposed by Xu Zheng's family.
"Divorce" is like a label that cannot be shaken off, so that Xiao Jie occupies a disadvantage in the relationship between the two.
Xiaomin's mother, Wang Sumin, divorced when she was young. Over the years, she devoted all her efforts to taking care of her two daughters and never remarried. In old age, she has to face the sudden changes in her daughters' marriages and consider her own later life.
After Li Ping remarried, she started from scratch with her husband and became rich with assets of over 100 million, but the two never had children of their own. Li Ping, who is over forty years old, keeps trying IVF, but always fails.
A netizen described "Xiao Minjia": "All the dramatization that occurs in a family reflects the world's various situations, and young and middle-aged people have their own anxieties and wanderings. ”
Seeing these real, trivial and direct life problems, it is very easy for the audience to substitute for themselves and think about the meaning of life.
But the drama not only shows anxiety, but also shoots the decency of adults and the beauty of life.
Li Ping is pregnant, and JiaJia makes a big fuss because she is worried that she has fallen out of favor. Chen Zhuo patiently enlightened her: Your mother has become a family, and having children is her freedom and right. It's not easy for her to get pregnant, and you have to be more considerate of her.
When it comes to breaking up with his ex-wife, Chen Zhuo never demeans the other party, but boils down to the fact that the two are not interested, regardless of right or wrong.
Xiao Min is afraid that her mother and son will think too much, saying that Chen Zhuo is an online ride-hailing driver, chen Zhuo understands Xiao Min's difficulties and is very cooperative.
For Xiao Min's past, Chen Zhuo was relieved: "The things in the past are to let it pass. ”
The decency of adults lies in knowing each other's difficulties and the hardships of life, and being able to act rationally.
"Marriage can't define our lives, but love can." This is the idea that "Little MinJia" tries to convey.
The value of "Little MinJia" also lies in this.
In middle age, after experiencing the fragility of love and the torture of marriage, the "little mins" still bravely rush to love, maintain hope and vision for life, transparency and open-mindedness.
In the era of anxiety everywhere, the life state of the "little mins" makes people comfortable and at ease.
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