Author: One flower
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Leonidova said: "The foundation of marriage is love, attachment, respect. ”
It is not a matter of two people for men and women to form a family, but two people love each other is the premise, and only when they communicate with each other, understand each other, and respect each other, will there be a possibility of happiness. However, not everyone can understand this truth, if there is something impure in the marriage, there is bound to be a tragedy.
Qiao Qi and Ge Weilong in Zhang Ailing's "First Burning Incense" are typical of "tragedy". Before meeting Ge Weilong, Georgie had countless ambiguous objects, and even her aunt, Mrs. Liang, had a relationship with him.
One of the most common words on Georgie's mouth is: "I will not marry you, let alone say I love you, but I can give you happiness." ”
Women who have seen the world can see through at a glance, and Georgie's words are the usual tricks to coax women. But Ge Weilong, who had been raised in the deep boudoir, could not resist such a provocation, but only met two or three times, and was broken.
A woman like Ge Weilong will only leave her first time to her husband, although Ge Qiqi has repeatedly told her that she will not get married, but Ge Weilong still has some luck. She naively thought she could exchange her virginity for Georgie's prodigal son.
But I didn't want to, after all, I still paid it wrong, and the next morning, Ge Qi came out of the maid Ni'er's room and completely shattered Ge Weilong's beautiful yearning for love and marriage. For the sake of Ge Weilong, the aunt repeatedly negotiated with Ge Qiqi, but still could not exchange a marriage promise.
Revisiting "The First Burning Incense", I understand the real reason why Ge Qiqi and Ge Weilong got married, there are two main points, which make people sigh.
First, the legal level
Wanting to keep Ge Weilong and let her continue to recruit men for herself, her aunt knew that the only way was to let Georgie marry her. In order to let Qiao Qi marry Ge Weilong, the aunt did not spend less effort, but after many times of good words and persuasion, Qiao Qi was still unmoved and always unwilling to give Ge Weilong a name.
In desperation, the aunt can only come up with British law to intimidate Georgie, if the Ge family makes trouble, Geqi will definitely be overwhelmed and will suffer from imprisonment.
Georgie was not welcomed by her father, this kind of scandal broke out, her father would be more tired of him, and then he might completely cut off his living expenses, Georgie could not bear this consequence, and the idea of not marrying was shaken.
Second, the young and beautiful Ge Weilong can earn money to raise
Ge Weilong once asked her aunt and learned that the reason why Georgie did not marry was that she had no money. Georgie has no ability to make money, her mother died early, and he is just a parasite that lies on her father's body and eats.
Of course, Ge Weilong has no money, and her original family is also very poor, but Ge Weilong can use her gender advantage to make money by relying on her youthful beauty advantage, to put it bluntly, it is a social flower who sells her flesh.
Since ancient times, men have been responsible for making money to support their families, women are responsible for beautiful flowers, or couples work hard together, which has become the consensus of society. There are very few women like Georgie who rely on their own to cling to other men to make a living. From this point of view, Ge Weilong is really sad.
Third, divorce is also a breeze
What moves Qiao Qi the most is that in addition to Ge Weilong being able to make money to support his family, there is also a point, that is, marriage will not bring him any bondage, once Ge Weilong looks old and no longer has the ability to make money, he can file for divorce anytime and anywhere.
Under British law, divorce is not an easy task unless evidence of infidelity by one of the parties is caught. Ge Weilong is a social flower on the surface, and Georgie wants to catch evidence of her adultery with a man, which is almost handy.
Without paying any price, you can marry a wife who earns money to support the family, and you can dissolve at any time, this deal, Georgie is sure to make money, why not enjoy it?
Combining the above, I understand the real reason why Ge Qiqi and Ge Weilong got married, and these three reasons are really heart-wrenching and sighing. However, Ge Weilong is not stupid, she knows very well why Georgie, who has always been under the banner of not getting married, suddenly changed her mind and proposed to her.
To put it bluntly, Zhou Yu beat Huang Gai, one is willing to fight, one is willing to be beaten, Ge Weilong for the so-called love and luxury of high society, willing to degenerate, there is nothing to regret.
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