Does a woman's looks and attractiveness have an inevitable relationship?
You might answer "yes", but what I'm going to tell you is "really not".
Just like the aunt in "The First Incense", according to the original work, she is not as young as Ge Weilong, nor is she as beautiful as her, but she can make Wei Long's classmates fascinated.
There is also Zhang Wei's wife Liu Ying, who is also mediocre in the entertainment industry, but it is to let the "human boutique" Zhang Wei announce to the world: to have a wife is to have the whole world...
There is indeed such a woman in life, with a plain appearance, but she is worshipped as a goddess by a man. It's like a roommate that my fans love.
Her appearance and outfit are indeed not as good as Xinyi, but Xinyi told me that the boys who chased her roommate, not to mention the row from Beijing to France, there were at least twenty or thirty people. What's even more enviable is that each of her roommate's boyfriends is handsome.
Apparently, the more popular roommate made her feel very unbalanced, and she asked me anxiously:
"Teacher, what do you mean by that?" I really don't understand men's eyes. ”
Looking at Xinyi's small mouth, I immediately smiled:
"Xinyi, we might as well think about this from a different perspective."
This girl is so ordinary, so bright, she can still attract the attention of so many male gods, what does this mean? This shows that in the process of attracting male gods, external conditions are not the most important, and the skills of seducing male gods are important.
Moreover, such an ordinary girl, after mastering the skill of seducing male gods, can successfully attract so many male gods. You are so beautiful and in such good shape, when you master these skills, won't you be able to attract more male gods? ”
After listening to my words, Xinyi nodded continuously. I know that in real life, there are not a few girls who have the same needs as Xinyi.
So, today I'm here to uncover for you the secret of the love of those geniuses who are exploding.
Genius Secret Formula 1: Make a man feel special
There are thousands of tricks for flirting with men, but they are always changing. This "sect" is that you want your lover to feel that when he is in front of you, he will always be radiant.
We can think back to when we were young, which teacher was our favorite?
Generally speaking, our favorite teacher is the teacher who prefers us, because his preference for us makes us see our own value and makes us feel good.
It's the same with this kind of affection in a relationship between a man and a woman, and we all like the guy who always affirms us and makes us feel good.
Europe and the United States have a little genius in love who practices this law, and the host Pete Davidson, he has been in contact with the American traffic queen Kim Kardashian, ins fans of tens of millions of American diva A sister, national supermodel Kaia Jepper...
These women are all beautiful and famous, with a family of over 100 million, and countless people chase them, but they all choose this little host.
Why is that?
Pitt himself put it this way:
"It's not hard to be in love, and if you're in a relationship with someone, you should make that person feel special." That's all. ”
Genius Secret Formula 2: Learn to create a sense of vulnerability
Men like women to be able to recognize him and appreciate him.
Therefore, women who talk about falling in love will give men recognition and appreciation while maintaining their own high framework. But at the same time, it is also necessary to create a sense of vulnerability.
"Keeping a high frame" does not mean that you have to be blindly cold, but your bottom line should be clear, and you must maintain a polite and kind state on the basis of not returning seconds and not easily agreeing to the invitation.
For example, if a man asks you out on a Friday, you want to go, but on the surface, you can say to him:
"Huh? On Friday, I might have something to do. So be it. I'll get back to you on Thursday at the latest, okay? ”
Wait until Thursday, and then say that you are free.
Giving a man recognition is to tell the man what you like about him, what does he do that makes you happy, and what do you appreciate most about men? In this way, men will have a direction to get along with you.
To create a sense of vulnerability, we should pay special attention to it, and the high-level sense of vulnerability is that you are strong in appearance, but only confide in men about your small vulnerability.
For example, you want to screw the cap. Usually a girl might hand a bottle to a man and say, "Screw it for me." ”
But a more advanced approach is that you screw it yourself, but you can't screw it no matter how you screw it. At this time, the man will take the initiative to help you, you say:
"Thank you, I'm usually not embarrassed to trouble others, hey hey, it's good to have you."
Then you smile shyly. Obviously, the second sense of vulnerability is more advanced.